How do I get kids at school to stop making fun of me and calling me a loser?

Answer 1

You cannot control them, only yourself. Try to let it roll off you...realize they are doing it out of their own insecurity...feel sorry for them, that they feel they need to put others down so that they can feel good about themselves. It's rather sad when you think about it.

Either just ignore them...or tell them you are sorry they are so insecure and if being ugly to you helps them feel better about themselves, then you can take it.

It won't last long sweetie...if you don't give them ammunition to keep them going.

Answer 2

Bullies try to justify their actions by saying that it is their victim's fault for being different. They may pick on you for being tall, short, skinny, fat,wearing glasses, or have a strange name. First of all, you need to tell yourself that it is not your fault, and that it is the bullies who need to change, not you.

Talk to someone you can trust, a teacher, parent, older friend or relative. Don't try to do anything on your own. Enlist the help of someone and work towards establishing a connection with the school staff.
Be persistent. If the first person you talk to ignores you, don't give up, speak to someone else.
If you can, write down everything the bullies have done or have said to you, and try to write down how you feel. When you have found someone you can trust and who is helpful, discuss what you have written with that person. Be very careful to only write down things which really happened or were said. Don't exaggerate the truth.
Sometimes bullying stops quickly but doing nothing means it may continue until someone is seriously upset or hurt as has proven to be so through the media in many schools. That could be you, or the bullies may find new victims. If their behaviour is not challenged they are unlikely to stop.

Dont become physical. You may be accused of bullying yourself.If a small part of what you are saying is shown to be untrue then it throws everything else into doubt.
Don't believe the lies that the bullies tell about you.
Don't hide what is happening from the adults you trust. Keeping things secret is the bullies' biggest weapon against you. That is why they go through so much trouble to try to stop you from telling.
If you don't feel comfortable talking to someone you know, call Teenage Education and Crisis Hotline (TEACH) at 1-800-367-7287. Counselors are available 24/7. Goodluck!

Answer 3

my daughter has been called a loser. She just keeps a smile on her face and hangs with people who don't say mean things to her. Now in high school she has a whole new group of friends and they all like the same things. Now the ones who called her a loser are the ones into drugs and drinking. So as a parent I'll take the loser kids any day.

Answer 4

You should work on your own attitude, the others are difficult to change, you know.
Next time it happens, just act like they are AIR (=ignore them completely), while focusing your mind on those reasons why you are not a loser. Also think about those people who love and appreciate you, or about some success you had in the past. They'll soon leave you alone. It is important not to react in any way (imagine you're a queen who's too noble to take notice of such common people:). I used to do all that when the boys in my class bullied me, and it worked. In the end it really ceased to affect me.

Remember, people who make fun of others might feel deep down they're losers themselves. The happier, stronger and more self-confident someone is, the nicer he/she is to others. By the way, if you in your turn are nice to those who are mocked at around you, you'll see the situation will improve; you'll get new friends and respect from your other mates.

Good luck!

Answer 5

I'm sorry to hear that, thats tough. I know it's hard but try to ignore them, if you answer back you'll be giving them exactly what they want. Stick with you friends. Remember how special you are, and that your not a loser at all, they are for thinking they can pick on you. I've been there, most people probably have, but I learnt to develop a thick skin, that they couldn't break through, soon they got bored, and I know for a fact that the experience has made me stronger and more confident as a person. Decide who your real friends are, they'll be the ones who will help you through this tough time. Good luck, Andie x

Answer 6

As a teacher myself, I would recommend you telling your teacher about this, and they'll help you stop those kids making fun of you. A lot of times kids are bullied just cuz they've never told an adult or a teacher about it. Telling a teacher or a parent WILL stop the bullying. It all starts with you.

Another thing, do you know why those kids make fun of you and calling you a loser? Tell these to your teacher too.

Answer 7

Talk to your Mom and have her talk to the principal and that will put an end to it...wish I had done so.....that kind of stuff killed my daughter it is a leading cause of suicide...she was 12!!!! You know that kind of stuff is against the law.......I didn't'; know that at the time......You can take the school to court.......so my dear.....there will be an end to that....you can count on that!!!! good luck....talk to your parents..... you can also email me if you need to
its [e-mail].............You can't grow a thick skin and you can't ignore them either because it won't go away....and kids are so mean these days...my daugher was beautiful....but the kids were mean and they didn't want to be her friend..so how can she stick with her friends when maybe she may not have any?...anyhow..its called bullies....i'm sorry you have to go though that...we all have at one time or another...well good luck

Answer 8

Best thing to do is ignore them or you can joke around with them too. That way, the kids can see that the things they say to you have no more effect. Do not show that you are annoyed and embarrased. That will make them want to tease you more. The worst thing to do is tell an adult because the kids will hate you more. Stand up for yourself too, do not let them beat you!!

Answer 9

Anyone who takes time in the day to call other people names is a real loser. You just gotta try to stick that in your mind, and maybe it won't hurt as much.

Answer 10

Ignore them why do you care what they think obvioulsy if they have nothing else better to do with their time than degrade you and call you a loser than they might not from being losers themselves.