I have know him about a month and last sat i had too much to drink and slept with him. i regret it as i did not want to do it so early. He said he was coming to see me on wednesday, and now he says hes working wednesday, do you think he just used me, although he said he was not expecting it. I don,t want to have sex with him again until i know him alot better and knwo how he truly thinks about me, i have made a big mistake and regret him. i don,t think i am going to hear from him again, although he did phone the other day, i really like him as well and don,t want to lose him, what ought i to do. I don,t want him to think i am crazy about him. although i am quite a bit, or have him take me for granted, what the best way out of this.
2006-12-13 03:23:52 · 11 answers · asked by denise g 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
it seems like he is not using u if he was it woulda have been w/ in a few days...take a few more times seein him....think about wat u feel about him and think about wat he feels about u once u learn to know him more, but maybe wen ur around him u shouldnt b drinkin...play it cool for a while, start to get to know him and then c if he is worth a relationship. U should be easily able to tell if he likes u after this
2006-12-13 03:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this guy likes you alot . and what happened between you too happend in the moment . someitmes people just cant control there body , so first you have to except that yes you did sleep with him and learn to not regret it beause obviously you like him. also guys cant help it if there shedule changes at work either, this happens all the time so i wouldnt worry about him missing the one day to see you. If he was using you he wouldnt have called you or have said that there were chnges with his work shedule , so you have nothing to worry about. If this guy really does like you you wont loose him. i wish you the best i hope helped.
2006-12-13 06:43:22 · answer #2 · answered by sexyshara 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unless he's different than other men, you messed up by giving him the goods. why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free? Just let him take the lead. You follow even if you're nothing but good friends, its cool.
2006-12-13 03:31:54 · answer #3 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it slow. And things should fall into place. I think that he will call you again. When he does....ask him if he wants to come over and hang out. Or go out somewhere. Ask him out to dinner....Then you'll get to know each other alot better. and things should go from there....
Good Luck ; )
2006-12-13 03:28:08 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow...i dont really know if he is using u or not?? and if u like him but dont want this to happen again tell him how u feel dont keep it inside of you because if this happens again u could possibly get pregnate and weather or not u want that responsibility its a very big one so just tell him how u feel!!
2006-12-13 03:30:34 · answer #5 · answered by mandymandy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop drinking and think about what your doing next time. Maybe just keep an eye on how drunk your getting so you can stop yourself before you are too far drunk.
2006-12-13 03:27:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Arrange to meet him another day. Loads of people take on overtime this time of year to pay for christmas.
2006-12-13 03:33:17 · answer #7 · answered by Jo 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
too late now to worry about whether he is using you,, just hope your contraception worked and keep him at arms length until you are sure of your own and his feelings
2006-12-13 04:13:13 · answer #8 · answered by robert x 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop panicking he prob did have to work unexpectedly. just chill out and play it cool with him
2006-12-13 03:26:30 · answer #9 · answered by delaruedebbie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stands you up with NO phone call, then yes, he is using you.
2006-12-13 03:31:43 · answer #10 · answered by Mintygoodness1 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋