Me and my boyfriend have been dating for about 9 months now and he goes to a different school...we broke up about 3 months ago but we got back together...ever since we got back together hes changed...before he was sweet and he would tell me he loved me everyday...now he doesnt say at all...i feel like he is taking me for granted and hes changed alot...I love him and we lost our virginity to each other...he never calls me and i always have to call him...Sometimes i dont know where he is and he never tells me anything that goes on at his school or where he was or what he was doing when he doesnt call me...sometimes we even go days without talking because he doesnt call me back...i love him and i dont want to loose him...but everytime i try to talk to him he gets super mad and tries to runaway...what should i do??
2006-12-10 10:13:14 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
either he's found someone new or he's lost interest and am afraid there's nothing you can do about that. option one will be to spy on him and see if he's hiding something or the best option will be to talk to him and decide to break up. either way it seems like it's over and it's just a matter of time before he sums up the courage to tell you. he's got a new life now at school now and it's time you did the same whether you want to or not. life is too short to waste on someone who isn't worth it. personally i would prefer to be the dumper than the dumpee. you might aswell get in there first.
2006-12-10 10:24:27 · answer #1 · answered by Redlove 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have been in similar situations before. i think the best thing to do is to give him a little bit of time, just to let him breath so that he doesnt feel the relationship like a prison and after some time try raising the issue with him and find out why is he behaving diffent n that u want him as he used to be when you first met. Else, if nothing happen or changes for the best, then the right decision, which is hard for you is to leave and forget him. it's gonna be very painful and i can tell u, only time will heal the wound but it will make you stonger at heart. Best wishes for your future.
2006-12-10 10:31:28 · answer #2 · answered by incognito 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he needs some space from the relationship...i know how u feel and i can tell that it hurts. Even when u try to talk to them, they deny it and try to change the topic. Try talking about it with him in person...spend the whole day together...go to the movies or stay at home and watch a movie and then go out to eat...when u see the perfect time to bring up the issue, talk it out. Maybe u guys should go on a break for him to realize how much he likes/loves u. Hope this helped
2006-12-10 10:22:13 · answer #3 · answered by blue rose 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The next time don't be too easy to the guys. He may have another girlfriend, why don't you stop calling him, remember the phone works both ways. He is just not into you, so you have to cut your losses, and move on, he has no respect for you, and you are allowing him to walk all over you, he is taking you for granted! Please leave him. so you can have some happiness, because you deserve it! Have a great holiday!
2006-12-10 10:21:02 · answer #4 · answered by roseannetb@verizon.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
in plain english; its over. all your doing now is playing a game. he's to much of a coward to tell you its over. look at the facts. he dont tell you he loves you anymore, he doesnt tell you what he's doing. he doesnt return your calls. in fact he doesnt call you at all. my advice to you is do not ring him for one whole wk. that way you will know exactly how he feels. if he doesnt come running wondering why you havnt rung then your best off without him sweetie. if he does come running then lay a few rules like he actually makes an effort and rings you once in a while, but honestly? it sounds over. sorry
2006-12-10 11:08:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think he is being very nice at all. downright rude. if you have to chase your guy.. something is not right.
There is no reason for you to keep chasing him like that. if he is your girl.. he should be calling you and being with you not to mention showing you some kind of respect.
I would have a long talk with him to find out whats up.. if he doesnt want to.. i would end it. he is playing games....
2006-12-10 10:19:33 · answer #6 · answered by ~Raven~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"sometimes we even go days without talking because he doesnt call me back"
Ok, you said that.....he is playing games with you. I would cut him loose. He's taking you for granted, you're there whenever he wants you. Don't be a doormat honey.
2006-12-10 10:19:10 · answer #7 · answered by bon b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to me. You broke up because he wanted to fish around in a different waterhole, when that didn't work out, he brought his bait back home and he's treating you like a dead fish. If you want to be a dead fish, don't do anything, but if you want to be happy, kick this clown out of your tent and find someone who will appreciate you, because that is what you deserve! Everybody get's their heart broken, even though it feels like you're the only one; Welcome to the Club. Good Luck!
2006-12-10 10:29:21 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont call him and ignore him for a while (maybe for 2 weeks) and if he doesnt try to get in contact with you during that time at all then move on because he has
2006-12-10 10:25:04 · answer #9 · answered by just anotha chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds like a total jerk. Why is he like that, I don't have the answer. But he doesn't seem worth it. You've given so much to him and he totally doesn't appreciate that. Things aren't going to get better even though there might be some times when they SEEM to be getting better. I would move on!
2006-12-10 10:18:36 · answer #10 · answered by purringout 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋