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He u "ALL", what u wd like dowry or wife in ur life?
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(1) Dowry
(2) Woman
Mind- u cant say "Both".
Recently Newzealand govt. shown its anger on Indian men's hunger for dowry, thousands of cases we here. Even after higher qualifications and well paid jobs why these "STUPIDS" need dowry? Do they think they "anable" to feed their wife or offspring or what ? I never understand Indian mindset. What "U" want answer "sincerly PLZZZ". Girls also can post their views. (RaaJ)

2006-12-13 02:50:42 · 10 answers · asked by nizeemd 1 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

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I'm a married man & I never took any dowry even 25years back but got a very loving wife. Now my daughter is getting married & neither me giving any dowry nor my would be son asking. After few years when my son gets married we are not going to ask or take any dowry. So in our family we dont follow the trend of dowry but definately we look forward for really loving spouse which is more important for us. OK.

2006-12-15 00:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 0 0

A good wife. One can become rich by working hard, if you are rich today, and if there is some bad luck then you may loose all the money later. A good wife is there to stay with you in those bad times. I agree that there are still people who prefer money over good qualities of a wife while taking their decision regarding marriage but the scenario is now getting better, where the educated class looks for a compatible partner, a friend for a marriage instead of big bucks in dowry.

2006-12-15 02:32:58 · answer #2 · answered by splash 1 · 0 0

The wife. Because the dowry comes with her.
Joke apart, it is not only girls who should stand up to protest against this social evil, but they must get adequate support from their parents too. People who can pay hefty dowries for their daughters' marriages should say no when such demands are made by the grooms or their parents.
No self respecting man should seek dowry. Any eligible man seeking dowry should be boycotted socially.
A mass movement must build up against this evil practice. And the government must strictly enforce anti dowry laws.

2006-12-13 17:22:42 · answer #3 · answered by Modest 6 · 0 0

ninety 9% of the Dowery situations are pretend made to extort money from the husbands aspect. Ind todays international the knowledgeable husbands care a damn of the money 'reason they probable make more desirable than it in a 365 days yet nonetheless they are the sufferers to those pretend situations the instantaneous a marirage cracks because the ladies kin then needs to get a fee for the time she rolled in the mattress and made use of her holes - is it no longer prostitution? also in maximum case one would locate that the different halves and her persons commonly make the optimal alligations adverse to the husband's mom and sister and yet the idiotic criminal equipment blames and make the Husband the right accused. And of girls and her persons being penalised for Giving Dowery the most important concern is the Judges and the attorneys and the police officials have each of the sentiments and emotions to the ladies and ther kin probable they supply the impact of being in route of sleeping with that women and so under no circumstances report a counter case or the decide not often accepts a case and the police officials too do no longer report one.

2016-10-18 05:41:34 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0 0

2) But I do wish you had put girl instead of woman, It seems like i am agreeing to marry an aunty HAHA

These are ancient things, Dowry system Blah Blah Blah, at my granny times. It dont happen much now in civilised India. I am engaged and its actually could be seen taboo to ask for dowry in our community,

Some people needs to take their minds out of the gutter.

2006-12-13 14:57:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

From what I understand of Indian culture, it is because it apparantly makes the wife more suitable if she can produce money. This is so sad because one young girl who I support along with her family is so upset because he is demanding a very high dowry and she comes from a very poor family. She is frantic to find the money as she really wants to get married.
I do believe that this is wrong, one should marry for love only, wheter rich or poor as long as the love is pure and rich this is what should count.

2006-12-13 06:16:24 · answer #6 · answered by rockandrollrev 7 · 1 0

Yes Wat u said is correct. But u have to note one thing. As u said people with higher qualifications and well paid jobs are also taking dowry. I want to clarify one thing abt this. These people will definitely top class people only. So his bride will definitely give dowry even if he opposed for that. In their cases, we dont have any problem. But in cases of middle class people, dowry is one of the source of income to the family. So it is taken for that.

But the current trend is taking of dowry is happening in the case of only backward and middle class people but not in the case of people said by u. Definitely this is to be eliminated. But the govt has to take proper steps for this.

2006-12-14 15:56:59 · answer #7 · answered by Prince 3 · 0 0

A good wife.

2006-12-13 04:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by Meeto 7 · 0 0

REAL EASY QUESTION....Just find ya a ***** older woman with money!! i did....working out just fine!!!

2006-12-13 02:57:08 · answer #9 · answered by hydrobudsinfl 1 · 1 1

wife.

2006-12-13 08:00:38 · answer #10 · answered by stars 3 · 0 0

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