am getting married soon.Till now i have not done any sexual activities and i'm waiting to do it after my marriage only.
but i know A-Z knowledge about sex.I and my friend(girl) have watched lots of sex scenes in internet.
My question is how should i behave to my husband after marriage during sex? should i have to behave like a girl who have knowledge abt sex (OR)
should i have to act as an girl who dont have much knowledge abt sex?
I am asking this question, coz my friend insisted me to behave as a girl, who don't have much knowledge abt sex.coz she told that gents will love if a girl behaves unknowingly abt sex.(i mean A-Z abt sex).
(am indian).
please advice me.
thanks in advance.
2006-12-13 02:57:19 · 24 answers · asked by ColD fIRe! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Your friend is 100% correct. You have theoretical knowledge is a good thing but practical problems are there. anyway. it will depend on how much knowledge your husband has. watching sex movies only increases your urge or eagerness. if you want enjoy yr sex life then it should be slow and romantic. dont go for it or him if you or him are very tired. Have a bath and make him have also, this will freshen u both up. dont eat raw onions at dinner. after brushing dont have any sweets. As u say u r truly indian then dont forget flowers. you dont have to & cant wash or wet yr hair every night but keep that for weekends. wet hair of a women the man has to be floored. dont just remove your/his clothes and go for it but be slow and after lot of seducing go for it as both the genital organ need some time to get aroused and lubricate. dont argue in the evenings or worst during dinner, its a great put off. Dont indulge in vulger sex as shown in many sex videos you will never enjoy sex in life which will lead to a depressed state of mind. Dont let him consume alcohol before sex as it will lead to impotency in later years and a spoilt marriage.there are so many things but iam not good in writing. so all the best & take yr friends advice
2006-12-13 18:28:05 · answer #1 · answered by Shriram M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
For your sake I hope its to a man you love. I also hope you let things happen naturally. There is no person that can tell you how to behave during sex. Let it be natural for you. You may find you don't like it. You should really talk to your future husband about it. Watching sex scenes is nothing like the real thing. It is different for every person. I just hope that the 2 of you find out what works best for both of you. It can be a great thing in a marriage as long as the both of you get along very well. It will be horrible if you don't. The first time will probably hurt because you haven't experienced it before. If he is a good man he will take it nice and slow to try and make sure you are not in much pain. The apin should subside over time. The first is almost always the most difficult to get through. Whatever you do talk about it afterwards and don't be surprised if he falls asleep.
2016-03-13 06:29:42 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
How To Behave With Husband
2016-12-18 07:37:55 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. I'm sure your husband to be is aware you're a virgin (unless you haven't told him, in which case, do tell him before you have sex for the first time). Even though you've watched some ****, it doesn't mean you need to jump into bed and put on a ****-star act.. you'd probably feel self-conscious trying to do that the first few times. If you know a thing or two about sex, use them... if not, then just let him do most of the work the first time. Most importantly-- enjoy it! :)
2006-12-13 03:05:15 · answer #4 · answered by Skyler789 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Congrats.Its very nice to see tat u r genuenly interested in making him happy.Tat itself is very good feeling to many of the guys.
1.Wait for him to make moves if u dont know him too well.He will definately will make few moves first.
2.U neither have to behave like u have complete knowledge nor u dont have knowledge.If he is trying to do something either co-operate or just tell him u dont like something.
3.U can always tell him that u saw those pictures on the net so that u r well prepared for this act.Most of the guys will not mind.It will also make the guy comfortable that ur knowledge comes from internet exp rather than the actual experience(Indian perspective...)
Gud luck
2006-12-13 17:23:06 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi dear, this is venky, and i advice u just use u r knowledj in u r sex life what ever u have y meens if u want to enjoy a lot u r married life. but dont sujest u r hobby in during u sex time it creates an mith in his mind that this lady might had an experieanc. and i feel that lady should behave with his hobby in sex like prostitud. then only they can enjoy.
2006-12-17 19:18:03 · answer #6 · answered by yvb 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I assume your husband is also Indian, and without knowing him your question is difficult to answer. Personally, I prefer the woman I am with be a willing and active partner, not lay there like a log. I suggest take it slow and see what happens, if you want to add more variety to your sex life just suggest it maybe one thing at a time, nothing wrong with being adventurous.
2006-12-13 03:11:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are some good answers, already in thread..
i will suggest similar, Behave like what you are.. be natural. do not try to be too open. Do not try to learn from net etc. Its not something to research upon.. Its something emotional.
you will talk him for sure. Adjust with him.. Even he might not know much about sex.. He will adjust with you. things will fall at right place slowly.. you might have to wait some days to get your first orgasm,if you are uncomfortable.. once you are comfortable and start enjyoing sex.. you will have one.. and thats the fun.
2006-12-19 12:19:35 · answer #8 · answered by sandeep dixit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if u want to behave like one who knows everything then ... please do it perfection and show all ur skills if u have any .. since practicals are different from theory ... u can't be knowing all
exp:
if u project like .. u know all then .. u will be doubted like girl how has 2+ yrs of hands on exp with spl in blow jobs and bar dancing ..
u should be willing to work an all position and from team lead to asst level .. should be dynamic and show interest in taking initiative ...
people with prior back ground of making good sounds will be prefered ...
qualification .. degree in virginity is required
2006-12-13 03:05:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you will know how to act when you start getting intimate with your new husband. Basically let yourself go, don't worry about making a mistake, start slow and explore his body and let him explore yours...just relax, what your doing is natural and can feel very very nice!
2006-12-13 03:03:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋