I have a friend that is real sexy and that I masturbate to, do I tell her? She knows that I find her hot but..

Question

She knows that I masturbate a lot and she finds that kinky and she's always asking about my penis and grabs it sometimes

Answer 1

no
she will find it offensive
unless she is very sexual, then i guess u should tell her

Answer 2

Depends on how you put it out there. It can be incredibly creepy, incredibly funny, or even, possibly, depending on the girl, provacative. I would say stick with a funny statement of fact at an opportune time, in a level, assertive, matter-of-fact voice. Make sure it is done with a small group who knows each other fairly well for the best results humor-wise. But yeah, really, stay away from making it a creepy deal.

Answer 3

Nah, do NOT tell her that or any other obvious compliment, that's a good way to be predictable like every other guy (or act like you are dating in the 1950's).
If you want to telling her that do it about 90% with tone of voice and body language and about 10% or less with words (and when you do use words, be very original and daring). Girls take this kind of action of a sign of guys' experience and skill, both socially and sexually.

Tell her something everyday but kinda cocky like "oh so you think you are getting brownie points here you don't want to go do you?" when she's getting on the bus but going slowly as if she might as well be doing something else with you. Then say something like "you have a pimple on your left cheek" or something that's not perfectly beautiful about her, but say it in a fairly attracted voice so she know you are flirting not making fun of her. If you catch her looking you in the eye long enough look back: if her pupils open up and stay like that for about 2.5 seconds just kiss her...if she gives you the "I want to be friends" look at her in a somewhat sexual way and just say something like "so you call this fun?" in a teasing way.

Just make sure you let her know you do NOT feel guilty about having a physical side of you and are NOT as simple as guys who rattle off lines about her looks (and make her feel like she is too good for them).

Answer 4

No, no, no, no, nooooo...Don't tell her. 1. You risk ending your fantasy because she may react negatively to it, 2. It sounds pretty bad unless you talk like that already. But also, if she thinks your hot and is ok with that why don't you see if she's interested in you? To me, if I say, "I think your hot!" to a girl and she's fine with it, my foot is already in the door. Then if, and only if, you are seeing each other might she think you masturbating to her is a good, possibly hot, kind of thing, but IMHO not before.

Answer 5

Better wait until you get to know her better as she might be put off by your candor. Until you get to the point of close intimacy just cool the temptation to tell her such personal info. These things are best shared with close sex partners. It's probably OK to tell her she looks good to you and all but until the time arises for those special encounters you better just enjoy your fantasy. Keep it to yourself for now and try not to come on too strong.

Answer 6

Why on earth would you tell her that? If she's your girlfriend or eventually becomes it, you can tell her, but whatever is in your fantasies should stay in there and come out only as actions! If a guy friend told me that I'd laugh with him (or however else he wants me to react) but I'd go home thinking he's freaky for having told me!

Answer 7

I assume that all of my male friends have masterbated to me at one point or another. And no I'm not being conceited. They are guys which means they will masterbate to whatever female image may pop into their mind at the time.

DO NOT TELL HER!!!! It is assumed but kinda creepy if you actually say it out loud to her.

Answer 8

It's better to tell her cause u can't masturbate all the time its no use so explain to her and tell her how u feel about her.

Answer 9

I honestly would find it a major compliment if a guy told me he had a wet dream about me or masturbated to me. But he'd have to do it in a joking way or else it would be wierd. Also, telling her may ruin the appeal of it. Right now it's you own dirty little secret...

Answer 10

She will think sumthin wrong w/ ya , so no don't tell her u masturbate thinkin about her. If u want 2 sleep w/ her, just ask?

Answer 11

Um yeah...just to be on the safe side, I would refrain from telling her if you ever want to have any shot of hitting that. When it comes to telling girls that you think of them while stroking it...less is more, WAY less is WAY more (unless she's a whore). Hey that rhymes. ;-)