ok i have cheated on my boy freind 2 times all ready..i mean i havent has sex just kissing other guys...well he says he 4 gives me.but deep down inside i know he hasnt..well he has been acting really diffrent since he found out,an every little fight we get into he brings it up........what do i do he wont stop throwing it in my face.i know what i did was wrong.but whats done is done...do i just break it off with him? or stay with him? he really loves me so i dont wanna hurt him.
2006-12-13 03:18:53 · 13 answers · asked by AUBRIE L 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why should he stop throwing it in your face when you couldn't stop throwing your face at others
2006-12-13 03:21:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
really if the throwing in the face gets real bad maybe the trust is gone in the relationship, but if it hasnt then theres stil hope. the hope part is hard to do cause it could take a week to months. what has to happen is that you get on your best behavior and just take what he dishes. i know that sucks and sounds horrible but if you love him that much youll do what it takes to stay with him. but remember if it gets worse the trust is gone and it may be time to break it up
2006-12-13 11:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by soonersux 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You already hurt him by kissing other guys. He does not trust you and that's understandable. Would you like it if he was kissing other girls? Kissing someone else when you have a BF or GF is so not cool.
If he keeps throwing it in your face, he probably will continue to do so for a long time.
2006-12-13 11:22:27 · answer #3 · answered by Rach 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time for a change. You both need a break from each othe. The pressure from your actions are going to cause you both to end up hating each other. Break it off, and take a break. See if you can repair by starting over.
2006-12-13 11:23:03 · answer #4 · answered by Peloubet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find a way to make it up to him. The problem is, he doens't really think you realize what you did was wrong. He feels like you "got away with it." That might mean you'll try to get away with it again. But if you do someting to make it up to him (you can decide what that would be with him, but he agrees that is what you're doing and that it really does make up for it) then it shows that you're not just sorry, but that you take it seriously.
2006-12-13 12:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by Sean J 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What would you have done if the cheating would be on you. I think your boyfriend is treating you way too kind, considering what you did. Grow up first, and then think about having a formal relationship.
2006-12-13 11:22:41 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You've already hurt him. You say that he loves you and you are kissing other guys..kissing is a personal and intimate thing. Let him go, you are wasting his time.
2006-12-13 11:23:07 · answer #7 · answered by Smittie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if I was him. I would break it off with you, your the one that cheated so, maybe it's better that you both go different ways and start over.
2006-12-13 11:22:26 · answer #8 · answered by cowboydoc 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hoe can you say you don't want to hurt him after you acted like a cheap whore? Come on now, think that one through. He deserves better. I may sound like an ***, but would you want your boyfriend to treat you like that? I doubt it.
2006-12-13 11:21:52 · answer #9 · answered by Jennalove311 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he loves you but you dont love him he has every right to be mad let it go if you wanted him you wouldnt have cheated no matter what it was.
2006-12-13 11:23:47 · answer #10 · answered by kindra1988 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋