Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

i want to ruin the lives of 2 people.my boyfriend of 3 years and his new F--- buddy , Amber Box who is 17, and on meth and pot.
he was staying clean and sober and i thought all was well

I had the flu, he was holding my hair back, getting me a cold cloth and 7up,tucking me into to bed, telling me how he loved me, how he will always be there to take care of me. He got me a puke bucket, and gave me a kiss, turned out the lights.
i woke up couple hours later to a emtpy house except for a candle burning unattended on the kitchen table, 2 bottles of booze gone, and a case of beer gone, boyfriend gone.

He didnt call, i couldnt find him anywhere, its cold out, i was so afraid he had fallen outside somewhere and hit his head, and died of hypothermia. something had to be wrong we werent fighting, he was so very sweet, it was r first flu together
i found him 2 days later, with his best friends roommate who is 17 he says i dont no what to tell u but im sorry
i feel so betrayed and hur

2006-12-10 09:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I asked the same thing some while ago and didn't got much response. So I am asking again : There is this bartender that works at a pub I frequetly go with my friends. He always smiles at me, and asks me how I am, and when I am not near the bar, I can see him looking for me and smilling at a distance, he is frequently looking at me and smiling. One time I was with my friends and some guys approach and he made a gesture like asking me if everything was okay.. The thing is that that is all there is. Should I talk to him, ask for his number? Or just wait until he finally says something other than Hi, how are you today? and the looks he gives me. I don't go to the pub every weekend, but I go every now and then. I think he likes me .. but I just don't know... maybe he's a player? He is like 24-25.. I am 18.

2006-12-10 09:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Singles & Dating

I am pregnant with my second baby. My first is 5 months old so oviously Im not working at the moment. My husband only works 15 hours a week as he has a pension for epilepsy when he can easily work more and has in the past, he simply doesnt want to as he doesnt want to loose his pension. He is a great dad. One day I want to own a house and Im not afraid of going to work fulltime if I have to in the future but it make me angry when I think my husband gets to stay at home with the kids when I will have to work simply because he gets a pension. I think he should be working fulltime and then I can work part time at least, but he doesnt ever want to work fulltime. Am I being selfish not wanting to work because he gets to stay home? and also I get jelous because I know he will always take the kids to do things with his mum when Im at work because he doesnt drive and it makes me more jelous.

2006-12-10 09:43:35 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

haven't talked to my boyfriend in a long time and sent him a email on a site and his lil bro that is my age said hes grounded until christmas!...anyways back to the question...i was bored so me and his brother started talking friend to friend. Do you think my bf will get mad at me for takling to his bro behind his back while he was grounded?

2006-12-10 09:42:04 · 14 answers · asked by nikki<3 2 in Singles & Dating

She never lets me cook bacon when she does the laundry. She knows how much I like bacon and has even used it to seduce me on a number of occasions. What should I do?

2006-12-10 09:41:04 · 14 answers · asked by E_Soup 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-10 09:41:02 · 16 answers · asked by sabrina 3 in Singles & Dating

Ladies, in your opinion which type of guy would you reccommend for your friend if you were to set her up on a blind date and why would you choose who you did? I need help deciding. Here are the potetial candidates:

1) Downhome Country Boy loves to show & raise horses. Knows value of $. Has always had to work for everything himself. Loves to drink whiskey & have small house parties. shaggy brown hair & goatee. Weight~ 200 Height~6'0

2) Uptown Chicago Gangsta~ loves to flaunt money, expensive clothes,& flashy cars. Long black hair,tounge ring, tattoos, & cocky attitude. Also a BIG drinker/smoker. Weighs ~125 and~5'6.

3) Sloppy Hippie Guy w/ never combed long sholder length hair, baggy pants, and always a tye-dye shirt. He weighs about 270 and is about 5'7. Plays guitar, smokes, drinks like a fish. Very Smart, though.

4) Nerdy Chemistry/Video Game Lover~ Very Smart, but never had a girlfriend. Long curly hair, tan, Italian, w/ glasses. ~ 160 & 5'6. Drinks occasionally.

2006-12-10 09:40:02 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 09:39:29 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old and judging from the title, you might have inferred that i'm a virgin. I'm a virgin by choice and not because i can't get any. Anyway, check out this little story about me that leads to this revelation.

I really couldn't get any when i was around 14-16. I was shy and always hesistant to ask. I was a reserved person by nature. My friends would always "get some" during the weekends. They tried to bring me along on their weekend escapades, but i always thought myself to be just a tag-along. So i always declined their offer. I got older and i became a senior. I got proposals to go on dates and have sex, but for some reason i turned them down. I don't know why and i didn't have good reasons. Bear in mind, this was just last year, my mindset has dramatically altered or anything. I just feel like something big is going to happen for me and i'm going to meet the woman of my dreams. But check this out

2006-12-10 09:39:06 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a friend of mine that has been married for a little over a year. He husband is extremely controling and verbally, and emotionally abusive. She has bipolar and borderline peersonality disorder and they recently had a pregnancy scare forcing her off all her meds. They got in an arguement and well she snapped and slapped him. Was it right of him to hit her back when he knows she has two very severe mental illnesses that can cause irractic behavior and she has been off her meds. I thought it could have been handled with him saying not to hit him, and by defusing the arguement once she snapped.

2006-12-10 09:38:38 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I think that i am in love for the first time! When i am around him i feel all light and i get goose bumps! i love that feeling but is it love?

2006-12-10 09:37:53 · 17 answers · asked by Taylor*Leigh 2 in Singles & Dating

how would you feel if you were in love with your boi friend and he loves you back but during the time you and him are at skool he dosen't talk to you and he talks to a gurl that you don't know but absolutelty hate and he knows that you hate her and still talks to her....................quickest replies are very much appreciated!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-10 09:37:30 · 6 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

theres this guy in one of my classes and he hives me the butterflys but all my friends dont like him cuz he has a weird noise but i still really like and i dont even think he knows who i am so what can i do about my friends and about him not noiting me?

2006-12-10 09:37:14 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 09:36:26 · 32 answers · asked by Blondy 2 in Friends

I need a girl's advise. PLEASE!!!!!

2006-12-10 09:36:13 · 12 answers · asked by Jacob R 1 in Singles & Dating

Is it possible for me to get my eyebrows pierced without my parents permission?

2006-12-10 09:35:55 · 11 answers · asked by CarloZ12345 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok so here is the scenario! My parents have a certain way they want me to LIVE my own life. But there are a couple of things that I just want to know if it is normal or not.

1. I recently informed my mom that I had experienced sexual abuse as a child by a member of our church and her response at first was that she was shocked. But when she got home and talked to my father, I overheard their conversation and heard her say " I dont feel like we should accuse (him) or even ask about it, because you know how girls lie about things like that" and my father's response was to ask me to stay away from my lab top b/c radiation can cause insanity. And we havent brought it up since...

#2. I just got into an arguement with them and I was telling them my point of view on the situation and they completely started talking about where they are going out to dinner for tonight. Like switched the convo completely...

2006-12-10 09:35:09 · 7 answers · asked by Lovely*~*Layla 2 in Family

I have finally found my 5 year old son after 2 years of searching. His mother thinks that we should try to work things out. I agree. I have also met some one else. she is an awesome person. which one do i choose?

2006-12-10 09:35:06 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Is there really such a thing as a soul mate... Do we all find ours? How do we know when we find our soulmate?

2006-12-10 09:34:45 · 13 answers · asked by jayjay 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Two of his 'friends' broke the law he says he tried to prevent them from doing it but has ended up being prosecuted for their wrong doing. He knows who and where they are but refuses to turn them in, he is looking at a jail sentence if convicted. I lost my temper with him and told him he deverves what he gets if he takes the wrap knowing he could turn the culprits in. I just cant get him to see sense I keep thinking that maybe he really did do it and he is playing the matyr (if thats the right description) to gain sympathy and shift the blame but he is just not the type of person who would commit this crime or maybe I don't know him as well as I think I do. What do you think? should I let him get on with it and let him deal with the consequences?

2006-12-10 09:34:38 · 6 answers · asked by Smoochy Poochy 6 in Friends

Double standards for girls to say that they want to be treated like queens ... while claiming to be strong and independant and equal (if not better) to men...?

Or does that queen stuff mean that you just want us to sing anthems about you ..?

I always open doors and stuff ... and females love it

but is that real equality ... or should the one who gets to the door first ...open it.

Do you want it both ways ... or do you think that as you baked the cake and are entitled to eat it ..?


DR BAd
wearing bullet proof vest

2006-12-10 09:34:12 · 23 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

there's this guy i work with, i really like him, but am not sure if he likes me. anyway, i had this dream that we were alone in the upstairs section of the restaurant where we work and he pulled me close to him and kissed, telling me that he never wants to lose me.

the problem is that in real life i cant date him cos he's my manager and he'll get fired if he does...

any answers?

2006-12-10 09:34:09 · 11 answers · asked by chickenpie 2 in Singles & Dating

I met a girl last night i n the bar and we exchanged numbers.
later today we SMS ed each other ,
i would like to ask her out, is it a good idea to ask her out through SMS or through direct on phone

Since we met last night, what is the right time to ask her out, like tuesday or wednesday??

2006-12-10 09:33:26 · 6 answers · asked by Kewl guy 3 in Singles & Dating

should i tell her how i feel
move away
or live with it

2006-12-10 09:33:20 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-10 09:32:20 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 09:32:19 · 7 answers · asked by sololookforward 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Hello! I am engaged to this awesome young man. We are madly in love. My only problem is that I am overweight and he is underweight. When we hug, I feel that I have almost nothing to hold and at times I ask him if I hurt him by lieing on his chest,..etc. He always says no. I feel that my questions hurt him, yet I don't want to hurt him physically.
All my boyfriends were big-built and it's not helping. I really love him. Do you have any tips for when we hug, kiss or touch? Thanks a lot!
By the way, he is taller than me.

2006-12-10 09:31:58 · 5 answers · asked by Princess of Egypt 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

the ?? explains it all.

2006-12-10 09:31:55 · 23 answers · asked by kitt k 1 in Singles & Dating

ive been arguing with my bf about things that he does, hes mostly in his own little world bitting his nail, watching tv and ask me to do his laundry all the time and watch his kid while he naps a lil longer he told me hell changed so many times but he still hasnt and im sick of it he called me back few mins ago and ask whats my decision and i dont know what to tell him.

2006-12-10 09:31:48 · 18 answers · asked by playboyluv_24 1 in Singles & Dating

Is he going to try again?wrong or right?was i horrible 4 doing this?cuz thats how i feel This boy I like likes me back.He asked if i had a cellphone,i nodded my head,then he asked if i had a bf and if i wanted one and i shrugged and shook my head. :( He asked for my number.I just looked away and didn't respond~ he was like yes or no?what did i do.I looked into his eyes and then looked away .Such an idiot i am.So when the bell rang he just left .I want to go out with him sssooooo bad but hes so loud,popular and smart too,way smart.I'm so shy,quiet,unpopular and loserish. What will other people say about us?I think a whole bunch of girls in the school like him too. What do i do?he knows that im really really shy and quiet.should i just try talking to him or what? should i just be like hi(his name) on monday when i c him in class?I'm scared to go to school and see him scared out of my mind.....I know that I'm just going to look at him and say nothing :( i messed up BAD.will he be angry?

2006-12-10 09:31:03 · 5 answers · asked by ~*ShYcHiCk*~ 1 in Singles & Dating