Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

I was totally in love with her, but we argued over telling my parents/work that we are together. I look exceptionally straight, and have been with men mostly, however I totally fell in love with this woman and believe we could be happy together for the rest of our lives. My ex has approached me again and said she is willing to work it out, and not force me into telling my parents (most of my friends know). However we want to get married. My mum will disown me if she found out. She is very homophobic, as is the rest of my entire family. I am torn between being with the person I love and leaving her so my family never have to know. I know that thy would never forgive me, and I can choose which is going to giveme more pain. However I know she makes me happier than ever! She is my soul mate, but why is it coming at a price?

2006-12-13 03:27:38 · 9 answers · asked by Sophie 3 in Singles & Dating

I really believe that this guy and me have something special and now he wants 2 meet me - should I meet him? I think I have fallen for him............... Help me pls!!!!

2006-12-13 03:27:11 · 14 answers · asked by Daisy 1 in Singles & Dating

I Love my boyfriend so much, and I want to be with him forever. He had some past girls ever since I left him last year, now he's in trouble with some guy, then he comes and sees the girl he was seeing before me and him got back again (we got together again in november of this year). However, she called him, and can you beleive she invited him over and he told me she kissed him but he pushed her back and said he had a girl, but then im like 'why did you go?' and I just get so frustrated. What can I do, he says he trully loves me and wants to marry me some day. I also want to marry him because I love him, but all this gets in the way and
I haven't even been able to sleep. This may seem confusing, but if you have any advice I'd really appreciate it, or anything that you can tell me to make me see or make things better

2006-12-13 03:25:16 · 16 answers · asked by Candy_T 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he has photos of his ex girlfriend in her undewear on his phone he claims that she sent them to him, he has also lied about meeting up with her. he claims that they are just friends. She always phones him and sends him text messages. I don't want him to have any contact with her anymore, they have no reason to keep in contact no kids or mutual friends. He asked me to marry him, but i don't feel that he loves me enough. i love him very much but also i want someone who treats me like a girlfriend not a friend. he never stands up for me. is it wrong that i want someone to treat me like i'm the most important thing in the world, not ignore me to talk on the phone to their ex or their playstation. someone that doesn't answer their phone during sex, that gives me their full attention when they are with me. he never introduces me to his friends. i don't know what to do anymore

2006-12-13 03:24:26 · 26 answers · asked by jadescorpionbite 1 in Singles & Dating

ok here is the deal. i met a girl earlier in the year. she was with her boyfriend of over a year and it was coming to an end. right as it was ending i started hanging out with her. then she dumped him. and after waiting a month i asked her out, but i also asked if it was too soon because i really liked her and was willing to just be friends a while longer, to which she said of course not. so we have been going out for almost two months now and i fell for her. she told me that she loved me and i sincerely told her back because i really do. however, the past week or s she had been distancing a bit from me and as we hadnt seen each other in a while i asked if she still liked me over the phone, i would have rather done it in person but we couldnt find the time and i was getting worried. so she said basically that she thinks that she jumped into this too quickly and never got her freedom. so, what can i do to put things how they were before we actually break up. i think im in love with her.

2006-12-13 03:24:04 · 7 answers · asked by stev-o 1 in Singles & Dating

I have know him about a month and last sat i had too much to drink and slept with him. i regret it as i did not want to do it so early. He said he was coming to see me on wednesday, and now he says hes working wednesday, do you think he just used me, although he said he was not expecting it. I don,t want to have sex with him again until i know him alot better and knwo how he truly thinks about me, i have made a big mistake and regret him. i don,t think i am going to hear from him again, although he did phone the other day, i really like him as well and don,t want to lose him, what ought i to do. I don,t want him to think i am crazy about him. although i am quite a bit, or have him take me for granted, what the best way out of this.

2006-12-13 03:23:52 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:23:27 · 2 answers · asked by Craig L 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:23:11 · 8 answers · asked by bhagyashrigawde 1 in Singles & Dating

I have the best wife on Earth. I am the luckiest... Please offer suggestions on how I can tell her. I think I am pretty creative but I will gladly use cool or cute ideas I am capable of. What has melted your heart. Intricate is okay, she so-o-o-o-o deserves it!!! (oh yeah, she's pregnant!! no skydiving trip ideas) Thank you.

2006-12-13 03:23:10 · 3 answers · asked by deeply interested 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Well to start off: I've known this girl for more than a year and in this time she has proved on a daily basis that she is perfect(my own definition of perfect being: kind,smart,funny,cute and friendly) and during the summer i ended up falling for her(hard would be an understatement)... now comes the sad part: i've talked to her over the last month and a half online and i told her exactly how i see her and how i feel for her and she told me that she didn't see as anything more than a very good friend(well brother is the term she used but in a non-literal sense) and subsequent talks with her have revealed that i'm neither her type(the kind of guy she usually dates) and that she will probably never see me as anything more than i already am...a brother...at the present time i'm hiding my emotions...and its not hard...more like damn near impossible...any advice for a doomed soul guys and girls?

2006-12-13 03:23:05 · 1 answers · asked by Lone Silver Wolf 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:23:02 · 5 answers · asked by besthusbandever 4 in Singles & Dating

I was cheated on. Now an old boyfriend wants me to meet him on a business trip. He is married. Before being cheated on, I would never have even considered it. Now I have even given it consideration. I am not going to. But don't you think that is the real problem with all of this? It encourages similar behavior?

2006-12-13 03:22:55 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

when I say go there... I mean, like relationship wise. We both are mature enough to handle it but it feels like we're breaking the rules of friendship. Just give me some feedback.

2006-12-13 03:22:33 · 16 answers · asked by hunnybee032001 2 in Friends

RUSSIAN GIRL IS EMAILING ME SENDING ME SEXY PICS NOW TODAY SHE IS ASKING FOR 400 euros and sent me a pic that does not even look like the other i think it's a crime gang looking to get rich off stupid people,,,what shall i do?

2006-12-13 03:22:01 · 15 answers · asked by DMT 1 1 in Singles & Dating

So, here's the deal. I'm a smart guy. I already have a degree from a very prestigious university, and I'm currently getting my graduate degree. If I wanted to do, I could easily get a job paying six figures and live a traditional American life. But I don't want to.

I want to spend my time instead traveling around the world, seeing different places and different cultures. I'm feeling really disenchanted with American life and the culture of materialism and consumption.

I want to live a much simpler life. I want to travel around the Third World where it is much cheaper to sleep and eat. I want to work as a freelance writer and activitst. I wont necessarily make much (or any) money but thats ok, since i have enough to support myself for several years.

I'd also love a girl to share these experiences with. Do you think there are any girls out there who would be interested in traveling around with me, and who wouldnt' care that I don't want to have a regular job. Where can I meet her?

2006-12-13 03:21:58 · 5 answers · asked by worldpeace 4 in Singles & Dating

I still very much like her, but I could see us being good friends. It's all my fault really, for lying continuously about the stupidest **** you could think of....i need help on that too. But I realized that I'm not ready for a relationship, although I love the attention and sharing moments together with my Sig. Other...I just screw up too much....but any ideas of getting over her? Spend money? I really miss her....

2006-12-13 03:21:38 · 20 answers · asked by chrisj7682 2 in Singles & Dating

what are they looking for from girls?what is real love for guys?

2006-12-13 03:21:27 · 21 answers · asked by gina 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:21:06 · 9 answers · asked by thank you come again 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:21:02 · 6 answers · asked by GoodQuestion 6 in Family

NOT A BIG CHRISTMAS FAN!!!, (as you can tell)

2006-12-13 03:20:50 · 5 answers · asked by Diamond 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

he is my boyfriend i gust foud out he was my cousin he don't now yet

2006-12-13 03:20:07 · 11 answers · asked by Heidi G 1 in Singles & Dating

had been with a prostitute, what would you do? Would you leave him? Would it make a difference if he's been with a hooker while he was with you, or if it was before he got in a relationship with you? And if you stayed with him, would you make him get tested for STD's?

2006-12-13 03:20:01 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

First of i'm in my late 20's so this isn't a high school puppy love story.....I'm 100% italian and i have had a few dates with a woman 100% armenian....at this point I'm head over heels but know her culture is REALLY important and that she has only ever dated armenian men before.....I'm happy that i have at least had the chance to go out with her a few times (which I was told was impossible at first). Where do i go from here? i would LOVE to hear from some armenian women on this one!!??

2006-12-13 03:19:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I knew this kid for about 9years going on 10 and i went out with him when i was a little girl .Now were older and we found each other again. WE have spent alot of time with each other and he told me alot of stuff you know, but i don't believe him. HE even looked me in my eyes and said "YOU KNOW I LOVE YOU RIGHT"! YEAH RIGHT ! i never believe him becuz he's such a player. HE flirts alot too .But yeah me him have not talked for along time and he doesn't even come around any more. IS it becuz i don't want to give it up to him or wat ? I dont know? AND also i told him straight up that i don't care about none of those other girls becuz i have been ridin with you from the start . BUT i don't know why he stop calling me. And every moment we spent 2gether has never been forgotin and has be good ,you know? SO WHY DID HE STOP CALLIN ME AND COMING AROUND?

2006-12-13 03:19:12 · 8 answers · asked by Chocolate 1 in Singles & Dating

ok i have cheated on my boy freind 2 times all ready..i mean i havent has sex just kissing other guys...well he says he 4 gives me.but deep down inside i know he hasnt..well he has been acting really diffrent since he found out,an every little fight we get into he brings it up........what do i do he wont stop throwing it in my face.i know what i did was wrong.but whats done is done...do i just break it off with him? or stay with him? he really loves me so i dont wanna hurt him.

2006-12-13 03:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by AUBRIE L 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:18:48 · 4 answers · asked by nicky 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:18:37 · 36 answers · asked by bloogin06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 03:18:29 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Of course!

2006-12-13 03:18:07 · 2 answers · asked by mp's gurl 1 in Singles & Dating

I asked this yeserday but feel like I didn't give enough details. So, here it goes again? My son turned two last Thursday. My in-laws who live 7 miles away didn't called nor came to see us. The party was set for Sunday. Friday they call to say that my mother in-laws brothers wifes mother died & the visitation will be Sunday night. It is a 4 hour trip so they will not make it to the party. But, they are coming home that night & not going to the funeral on Monday. Saturday my husband lets them know that we are hurt about the party. But they still go. We fell like they could have stayed home for the party & then went to the funeral. My husband is the only kid they have that is not on drugs & raising his kids. We never ask them for anything. We are the ones they depend on when they need something. And yes there will be other parties, but my feeling are still hurt! I told my "dad" how we feel but my "mom" has yet to talk to us or see our kids! So are we being silly? What do we do now?

2006-12-13 03:18:04 · 8 answers · asked by raynesmomie 1 in Family