Hello! I am engaged to this awesome young man. We are madly in love. My only problem is that I am overweight and he is underweight. When we hug, I feel that I have almost nothing to hold and at times I ask him if I hurt him by lieing on his chest,..etc. He always says no. I feel that my questions hurt him, yet I don't want to hurt him physically.
All my boyfriends were big-built and it's not helping. I really love him. Do you have any tips for when we hug, kiss or touch? Thanks a lot!
By the way, he is taller than me.
2006-12-10 09:31:58 · 5 answers · asked by Princess of Egypt 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You probably really aren't hurting him. Just because he's skinny doesn't mean he's frail! If you see his face turning purple then you'll know. If you're really that worried, insist that he be on top.
2006-12-10 09:34:09 · answer #1 · answered by Geoff S 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
if it really worries you and you really love him try to lose weight but you may find that isn't the answer as he probably loves you as you are and its your subconscious feelings about yourself that are the problem. try to be more relaxed and confident about yourself and the way that you are as if he says it doesnt bother him then it probably doesnt and you can then enjoy squeezin him as much as you like!.. oh and home cooking.. feed him up :-)
2006-12-10 09:37:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This has happened to me a couple of times lol...
Just try not to make a big deal about it. If he makes you happy, you can ignore it.
2006-12-10 09:34:49 · answer #3 · answered by qcghosthunter 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
suggest you loose weight and he gain weight.
2006-12-10 09:34:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
just be gentle
2006-12-10 09:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by Katherine 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋