when I say go there... I mean, like relationship wise. We both are mature enough to handle it but it feels like we're breaking the rules of friendship. Just give me some feedback.
2006-12-13 03:22:33 · 16 answers · asked by hunnybee032001 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Go for it!!
2006-12-13 03:25:00 · answer #1 · answered by Steph 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It always happens. Sometimes it looks natural thing to happen, sometimes you feel you are not handling the friendship well enough. Sometimes some guys are smart; they start a frienship with an ultimate aim to get into such relationships. Just remember, when the relationship breaks, you both will not be friends anymore.
2006-12-13 03:28:37 · answer #2 · answered by mms 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you ARE going there.....I'm kinda going through the SAME THING right now. I've just deicded to think about whether or not it's worth it.....sometimes the best relationships come from great friendships. You should also keep in mind that this could change your relationship from now on. Good luck!
2006-12-13 03:25:59 · answer #3 · answered by Elsie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how close you guy's relationship is. Belive me, I've been there. As long as you don't take it too far, if you guys ever break up, you'll be able to bounce back and go back to just being friends. Sometimes it's just not that easy, but that's how it worked for me. I went out with a guy for two months, then I broke up with him, we just went back to being friends. The closer you guys are now, the better the relationship will hold, and the easier you guys will be able to bounce back. Just don't do anything stupid and it will definetly work out.
2006-12-13 03:26:52 · answer #4 · answered by Rocket 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are comfortable enough with him tro have a relationship, go for it. Since you already kiss and stuff I think the rules of friendship have already been broken.
2006-12-13 03:27:58 · answer #5 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well this same exact thing has happened between me. i fell in love with my best fiend of 4 years and now i cant seem to let go of him, and now he has another girlfriend and i am still madly in love with him. and how you and your frind started is exactly how me and my bestfriend started. but what i would say is to try it because your best friend always knows you alot better than anyone else but you also have to think about something else, if you go out with him and something goes wrong you have just lost a best friend. but if you really do think that he is the one then i would say go for it!
2006-12-13 03:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by Jay C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me tell you from experience. Don't ruin a true friendship for lust. Its not a good idea. Because guys come and go, but friendship is forever. I have a friend who married her best friend (they were friends for 14 years) and she wishes she never did, she is miserable now.
2006-12-13 03:26:58 · answer #7 · answered by snapple 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about if you both want to go there, and if you both decide that you want to try it, then start things off slow...doing things just like the used to be, best friends wise, but also throw in those new relationship benifits...go slow
good luck :]
2006-12-13 03:30:00 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not? Sounds like you have the beginnings of a relationship. Sometimes the best mates are right under your nose.
2006-12-13 03:29:16 · answer #9 · answered by Candy B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well he is your bestfriend....right? and it might just be a good idea to let it happen because the best relationship starts out as friends...and u guys know mostly everything about each otha so yea u should give it a try
2006-12-13 03:57:55 · answer #10 · answered by Lady B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you should either go for a full real relationship or just stay friends because being in between i confusing and stressful for both parties
2006-12-13 03:34:02 · answer #11 · answered by scholaryoshi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋