my neice is 12 years old and has a picture of the girl Yung V on her phone, well I have known of people to ideal others but this rapper dresses like a boy, at first i thought it was a boy, well she is starting to dress like her more and more she even wants to cut her hair that is dangling on her back.I have no problem with gays but i wonder if she is gay how can i help her??????????
2006-12-13 02:58:03 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If she is not sexually active, then she can not be gay
2006-12-13 03:01:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anarchy99 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
That doesn't mean she's gay it means she admires Yung V. Its an identity phase she's about to go through. When she gets in highschool it will change. Try saying that Chris Brown is a cutie or Justin Timberlake or TI or Nick Latche and see how she responds. If she agrees about at least one of these she's definitely straight. I know grown women that have Beyonce on their phones and their straigh as a ruler.
2006-12-13 03:03:08 · answer #2 · answered by TILAC 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF she is gay...you can help her by supporting her and loving her UNCONDITIONALLY.
The thing is she's 12... she's still a baby. There is a good chance she is just having fun, trying to figure out her own style, and likes this rappers music... you can not assume she's gay because of these things.
If, down the road you discover she is gay...please please....support who she is. DON'T try and "fix" her....there is nothing to fix. Straight or gay, she is perfect exactly as she is, and needs to know that.
2006-12-13 03:05:56 · answer #3 · answered by Shakira 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think she is not a gay.
Shes in the age where most teenager are looking for self-actualization. She cant even yet decide if she wants to be a gay or not unless something/someone trigger it to her.
If you wanna help her, I guess you can have a chit chat with her and give bigger picture of what girls and boys are all about
2006-12-13 03:05:02 · answer #4 · answered by Bear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her grow up on her own way, if she is gay then she is gay their is nothing anybody can do to change the way we turn out.
Their are lots of people that dress different than what we think to be norm, that does not mean they are gay. They just have a different way of expressing them selves. Just allow them to grow, how different are you now from when you were 12 >????
2006-12-13 03:09:15 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think she is,but down the rode if it turns out she is gay just let it be, because your never going to change her no matter what so just accept her the way she is gay or not because shes your family for the rest of your life and thees nothing that's going to change that so be there and help her when she needs you the most.
2006-12-13 03:10:35 · answer #6 · answered by amber 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she's acting like a normal teenager so far. Even if she is gay, that isn't a disease. Now, if you think she's using drugs, or hanging with a bad crowd of kids, then you got a problem. Stop creating a problem where none exists.
2006-12-13 03:00:49 · answer #7 · answered by Firespider 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She may be facinated with the idea of being gay but not actually gay. To me these days most young girls are gay just because it is kind of an in thing. Why? Who knows. I would wait to see if maybe it passes if not i would just help her threw life and the criticisms she may occur.
2006-12-13 03:00:54 · answer #8 · answered by shashana2003 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
She's only 12 for godsake. Let her go through her normal phases like any other kid. Stop jumping to conclusions. YOU could screw her up more than any fashion statement. Leave the kid alone.....for now. Wait til the teen years!
2006-12-13 03:04:51 · answer #9 · answered by INDRAG? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you jump to gay first and not consider that may she just likes that rapper and wants to look like her?
2006-12-13 03:05:00 · answer #10 · answered by cisco_cantu 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I was young I idolized many different types of singers, actors, ect...I don't think it reflects her sexuality. She doesn't have to agree with everything about an artist to be a fan.
2006-12-13 03:01:19 · answer #11 · answered by Jennalove311 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋