I asked the same thing some while ago and didn't got much response. So I am asking again : There is this bartender that works at a pub I frequetly go with my friends. He always smiles at me, and asks me how I am, and when I am not near the bar, I can see him looking for me and smilling at a distance, he is frequently looking at me and smiling. One time I was with my friends and some guys approach and he made a gesture like asking me if everything was okay.. The thing is that that is all there is. Should I talk to him, ask for his number? Or just wait until he finally says something other than Hi, how are you today? and the looks he gives me. I don't go to the pub every weekend, but I go every now and then. I think he likes me .. but I just don't know... maybe he's a player? He is like 24-25.. I am 18.
2006-12-10 09:43:56 · 6 answers · asked by Marie 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well..do you like him. Before you say anything to him find out if you really want to be with him. If you do start to talk to him more. Smile at him back and maybe he will ask you to the next level. Good Luck and dont worry...you will be fine!! Trust me..
2006-12-10 09:50:36 · answer #1 · answered by tErI :-) 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most guys that I know who are bartenders are players. I would watch you butt if you don't want to be emotionally hurt. But if your just looking for a roll in the sack maybe he's the one for you.
2006-12-10 17:50:01 · answer #2 · answered by acidcrap 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off that is a great age gap but then again age is just a number. also i dunno a bartender? i dunno if i can trust him as a bf u kno? like wat if hes jsut lookin to have sex or sumthin cuz u are young? jsut really think about it but the only way to do it is to talk to him n get to kno him. thats the only way you are gonna kno for sure. if u keep waiting for him to come to you, you may be waiting forever. just go up to him n just say hi n the conversation will carry on wit htat. jsut be in ur rite mindset n look at all the possibliltis n be careful!!! good luck!!
2006-12-10 17:49:15 · answer #3 · answered by Fahion_Gal 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I think he likes you becuse those are all good signs..Next time you are in there just make a point to stay and talk to him and flirt a little and before you are about to leave if he hasn't asked you for your number ask him for his or just write yours on a piece of paper and give it to him, thats how i met my husband...
2006-12-10 17:50:18 · answer #4 · answered by KT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him ask him if he wants to grab a bite to eat be polite and try to encourage him maybe hes just shy and doesnt know if you like him and if it turns out hes just being friendly just laugh it off cuz you never know if this could be the one
2006-12-10 18:57:04 · answer #5 · answered by advise_gal 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmm... I would say you should try talking to him more and see how that goes. If that goes well, or you could slip him your number on a piece of paper or simply and casually say we should hang out some time. That is definitely a large age difference though. idk. It could work thouhg. I say just be aggressive and see how that goes!
2006-12-10 17:49:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋