Family & Relationships - 13 December 2006

my neice is 12 years old and has a picture of the girl Yung V on her phone, well I have known of people to ideal others but this rapper dresses like a boy, at first i thought it was a boy, well she is starting to dress like her more and more she even wants to cut her hair that is dangling on her back.I have no problem with gays but i wonder if she is gay how can i help her??????????

2006-12-13 02:58:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend brought this person that was dead back to life.Like he was waking up the dead people.

2006-12-13 02:57:57 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

I dated this guy for a long time w/no commitment, I had to let him go especially when I found out that he cheated on me. He didn't have an answer to my question if he seen me in his future. I told him that it's best to go seperate ways but we still seen each other for 2 more years. Then I let him go again b/c I asked him the same question and still no answer. I told him, the first girl he'll meet after me, he'll marry and he did. He got married not even a year of knowing her, and they have a kid now. He just got in contact with me and told me all this...He has a great job (mechanical engineer) he's in TX and is building another house. That's not fair to me! I feel that I deserve all the things that this other girl replaced me. I been with him w/no job, through college(both of our college years), 6 years with nothing. I do still care for him and wish the best for him but I still have that feeling in the back of my mind..is he rubbing it in? or is he thinking of me b/c he's not happy

2006-12-13 02:57:42 · 7 answers · asked by angelic1302 3 in Singles & Dating

Me and my boyfriend have been dating for a year and a half. I want us to make it and live forever. He doesnt know what he wants. He says we may not last forever. I know that we MAY not last, but i also know i am going to try my best to keep us together.
How do you know if you have met your soul mate? I think we are soul mates, and that he is just being logical. Is there still a chance that we could last forever?

2006-12-13 02:57:42 · 6 answers · asked by chetzel 3 in Singles & Dating

am getting married soon.Till now i have not done any sexual activities and i'm waiting to do it after my marriage only.
but i know A-Z knowledge about sex.I and my friend(girl) have watched lots of sex scenes in internet.
My question is how should i behave to my husband after marriage during sex? should i have to behave like a girl who have knowledge abt sex (OR)
should i have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex?

I am asking this question, coz my friend insisted me to behave as a girl, who don't have much knowledge abt sex.coz she told that gents will love if a girl behaves unknowingly abt sex.(i mean A-Z abt sex).

(am indian).
please advice me.
thanks in advance.

2006-12-13 02:57:19 · 24 answers · asked by ColD fIRe! 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing this great guy for a year now and we've had our ups and downs but always sort it out. Today I confessed to a past relationship with someone he knows (not a friend or anything, he just knows him) over the phone and he says he's had enough heartache from me and can't take anymore, that I should've spoken up about it before now. But there was no reason to say anything then, Now though, the "ex" is getting married to his friend and he wanted us to attend the wedding, that's why I spoke up. He says I should leave him alone. But I do love him and I'm sorry. What should I do? I don't want to lose him and we've already started planning our future together.

2006-12-13 02:57:13 · 8 answers · asked by Grey 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 02:56:43 · 10 answers · asked by guardianangel 3 in Marriage & Divorce

my boyfriend is going to go get married to someone in order to get his papers. this is something i will never do b/c it's morally wrong. he claims he doesn't want to break up with me but he just needs the space to do it and then when it's over we can be in our relationship. he still wants to do things like go the movies, and be with my family....i said absolutely not...if he loves me he wouldn't do something so outrageous. there's nothing i can say to change his mine. he's going to do it!!!!

2006-12-13 02:56:36 · 8 answers · asked by noooooooo 1 in Singles & Dating

we just decided to seprate today!and i do not want to ask him to back and start again!im just controling myself not calling him and ask him to come back!i do not want to cry also!i want to live alone without him!but do not know how i can do it!?i love him yet but i think its the best for both of us!

2006-12-13 02:56:15 · 21 answers · asked by student 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-13 02:55:48 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

That you are attached to someone you are just having casual sex with. I mean people tell me it is normal for that to eventually happen. What do people mean when they say if you are going to have casual sex you need to know how to play the game.

2006-12-13 02:55:31 · 5 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

Iam a chemical engineer, working in india... and i too have an idea of experimenting with my marriage, gettingmarried to a foreigner girl..Serious advices plz....

2006-12-13 02:55:18 · 6 answers · asked by Savior! 1 in Weddings

She and her boyfriend just broke up and I don't know what to say or do to comfort her.
She is so completely broken and hurt. I dunno what to do, I havn't really been in the same situation so i don't have any advice for her. Obviously i know these things take time to heal...but how can i help?
Any wise words would be greatly appriciated

2006-12-13 02:53:51 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

but I never lied ~ I had to see my children and she knew that ~ anyway she is an angry woman after 18 yrs marriage ~ we fell in love but for 12 months its been ups and downs ~ I KNOW SHE LOVES ME but now after 6 weeks refuses to see me or allow me to contact her

How do I get her back with her anger and perceptions ~ or how do I get her out of my head and heart to be able to sleep at night

I love her deeply and needed to wait till January before I could offer myself 100% and she knew that ~ but she couldnt wait and see's me as a bad man

I never slept around and always told her I loved her but couldnt be with her 24/7 ~ then a row one evening saw me say stupid foolish things but now she cant, wont forgive ~ or allow me to contact her.

she says she needs to move on and because I love her I am willing to allow that if thats what she wants ~ but I miss her so much (I am single and available for her if she would just take the plunge ~ one last time)

any help please

Sad Ian

2006-12-13 02:53:29 · 6 answers · asked by sad Ian 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-13 02:52:34 · 12 answers · asked by ramappa j 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

there is a freakin window right above my toilet....so anyone could see me take a sh*t at night. what do i do about this?? do i have to poop in the dark now?? do i write a letter to whoever put the toilet in or desigend the house????it has been six years already.....

i am so worried that the helicopters re just laughing at mef rom above...

2006-12-13 02:51:32 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i found out the other weekend that an old friend of mine still fancied me.he actually got my bf and i 2gether but is admitting he wished he had me. i know what my friend is like and he tends to cheat on girls. how do i know whether to take him seriously about how he feels for me?he said he wants a relationship with me,not just sex,he says he could easily fall in love with me and he says he cares about me too,especially when he's seen my bf ill treat me with the verbal insults etc. i do like him too but i want to be sure that it's not going to be just a one nighter or he's not going to cheat. how will i ever know this,what can i do? i don't want to lose a 3 and a half year relationship,even if my bf has hurt me so much as 3 and a half yrs is a long time. help me.

2006-12-13 02:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by coolbabe2006 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have always held a second job in addition to my full-time job throughout my life to supplement my income, save money and buy the things I want. When it comes time for gift-giving (birthday, Christmas, etc.), my family and friends always seem to give me gifts relating to my second job. One summer I worked for a company that sold tickets for people to ride in a hot -air balloon and tour over the city. The gifts I got there were pictures of hot-air balloons, trinkets relating to hot-air balloons, etc. Another time I worked in a vet's office so that year, all I got was stuffed animals, statues of all kinds of animals, pictures of animals, etc. Now I work on a jewelry counter and all I get is jewelry (and I don't wear jewlery other than a watch). I was thinking, what if I got a job in a sewerage treatment plant, will they give me then, toilet paper? Does anyone else out there have this problem of friends/family always giving gifts relating to your job?

2006-12-13 02:51:20 · 1 answers · asked by Me, Myself & I 4 in Friends

2006-12-13 02:50:57 · 13 answers · asked by lildevilmolly 1 in Friends

He u "ALL", what u wd like dowry or wife in ur life?
Reply in:-
(1) Dowry
(2) Woman
Mind- u cant say "Both".
Recently Newzealand govt. shown its anger on Indian men's hunger for dowry, thousands of cases we here. Even after higher qualifications and well paid jobs why these "STUPIDS" need dowry? Do they think they "anable" to feed their wife or offspring or what ? I never understand Indian mindset. What "U" want answer "sincerly PLZZZ". Girls also can post their views. (RaaJ)

2006-12-13 02:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by nizeemd 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Have ever heard or walked in on their parents while they were having sex. I did a long time ago it's sooo disturbing!

2006-12-13 02:50:31 · 9 answers · asked by Cutie 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl stares at a boy what does it means...

2006-12-13 02:50:26 · 12 answers · asked by roony 2 in Singles & Dating

Just Answer....

2006-12-13 02:50:10 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have recently left for college, and my high school sweetheart who I am still dating wnet all the way acroos the country. I really enjoy his company and everything but....there are a couple of other guys over here that Imight actually see more than once a year who are suitable matches. What do I do?

2006-12-13 02:50:07 · 16 answers · asked by kadaj_1312 1 in Singles & Dating

My husband has a child from a previous relationship and he is now faced with paying more child support. He has decided to fight the mother for full custody of his teenage daughter. The problem is that when she comes to visit, if she does not get her way she will call her mother and lie about what happened. She has gone so far as to claim abuse and my husband and I had to go to court over it. Now he is wanting to take her mother to court. I am worried that this is starting all over again. He feels like I have something against his daughter and he won't listen to me. We have a child together and I am very worried. Any advice?

2006-12-13 02:50:02 · 8 answers · asked by miss lady 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I've gotten a few e-mails asking me how I would handle certain situations. Well I will give you all advice. When your Chick asks you a ridiculous question such as "Am I fat", "Have I gained weight" or "Why can't I fit these jeans anymore". The one thing you must remember is never to answer, because no matter what you answer, they will turn into psychotic monsters anyway, though we all know the answer is "Yes, Your a Fatass". What you should do is tell her to turn around so her butt is facing you, then sneak out, head to the nearest bar and get plastered. Then when you get home you'll be so hammered that whatever she complains and whines about, you won't remember it in the morning, saving you an extra headache. That is how you should handle those situations, any comments?

2006-12-13 02:49:59 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that guys may have double-standards and it's just shrugged off like the "norm"????

I dont think it's fair. My boyfriend can say that a girl is hot but because she is a celeb its not supposed to bother me, I dont ever say anyone is hot in front of him because its disrespectful. Or while around his female friends he can say to me "yeah I f**ked her, but only in the a-s-s", even if its a joke. But heaven forbid I say hi to a drunk 80-year old guy while we're out at the bar.

I dont get it!!!!! Why are some things "ok" for guys but then when your girl does something similar you have the right to get mad???

2006-12-13 02:49:49 · 13 answers · asked by Jessie D. 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-13 02:49:07 · 35 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i am intrested in dating tell me how to get a girl for dating

if anybody intrested send your mail id to me

2006-12-13 02:48:49 · 1 answers · asked by jude j 1 in Singles & Dating

please send the answers quickly. best answer will be in my address book and get good mails.

2006-12-13 02:48:30 · 3 answers · asked by S.Sriram 1 in Friends