i found out the other weekend that an old friend of mine still fancied me.he actually got my bf and i 2gether but is admitting he wished he had me. i know what my friend is like and he tends to cheat on girls. how do i know whether to take him seriously about how he feels for me?he said he wants a relationship with me,not just sex,he says he could easily fall in love with me and he says he cares about me too,especially when he's seen my bf ill treat me with the verbal insults etc. i do like him too but i want to be sure that it's not going to be just a one nighter or he's not going to cheat. how will i ever know this,what can i do? i don't want to lose a 3 and a half year relationship,even if my bf has hurt me so much as 3 and a half yrs is a long time. help me.
2006-12-13 02:51:29 · 6 answers · asked by coolbabe2006 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Go with your gut instinct. It does not lie.
Make a pro/con list. Would you be willing to throw away 3.5 years of a relationship to 'try' a relationship with him? Or it could be you just want out of the boyf you have now. if you feel he doesn't treat you well, dump him.
PRO/CON list.
2006-12-13 02:54:47 · answer #1 · answered by Mimi 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have sex with him for the first month or so,as hard as that might be. If he pressures you too much or walks away from the relationship because of that, then you know it wasnt being tru to you. If it was meant to be than it will work out. Good luck hun.
2006-12-13 02:57:32 · answer #2 · answered by Lee~Lee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a name like 'coolbabe' I'm surprised you are asking the question at all!!
You can't know the answers to your questions until you have begun the journey into a relationship with him
...though you have read the map of his past journeys in relationships.
You pays your money and you takes your chances, like everyone else.
Best wishes.
Sash.
2006-12-13 04:51:13 · answer #3 · answered by sashtou 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You will never know until you take the plunge!!
If you are unhappy with your b/f then you should end it, swapping one relationship for another isn't the best way to start a relationship.
2006-12-13 02:56:59 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If this friend cheats on other girls he will cheat on you.
He is no friend
Kick him into touch
2006-12-17 00:53:19 · answer #5 · answered by alan h 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love triangle means tragedy, just select one. one is better than two.
2006-12-13 03:01:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋