How to truely get over someone you like a lot? (serious advice please)?

Question

I know this guy for a few months now and I really like him. But he's not interested in me. I can't exclude him from my weekly activities and I don't plan to give up my participation in the club either. So what can I do to move on while still seeing him around occasionally? I know time will heal but I need some coping mechanisms while I'm going from here and now to time-heals-everything. I know the easiest way is to go and meet other guys. But I'm hoping for other ways other than that. I really like him and I feel very sad at the moment.

Answer 1

There is no secreet reciepe to brew or perfect advice to give to help heal the pain all that can be given is my own experience..Don't give up anything continue on everyday as if nothing happened even if it hurts. Wake up everyday give yourself a pep talk be your own cheerleader, mentally motivate yourself that you can do this you can face everyday of seeing him it will make you stronger. Don't let the emotions overtake you preoccupy yourself with things to do let yourself get lost in a book, movie, song, activity anything other than feeling sad and lonely. if you haven't taken to shopping then go for it go to a dress shop try different outfits, try shoes, doesn't mean u have to buy them just window shop if u know what i mean. hell go to a car dealership test drive some cars, invite a friend go bowling or play pool you'll eventually see that you can plan a whole week of activities with good people you look forward to hanging out with without missing him. Don't get me wrong he will always be at the back of your mind and when he pops up every now and then give into the moment feel that song that reminded u of him and get up and dance to it..who cares if it is the middle of the parking lot..if u need a good cry them have at it but clean up and go watch that sexy new movie with what's hisname on it..avoid lovy duvy movies listen to upbeat songs surround yourself with optimistic people good company and have a good time..good luck..coco-mo~

Answer 2

To answer your question throw away anything that reminds you of him, Ask God for strengthen to help you get through the tough times that you are dealing with, And if the guy doesn't like you don't sweat his loss you need to be alone for a while and figure out what you want to do with yourself, Be around family and friends and when the right one comes your way then he will come to you and you won't even have to make a move. And yes time does heal all wounds Good Luck to you.

Answer 3

my cousin always told me the only way to get over 1 n*gga is get another n*gga i never believed her till i tried it and it does work cause u get into the new one and gradually u 4get tha other one

Answer 4

Tequila...

Answer 5

time, distance and someone else..time first..You will be the one to judge that...