but I never lied ~ I had to see my children and she knew that ~ anyway she is an angry woman after 18 yrs marriage ~ we fell in love but for 12 months its been ups and downs ~ I KNOW SHE LOVES ME but now after 6 weeks refuses to see me or allow me to contact her
How do I get her back with her anger and perceptions ~ or how do I get her out of my head and heart to be able to sleep at night
I love her deeply and needed to wait till January before I could offer myself 100% and she knew that ~ but she couldnt wait and see's me as a bad man
I never slept around and always told her I loved her but couldnt be with her 24/7 ~ then a row one evening saw me say stupid foolish things but now she cant, wont forgive ~ or allow me to contact her.
she says she needs to move on and because I love her I am willing to allow that if thats what she wants ~ but I miss her so much (I am single and available for her if she would just take the plunge ~ one last time)
any help please
Sad Ian
2006-12-13 02:53:29 · 6 answers · asked by sad Ian 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You don't know she loves you. You KNOW she has told you to leave her alone.
Move on. Love-of-my-life is a two-way street. Yours is one-way.
2006-12-13 02:56:18 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you were spending time with your children you were doing the right thing. If she can't understand that then I don't think you should pursue this relationship with her. Your children should come first right now. Find a woman who will be understanding of your relationship and commitment to your kids.
2006-12-13 04:01:48 · answer #2 · answered by vanhammer 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you seem like a really lovely person and i dont think you are being treated fairly. You may be better off without her in the long run as she dosent seem to be too understanding!!
2006-12-13 02:56:55 · answer #3 · answered by CHAZ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any woman that is asking you to put her before your children really isn't worth the heartache or worry.
Cheer up sad ian.
2006-12-13 02:58:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound the picture of my ex boyfriend who cheated on me different circumstances. he's fortunate if i let him see his son once a week. you've damaged the believe and its not likely that she will ever believe you lower back. you want to bypass to counseling to handle your demons. My ex went to counseling yet he nevertheless doesn't take duty for his movements and maintains responsible the international for his shortcomings. do not be like him and good luck.
2016-11-26 00:51:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is asking you to put her before your children then thats not right so heare is whati can tell you to try. email me and i will tell you hollanddarlene@yahoo.ca thanks
2006-12-13 03:13:15 · answer #6 · answered by dar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋