Family & Relationships - 10 December 2006

Why is it that as soon as things are going well for me something sh*tty happens to somebody I know? It's not fair. If I have a cr*p week then I can cope with that but I find it really hard to understand how fate can spit in the eye of my friends. It's not fair at all that this happens so much. I would just like one month to pass without something awful happening to a relative or friend. A few weeks ago one of my best mates had his life fall apart completely (sacked from work, his mother almost died, was involved in a car crash, his water pipes burst and he had to move into a caravan...), before that another good mate had a nervous breakdown, before that another mate had a major relationship problem. And today I found out another friend's long term boyfriend is cheating on her. Not to mention the problems my internet friends are having!
Why, oh why is life so hard to cope with?

2006-12-10 11:05:14 · 15 answers · asked by monkeymanelvis 7 in Friends

2006-12-10 11:05:13 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

as some people know im into pain my man is not how can i introduce this more easily. he knows its just getin him 2 try and trust me to know im capable and safe of what i like doin

2006-12-10 11:05:10 · 9 answers · asked by emzo 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a bachelor pad and my sister came to visit me and she said my bathroom is disgusting because there are little hairs all over the place. It is because I cut my own hair every week and I try to clean it as best as possible. My sister said that my bathroom is a dealbreaker and no girl would want to date me.

Is this true?

2006-12-10 11:04:02 · 33 answers · asked by juju 3 in Singles & Dating

I was told I am stuck with him until 21.He is really mean.

2006-12-10 11:03:42 · 10 answers · asked by ? 6 in Friends

I know this guy for a few months now and I really like him. But he's not interested in me. I can't exclude him from my weekly activities and I don't plan to give up my participation in the club either. So what can I do to move on while still seeing him around occasionally? I know time will heal but I need some coping mechanisms while I'm going from here and now to time-heals-everything. I know the easiest way is to go and meet other guys. But I'm hoping for other ways other than that. I really like him and I feel very sad at the moment.

2006-12-10 11:03:40 · 5 answers · asked by JKST 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 11:03:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 11:02:24 · 35 answers · asked by cuteypie 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 11:02:03 · 4 answers · asked by aka.rene 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

in a game of checkers....now she won't talk to me...what should I do??

2006-12-10 11:01:14 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

...you followed that belief. I used to think like that now I think with my heart and feelings not solid ideologies

my question really is has anyone followed the belief of no sex before marriage and are you still with the same guy/gal and are thinks fine (i.e. no cheating etc) or have things gone wrong and how have you reacted to this....

reason I ask is I know this girl who believes in this "nosex before marriage" and I respect people for it but she personally is naive in love and easily hurt

so I want to know has anyone been hurt or are is it all still ok between you and your partner and has the Idea of "No sex before marriage" been a blessing or has it screwed up your beliefs because you are now sadly apart from one and another and now you are not sure if following that belief was the right thing to do or not? If the case is the latter what have you done to alter your thinking?

2006-12-10 11:00:51 · 16 answers · asked by Music fan 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have two problems involving a party at school. number 1 I don't know what to wear and none of my real friends are going and I wouldn't have anybody to talk to. Please help me. P.S I really want to go.

2006-12-10 11:00:44 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-10 10:59:43 · 14 answers · asked by super girl 3 in Marriage & Divorce

okay i dumped this guy latly which i really regret now,i told him i didnt have feeling for him and stuff like that,but thats not tre at all,i sort of dumped him because my friends peer pressured me to,whic is bad i know.but when i told him i wanted to break up he was like well if you dont have feelings for me then its probley best.but i regret it so much,and now he ignores me,wont reply to my texts nothing,like he's snobbing me off,and i really like him
how can i say im sorry and make it up?
i tried the whole textig thing ,and he wont talk to me because hes ignoring me.
should i just drop it or what?
plz help

2006-12-10 10:59:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

How can my girl friend sure that I am her soul mate?

I love her so much and she also.
she is now 16 and I am 18

2006-12-10 10:59:17 · 3 answers · asked by Pushpendra C 1 in Singles & Dating

Which, in your opinion, would be worse?
**Staying in an unfullfilling marriage that includes at times verbal abuse and excessive drinking (no kids, we feel more like friends with benefits rather than lovers), OR
**Being divorced, alone, no friends, no family nearby, trying to make ends meet on your own?

2006-12-10 10:59:07 · 18 answers · asked by animal_mother 4 in Marriage & Divorce

confused thisnguy i dated said i was intimidated by my job whats that all about??

2006-12-10 10:58:48 · 5 answers · asked by racheal m 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 10:58:44 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 10:58:38 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my mom and dad fight CONSTANTLY. whenever my parents are around each other my dad yells at my mom about stupid little things like how he does all the work around the house (which he doesnt because he is hardly ever home because of his job). and I am getting sick and tired of seeing my mother put down like that. My dad has only been doing that for the past 2 year or so, and that's when he started drinking more...

what do I do?? let them fight it out?

2006-12-10 10:58:28 · 24 answers · asked by Quin G 1 in Family

Is there something wrong with me if I'm interested in the same sex?

2006-12-10 10:58:20 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Well I was riding my motor scooter around my neighborhood and this HOTT guy kept looking at me then i fell down and I think he said "r u okay" then he and his friend were skateboarding and kept staring at me when i passed by wit my scooter.

2006-12-10 10:57:58 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

One of my sisters invited everyone of her friends and family to look at her online journal and so I went to it and there was a lot of stuff on there about me but it was blown way out of proportion and It was very hurtful and I didn't know that she hated me and my family so much. In one thing she even said that she is ashamed to be my sister. oh I was the only one that she used there real name on her journal and she also used my son's and husbands names too!
She is sick in the head but I have still loved and cared for her. She is still living with our parents and I'm thinking on telling my folks that I will not be going there anymore untill she moves out... Would that be bad for me to do because my parents are not the ones saying all this stuff?

2006-12-10 10:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I thought I loved my girlfriend. When we first met everything was perfect. We've been together over a year now. Slowly she started to grow protective, and through the months she's gotten really over protective for no reason at all. It was at about this point when I could feel my love for her declining. She will not allow me to talk to other girls for any reason whatsoever, not even the girls that were already my friends. I can't look at them for any reason either. Well, a few months into our relationship my brother got a girlfriend, well they didn't work out but she and I stayed friends. This was back when my gf didn't care who I was friends with. Well I still talk to this girl online, and I feel bad for breaking my gf's "rule". But the only thing we ever talk about is my gf, and she helps me with my problems, that's why we're good friends. Well, I'm starting to fall for this other girl, and she's falling fo rme too. Mind you, I DO NOT flirt with her, I know that's wrong. Am I wrong?

2006-12-10 10:57:10 · 4 answers · asked by Buck D 1 in Singles & Dating

Hi guys,

I have been a bit of an idiot with a female friend of mine. Well she is quite sensitive and I have pissed her off on two occasions. Well what happened was that on the first occasion I was dropping her off home and she said she was feeling tired so I said to her “well if you fall asleep you’ll only fall in my arms” and she got really pissed off and gave me a bollocking. So I apologised and said to her it will never happen again.

But it did on my Birthday I asked her to give me a peck on the cheek and she went mental. I’m single so is she but now it’s been a few days she isn’t talking to me. I do see her as a friend but at times I go over the top. But I txt her the other day and apologised and said that I have had a good think and regret what I said and it wont happen again. But she replied saying you said that the first time but it happened. What can I say to her she’s a good friend that I don’t want to lose. Any ideas guys???

Thanx

2006-12-10 10:57:05 · 16 answers · asked by Mr. 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

a soldier.... ( a guy in uniform)?

2006-12-10 10:56:57 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

DO NOT SAY ANYTHING ABOUT PERSONALITY OR DEMEANOR! BEING IN THE SAME RACE DOES NOT MEAN THAT YOU HAVE TO BE THE SAME IN ANY WAY BUT MAYBE PHYSICAL!


WHat I wanna know is are there any men that find black women attractive. Now I don't mean the Halle, Mariah, Beyonce type. Not extra light skinned or mixed. I mean would you be attracted to a natural and dark-skinned black woman. No weaves, no died blond hair, or contacts and wide nose, big lips, nappy hair and all. I just wanna know if men are attracted to any other that the light-skinned ones. Not that I am denying their blackness.


BE HONEST! don't just say yes. if you don't say so. it would be nice to see some that do though.

2006-12-10 10:56:44 · 13 answers · asked by Koko Butta Kream 4 in Singles & Dating

She doesn't know I know about them, we share use of her laptop and I came across it accidentally. Believe me, I'd prefer not to know about it. But now I do and it really bothers me. Should it?

2006-12-10 10:56:39 · 11 answers · asked by kp 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-10 10:55:51 · 14 answers · asked by Lana817 3 in Weddings

I just met this great girl about 2 months ago. We hit it off really good, it seems like she likes hanging out with me. Lately though she has been ignoring me when she's with some friends. When we're alone she acts normal. Whats does this mean

2006-12-10 10:55:47 · 5 answers · asked by joejoe22 1 in Singles & Dating