2006-12-10 10:14:22 · 8 answers · asked by carzyfor13years 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Just get rid of him and make a better life for yourself.
2006-12-10 10:16:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, first, sweetie, I wouldn't live or even date a guy who I found out was lying to me. (What ARE you thinking???) So therefore I sure enough wouldn't have put up with it for 13 !!!! (are you serious???) years. What kind of guys are you used to, anyway? Perhaps if you got an education (your spelling reflects a hs drop-out) you would be out there in the business world with a bit better class of man. Think about it. In 5 years, if you are college material, you could have a degree, and a super job. The 5 years will pass anyway. You might have to work during the day, and go to school at night, but hey, been there, done that.... and the guy I ended up with? Masters degree, professional, knows a little bit about almost everything, helpful, kind, sweet, truly a prince.....wouldn't have settled for anything less......You apparently have. Sorry for you sweetie.
What would I do in your case now? Get out, get a job, get an education, take control of my life, for sure not date the class of guy you are dating now------- that's what I'd do, sweetie.
You asked.
2006-12-10 18:54:41 · answer #2 · answered by April 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all you don't take matters into you own hands because this will only make the situation worse,you both should seek counseling,and after thirteen years I have to question your allegations of him doing all the lieing,Sounds to me like there is a dsyfunction on both sides of the relationship and it takes two for things to work and in this scenario I think maybe you both are victoms as well as the creators of trouble.Good Luck and God Bless
2006-12-11 14:13:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds as though he is a habitual liar. This person will only get worse unless they get help. I would start telling this person that you know that they are lying every time they try to lie. I would also tell this person it is either the truth or I am out of here.
2006-12-10 19:09:34 · answer #4 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hear ya sista!
My ex was a master liar and I was so snowed by him that I reallly believed all his crap for 14 years. he was so good at what he did that he even had my family convinced I had gone round the bend until the very end and he was planning to take the kids and file for abandonment. Then and only then did they know that I wasn't who he made me out to be. (Long Story with many details left out)
Can you say EX-HUSBAND? I sure can..every day!!!
2006-12-10 18:39:11 · answer #5 · answered by TotallylovesTodd! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if he has lied for 13 years he doesn;t respect you or lovr you.. you need to be honest with him about how you feel about everything and if he has no remorse for what he has done then you need to file for divorce as fast as you can and find someone who will love you the way you love them... Life is to short to be with someone who doesn't share the same feels in the relationship
2006-12-10 18:46:45 · answer #6 · answered by evil_fallen_angel41 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you still there? that's what you need to ask yourself then figure out what you're going to do about it. in your heart you know what and how to do it. you've been thinking about for a while.. just get the courage and the help to do it. good luck
2006-12-10 18:17:46 · answer #7 · answered by hummybird 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you first learn how to use the spell check.........
2006-12-10 19:40:54 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋