i want to ruin the lives of 2 people.my boyfriend of 3 years and his new F--- buddy , Amber Box who is 17, and on meth and pot.
he was staying clean and sober and i thought all was well
I had the flu, he was holding my hair back, getting me a cold cloth and 7up,tucking me into to bed, telling me how he loved me, how he will always be there to take care of me. He got me a puke bucket, and gave me a kiss, turned out the lights.
i woke up couple hours later to a emtpy house except for a candle burning unattended on the kitchen table, 2 bottles of booze gone, and a case of beer gone, boyfriend gone.
He didnt call, i couldnt find him anywhere, its cold out, i was so afraid he had fallen outside somewhere and hit his head, and died of hypothermia. something had to be wrong we werent fighting, he was so very sweet, it was r first flu together
i found him 2 days later, with his best friends roommate who is 17 he says i dont no what to tell u but im sorry
i feel so betrayed and hur
2006-12-10 09:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Girlie,been there & don't do what ur thinking about b/c 1st ur the bigger person(even if u want to step on them both)&2nd this universe has a cause & effect law some r aware some r not.what i'm saying they will get it!& ur karma will b clear,also there is some1 looking out 4 u,telling u this relationship isn't right 4 u & u seem nice don't waste ur postive energy on a dirt bag belive me it's not worth it,next time it may be everything from ur house/bank/car u name it. take this as a sign b strong.even when it hurts the most it is kinda also a test 4 u,learn from this & become a stronger person.u will in turn if u take these suggestions find some1 deserveing of some1 as special as u! i was told these things a long time of ago when i lost everything(including sanaity)& i found my soulmate shortly after,MOVE on.HUGS.
2006-12-10 10:01:12 · answer #1 · answered by cleo 888 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sounds to me like you need someone to talk to. You need to get away from the situation for a while if possible.. go to your parents' place, a friend's house, or anyplace where you will be supported and loved and cared for for a while.
Men (and women, I'm sure) can be scum. What you have to focus on is YOU and being the best YOU possible. This will not only work as excellent revenge (I know from experience), you will feel better about yourself and your own situation as time goes on. I know it sounds cliche, but you're better than that. Even if you thought he was amazing, he was taking advantage of you in that he wasn't planning on being faithful and supportive of you. If he comes back apologizing,, let him apologize. Then decide if he's willing to do the work it will take to change. Then, if you want him back, tell him you'll do it, but only if he shows you why FIRST. Sounds like some drug and alcohol counseling would be in order. Please keep yourself away from that stuff as it makes things worse not better. I definitely know.
2006-12-10 09:52:06 · answer #2 · answered by Katie Short, Atheati Princess 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow oh my god i am so sorry what a jerk. girl you are so much better than he is he could of had the decentsy to tell you that he didnt want to be with you anymore that was a lame way to end things. i would be furuious. but your better hold your head high and even though your heart is broken and you feel like things are falling apart dont let him see it. there is someone else out there that will love you the way you should be loved. and when you find that person he will want to come back but dont take him back and tell him as good as i was to you this is the thanks i got. tell him you appreciate the gesture but your better off without him. hold your head high girl you can get through this. good luck i'm sorry this happend to you. from one heartbroken girl to another.
2006-12-10 09:53:34 · answer #3 · answered by tcameron_2004 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
**** happens, Ive been threw it and so has a lot of other people , you are not alone, but thinking those bad thought will only hurt yourself and the ones that truly love you. Like your family your boyfriends and friends come and go but your family will always be there for you. If he is willing to do this to you now you are better off with out him before there is a marriage and children in the mix. i know it hurts like hell now but you will be better off. It will take time and a part of you will probably always love him and think of him but your true love is out there waiting for you, you owe it to him and yourself to go looking for him. he needs you and is waiting for you, your true love will never ever make you feel this way he will always, always be ther for you. It took a long time to find my fiance but I'm so glad i didn't follow through with my scary thoughts.
good luck Hun
2006-12-10 09:54:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be best for you to forget your boyfriend and Amber. Leave him and never speak to him again. That will hurt him more than an act of revenge.
It sounds as if you would be better off starting new with someone that does not do drugs.
Take care.
2006-12-10 09:47:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
let it go there not worth your time and energy. I was done bad too. It's better if you just move on. I would tell how to make there lives hell but I know I shouldn't. take the high road and find a better man one that doesn't have drug or drinking problems.
2006-12-10 09:50:30 · answer #6 · answered by masterzuaba 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If they are on meth turn them in to the cops. That way you can get back at them without doing something stupid. Also make sure he is really cheating.
2006-12-10 09:48:21 · answer #7 · answered by InvicibleStar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As you should, but your probably better off without him. He seems to have some drug issues that might take his complete downfall before he realizes that treating people this way is just not right. I don't know if that makes any sense to you... but read it again... it might help!
Truly
ElleXiz
2006-12-10 09:47:27 · answer #8 · answered by Ellexiz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Chill out. You obviously need to work on your judge of character, and find a guy that is willing to commit to you.
Ask yourself if this is something you may regret later.
2006-12-10 09:47:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ohh darling forget the **** head and move on with your live..i know u love him but there is definetly some one out there that is betta for you. hell come bak and beg oneday but ur gonna be stronger, forgive hime and move on but dnt take him bak, because you have seen wat hes trully like but if u do take him bak he will walk all ova you until he hurts you again. be strong. God Bless
2006-12-10 09:49:25 · answer #10 · answered by angel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋