I am married , 45, no kids with aging parents. My father has always been and emotionaly and psychically abusive to myself, my siblings and my mother. I avoid him 90% of the time, but I want a relationship with my mom and he wants at all cost to control that also. He will always try to answer the phone when I call, Yesterday Mom and I had plans to go shopping and when I arrived to pick Mom up he announced he was going and he would drive. I said no, if he insisted on coming then he would take his own car and follow us. I have been in his car with him before and his attitude is it is my car and we will do what I say or their is hell to pay. I promised myself that I would not allow myself to be in this situation ever again.............I was trying to establish Boundaries, I could not stop him from coming, but I would not be subjected to his tirades again.
Well he cursed me out and caused quite a scene, how should I handle this.............it has happened to me again. Thank you
2006-12-10
10:11:39
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