2006-12-19 17:28:13 · 11 answers · asked by matrimony x 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
do it anyway. it is your job as a woman to please the man
2006-12-19 17:30:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 4⤋
Depends what it is but just as a general question. hmmmm I would say if it is something that involves you then you should inform your partner of your feelings. He/she might have absolutely no idea how you feel about this. Remember the biggest problem in relationships is lack of communication and expectations. Either way your partner cannot read minds so you must communicate that to him/her so they know what you expect of them. Because if they do not know what you expect of them, then they will have no idea why you are mad when they do not meet your expectations. If it doesn't relate to you then I think all you can do is learn as much as you can about whatever the other partner is into, talk to them about it and express your feelings on the matter. Tell em if that really is what they like that is fine and you will not interfere but to not expect you to join in this activity. A lot of times when one partner is uncomfortable with something a partner is doing it is because they are uninformed about it or do not understand why that partner finds that activity attractive. Remember understanding and communication is key.
2006-12-19 17:43:15 · answer #2 · answered by Danny 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him/her that you don't like what they are doing and that you don't want to be a part of it. If it is something questionable or not quite legal, you should also inform them that if they get caught, you are not going to lie for them. If it is something intimate that your partner thinks would be fun, just say no, and stand firm. Don't let yourself be intimidated into being molested. You can not change them, but you can change you. Leave if it is too much.
2006-12-19 17:33:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can't control how others act...or react. All you can control is how you react. Here, you are reacting negatively to something your partner does. You can control how you react...you can't control how your partner acts. So, the only area where you can work is to work on your acceptance of what's being done by your partner.
2006-12-19 17:33:30 · answer #4 · answered by judgebill 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should talk to them about what is making you uncomfortable.They cant read your mind so it is best to be upfront about it.Otherwise it will eat you up or cause you to grow apart in what could be a strong relationship
2006-12-19 17:31:21 · answer #5 · answered by hotchocolatecherry 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of you go to a com place and have a open speach and tell about your feelings when he/she is in com mood.
2006-12-19 17:44:18 · answer #6 · answered by jayaram 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to that person
2006-12-19 17:30:14 · answer #7 · answered by erinboberin21 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk to each other about it
communication is the key
2006-12-19 17:39:54 · answer #8 · answered by Bren 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be honest and tell that person how you feel.
2006-12-19 17:30:55 · answer #9 · answered by curtf1964 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
handle with care.....
2006-12-19 17:37:42 · answer #10 · answered by shuvadip d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋