She doesn't know I know about them, we share use of her laptop and I came across it accidentally. Believe me, I'd prefer not to know about it. But now I do and it really bothers me. Should it?
2006-12-10 10:56:39 · 11 answers · asked by kp 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Pics are them hugging and a few of him with her bra on his head. We've been together for a year. Why does she keep them? Should I confront her?
2006-12-10 11:23:39 · update #1
Only if she is in touch with him on a regular basis, and gives signs that she isn't devoted to you. The pictures may go away if she makes a decision that you are the one, but if you both are young, she may need some time to sort things out. Just depends upon how much you are in love with her. It will bother you, but you need to know the depth of your feelings, and hers. Sounds like some honest conversation is needed; you don't need to say you know about the pix, but she surely knows they are on the laptop that you share. It may be innocent, it may be more than that, but you won't know until you find out where your relationship is going. If you live together, you can't let this go any further; anything pushed under the rug comes up again somewhere else. Then, you must make it a topic of a loving conversation; if you don't have a live-in relationship and only share a laptop, figure out how solid this relationship is. Then do what you have to to make things honest again between you both. Good luck.
2006-12-10 11:03:17 · answer #1 · answered by dutchlady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some girls,can't let go b/c there was never a closing 2 this past relationship.it shouldn't bug u b/c,she's with u & she knew those pic's were there.it should bug u if she still hangs with him,than i would say something or move on,u don't want to b in a non-open relationship.or with some1that can't let go.she need's closeutuer,or u need 2 move on.
2006-12-10 11:03:46 · answer #2 · answered by cleo 888 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont mean to rigidity you yet my pal has only been by an identical problem, yet she got here upon out her boyfriend became dishonest on her with this lady. you need to sit down down your boyfriend down and clarify to him that it truly is making you sense quite uneasy because the female is for sure in love with him. If he do not realize then its as a lot as you what you do yet trust me there are extra perfect adult males accessible which will imagine the completed international of you.xx
2016-11-25 19:29:06 · answer #3 · answered by fette 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand it bothering you. It probably would me too. But it doesn't have to mean anything. Just memories of a fun time in her life. I would tell her though that you accidentally found them or saw them, and watch her reaction. That should tell you if you have anything to worry about.
2006-12-10 10:59:23 · answer #4 · answered by donnabellekc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it depends on what sort of pictures they are... if they are just normal pictures, or maybe of them together, then it seems normal enough that she still has them, especially if maybe they were together for a while?
if you just use her laptop whenever you want, then she obviously trusts you, and also if there was something she really didn't want you to see or know about she would probably hide it better or not have them on there at all.
2006-12-10 11:01:18 · answer #5 · answered by emma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No not unless there is still something going on with them... because that was the past and everyone keeps things from relationships.. pictures mean nothing hun... Just relax and tell her about it.... she should be fine with you knowing... Just let her have her memories from the past
2006-12-10 11:01:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i still have a whole folder of my ex in my laptop aswell but thats because he was a very special person in my life i dont think i will ever forget him so thats why maybe your gf is keeping these pics maybe for similar reason...;
2006-12-10 12:00:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it would bother you. Perhaps she forgot they were there. She may be more than happy to delete them.
2006-12-10 11:00:23 · answer #8 · answered by missie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes it should she still has feelings 4 her jus talk 2 her about it
2006-12-10 10:59:09 · answer #9 · answered by hllywoodx06 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She still cares for him, in some compacity..Just leave it alone. try not to stress about it, if she is with you maybe it is for friendship.....i hope
2006-12-10 11:00:31 · answer #10 · answered by Brenda Soooooooooooooooooooooooo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋