okay i dumped this guy latly which i really regret now,i told him i didnt have feeling for him and stuff like that,but thats not tre at all,i sort of dumped him because my friends peer pressured me to,whic is bad i know.but when i told him i wanted to break up he was like well if you dont have feelings for me then its probley best.but i regret it so much,and now he ignores me,wont reply to my texts nothing,like he's snobbing me off,and i really like him
how can i say im sorry and make it up?
i tried the whole textig thing ,and he wont talk to me because hes ignoring me.
should i just drop it or what?
plz help
2006-12-10 10:59:36 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
okay im gonna add a detail,the reasno y my friends wanted me to break up is because he called me a whore ,because i ignored him when my dog died,because he was being an insensitve bastard.... ad then he told me he didnt mean to send it,and i forgave me and got over it! i have tried to talk to him,but he doesnt want to talk,and no i cant really blame him 4 not answering the texts wither,all though they were the only way i could explain how i was pressured into it.
2006-12-10 11:19:59 · update #1
i dont think you should drop it try talking to him
2006-12-10 11:03:12 · answer #1 · answered by bratbabydown 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you said to him was very hurtful. Having feelings for them and having them tell you they don't have the same for you after you have been dating is a big stab in the heart. Give him time. He may come around, he may not. Good for him for not returning your textes and such...I wouldn't either. Regardless of why you did it, even if you did get back together it's something he won't ever forget. You probably couldn't have a good relationship with him like that again because of it.
2006-12-10 19:03:18 · answer #2 · answered by bluez 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesnt want to be with someone that lies to him, he probably knows you kinda like him but he doesnt want to be with you which is why he ignores you. If you tell him the truth you will look even more stupid, eg. if u really liked him u wouldnt listen to ur frends.
My advice is to try and become friends with him again, slowly start building your relationship nd getting him to like u again like u did before,
THEN when you feel its the right time, tell him that you never stopped liking him, and that you friends threatened not to be friends with you anymore if u didnt dump him (make it sound like it was their fault and u had no other choice, so then he HAS to forgive you!!)
Goodluck, next time dont give in to peer pressure!
2006-12-10 19:06:48 · answer #3 · answered by AussieGal777 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is probably playing hard to get game now with you.
You have to understand one thing that, its not fair for him at all.
One moment u dont want him, and now u want him. Its not easy to change his feelings here and there.
You need to give him some space. Send him one final text message saying you made a msitake and say sorry. Say that he would make you complete and all and u realised after loosing him. Just one text message.
Dont bug him too much he is gonna feel more irritated.
CLearly he is angry and frustrated. Give him some time.
After sending him one final msg, tell him you wont bother him anymore and give the desicion to him. he deserves to choose now.
2006-12-10 19:14:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anne H 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well you dug the hole now you have to stay in it.. of course he is ignoring you look at how you treated him.... I would leave him alone because even if you do get back together he is going to wonder weither you are being honest with him or not because you have lied about this so far........ You should never let your friends talk you into something you do not want and if they are your friends then they would have never done this to you to begin with...
2006-12-10 19:04:19 · answer #5 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
let this b a lesson to listen to ur heart and feelings and go for what makes u happy in life u have to live ur life 4 u and noone else cause noone is going to live their life 4 u and true friends would want to see u with someone that makes u happy only jealous and envious people would break u up with someone u care about remember that always i learned tha hard way just as u r
2006-12-10 19:04:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
if u like him all u have to do is go up to him and tell him ur true feels. i now its goin to take a lot but don't let pride get in the way of true love because u will regret it for the rest of ur life maybe he's hurt that's why he's not answerin ur tex u need to look at it from his point of veiw
2006-12-10 19:12:09 · answer #7 · answered by sweety 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Girls be tellin break up with him, he a player... Just call him on phone and be like I was talked into it, and I really didnt mean it, ask if he forgive you, if he says yeah get back together, if he says no....whoop your friends ass....lol good luck
WAIT YOUR NOT A GUY ARE YOU!!!
2006-12-10 19:03:13 · answer #8 · answered by Brandon H 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Move on Sweety...nothing in the world will get him back now, and besides, your friends may be a better judge than you if they think he is a jerk.
2006-12-10 19:03:44 · answer #9 · answered by boygenius1938 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
You may have to let him be. This may be that one lesson you had to face about letting your friends control your love life... be careful about that, because you have to live with the results, whereas they don't.
2006-12-10 19:02:51 · answer #10 · answered by guardian707 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
talk to him a let him know the reason why you dumped him and tell him you are sorry. honesty is the best policy
2006-12-10 19:13:22 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋