I love love, I really do, but why does it have to hhhhhhhhhuuuuuuuuuuuuuurrrrrrrrrttttttttttttttttttttt so much?
I am a fairly happy person, and pretty chilled, but when things start to go wrong in my relationship I feel SO MUCH PAIN!
WWWHHHHHYYYYYYYYYYYY??????????
2006-12-10 10:23:41 · 22 answers · asked by CHARISMA 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Damn you sound like me. i wish i had a million dollars for each time i said that.
Love Does Suck. The heart loves who the heart loves.. good or bad... and pain, happiness, joy, anger, hurt, desire, passion... all of that comes with it.
if we are lucky to truley fall in love once in our lifetime.. we hold on to that.. good or bad.. i have been fortunate to find someone i totally believe is my soulmate... but indeed all those things listed above came with it... hang in there... funny how things tend to work out for the best.. i am wishing you that :)
2006-12-10 10:30:09 · answer #1 · answered by ~Raven~ 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sadly, im not sure that there is a single correct answer to this question. When it all comes down to it, I, as a man, can say we are to blame. I am horrific. I have been in a relationship for 7 months and have been nothing but a best friend and a lover to my partner, however when i am drunk i seemingly have no control over myself. Love hurts because its easier for us to understand physical pain than the immensely complex emotion that is love. I love love, but i fear for myself when love is involved. I apologise for the poor answer but the fact is its different for everyone. Whether it was a 1 month whirlwind romance or a 50 year marriage, love is unbelievably painful.
2006-12-10 18:29:21 · answer #2 · answered by Jay69 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
b/c every time u start out believing this is it and at first it feels soooooooooooooooo good tha best feeling we have ever felt we never felt like this b4 about anyone we claim until it goes oh so wrong and it seems u never see that coming then it feels like u have died inside and tha hurt compares 2 nothing else until tha next time we let it happen again which we promise ourselves over and over again we wont let happen but we always do. me myself i think im codependent thatswhy i keep letting it happen and i always go for tha wrong guys and turn down probably tha right ones cause they dont appeal to me. i go for what im attracted to not whats good for me so it seems.good luck 2 u , myself, and everyone else out here on that quest for love and the perfect mate and relationship may we all find what we r looking 4.
2006-12-10 18:40:03 · answer #3 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
LOVE is beautiful BUT painful
it can either be the BEST thing in your life or the WORST
thats why it SUCKS A**
but HEY thats the way life like is
as painful as it is... that's LOVE
2006-12-10 18:30:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Love is just like a coin there are to sides to love just like there are two sides to a coin. Love when it is new or lasting it is like a precious jewel but when it fades into nothingness only pain and darkness remains and this is just the way it will stay, In a way love is a curse.
2006-12-10 18:53:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's true.
One thing I try to remember when I get hurt by someone I love is that their behaviour/words, etc. usually isn't the problem, so much as my unrealistic expectations of that person.
If you try to look at things this way, you may realize that maybe the other person, while acting thoughtlessly, isn't really trying to hurt you. It's a small consolation, i know, but isn't feeling even a little better worth it?
Feel better, sister!
2006-12-10 18:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by ThatGuy 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It`s not the love that is letting you down it`s the other person in your relationship that is not living up to your standards and then you feel let down and dejected, and thats what does it to you.
2006-12-10 19:25:34 · answer #7 · answered by dnlrawson 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
everyone has their heart broken at one point or another but when it gets broken is what you do is get up and move on but it will take time to that you just need to give yourself time to do so and there is always someone who is better for you just be patient and the right one will come along
2006-12-10 18:33:09 · answer #8 · answered by Rivelle W 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's because you love love too much and as the saying goes, too much of anything is bad. maybe it's time you went back to the basic human instinct of self preservation and try not to fall head over heels inlove. it doesn't hurt to hold back a bit to protect yourself when things go bad because as you know they always do.
2006-12-10 18:29:51 · answer #9 · answered by Redlove 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Fall in love with the right bloke and you will be in bliss, just ask my wife.
2006-12-10 18:30:32 · answer #10 · answered by Lewisthelab 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋