One of my sisters invited everyone of her friends and family to look at her online journal and so I went to it and there was a lot of stuff on there about me but it was blown way out of proportion and It was very hurtful and I didn't know that she hated me and my family so much. In one thing she even said that she is ashamed to be my sister. oh I was the only one that she used there real name on her journal and she also used my son's and husbands names too!
She is sick in the head but I have still loved and cared for her. She is still living with our parents and I'm thinking on telling my folks that I will not be going there anymore untill she moves out... Would that be bad for me to do because my parents are not the ones saying all this stuff?
2006-12-10 10:57:17 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I will still go over to my parents house but not when my sister is there. Everyone is right that my parents are not the ones saying all that stuff!
I did e-mail my mom and told her about it but I don't think there is much that she can do because my sister has her own computer and she's 27 years old...
I have not heard a repley yet from my
e-mail that I sent to my mom...
2006-12-10 11:33:31 · update #1
Don't make your parents suffer for your sisters actions. If I were you, I would read her the riot act, and tell her exactly how you feel.
2006-12-10 11:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Why should you hurt your parents like that? As for having a go at your sister I dont think that it a very mature thing to do. How about talking to her and letting her know how much you love her and how much she has hurt you.
The problem with many families is that you dont know what you have until you have lost it.
2006-12-10 19:09:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Your parents shouldn't have to pay for your sister's mental health issues. Can you meet them places to visit or invite them to your place? Do they know about her online journal and the hurtful things it says? If you do not want your name or your family's names on there, there should be a main page for where she has her page through - email them and tell them that she is slandering you and others names and they will remove the page all together. I definately would have nothing to do with her from this point on.
2006-12-10 19:18:41 · answer #3 · answered by bluez 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If i were in that position i would confront my sister and tell my parents that I'm not going to visit them while my sister was at there house. I don't think that not visiting them period would be too much, because they are not the one saying things about you. By the way I am sorry that you have to hear things like that from your sister... Just remember what goes around comes around...
2006-12-10 19:24:52 · answer #4 · answered by clb <3 tjb 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
don't hurt yourself or your parents over words that your sister has written about you. you no the old saying, sticks and and stones can hurt you but words never can, don't let her do this to you and your family. be mad at her, but not your parents. you are venting in the wrong direction. you will only be adding to a situation that i'm sure is very stressful to your parents and i'm sure they are happy to know that you are the sensible one in family that they reared. good luck and be strong - since your sister cannot be.
2006-12-10 19:35:37 · answer #5 · answered by try 2 help 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would be mature about it and go there even when she is there. And tell your sister to stop being a bum and go and get a life of her own. Shes too old to still be mothered poor girl needs to grow up.She just doesnt have a life so she has to make everyone elses life miserable. Dont let wat she says bother u
2006-12-10 20:13:07 · answer #6 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋