2006-12-10 10:17:38 · 5 answers · asked by Johnboy 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
she left me due to an affair with her counselor.
2006-12-10 10:29:15 · update #1
Strategies is what I meant.
2006-12-10 10:40:39 · update #2
You should first understand why you want someone who obviously does not want you.
You haven't given much info here. What was the cause of the separation? Was there cheating involved? Violence?
The severity of the reason(s) would determine whether a reconciliation is even possible.
2006-12-10 10:30:39 · answer #1 · answered by castle h 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want to cause an accident or tragedy to dupe a girl to get back?? Are you that selfish or just crazy. If that is the type of person you are, I don't blame her for leaving. Dont you know that it is not an accident if it is set up, you could get in serious trouble if you try to stage a "tragedy", and she would have no reason to trust you again.
2006-12-10 18:24:43 · answer #2 · answered by ShellBell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Moving on and finding a better woman is the best strategy. Don't feel sorry for yourself, continue with your life.
2006-12-10 18:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
show them there is a change of behavior, go to counciling, let them see u are trying. have confidence in yourself, high self worth. show them your actions have changed. listen to them, act like u value them, make them feel safe with u. be emotionally available, make them feel confortable with u, and never find falt with anything they might say to u, don't be judgemental, compliment them, tell them u love them, just be honest with them. treat them with respect, and tell them u appreciate them.be the spouse u desire from them, and they will see by your setting a good example that this is the way they should act.
2006-12-10 18:26:05 · answer #4 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on the situation, not enough info here!!
2006-12-10 18:24:22 · answer #5 · answered by zmj 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋