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Or that only when I stop looking for him, he'll find me?

2006-12-10 10:16:07 · 26 answers · asked by Alice 2 in Family & Relationships Marriage & Divorce

26 answers

"knock,knock,knock"

2006-12-10 10:18:01 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

When you have yourself together then Mr. Right will come along because if you have issues you are going to attract the wrong one. Know what you want ahead of time too. Good stuff none of that he has to have money, look good, etc. That is fine and all that but make sure you want an honest person with some integrity so he won't be lying to you and hitting all upside your head and what not. Don't look for him, let him come looking for you.

2006-12-10 18:20:46 · answer #2 · answered by helives75 2 · 0 0

No. Most people look for partners at dances, night clubs, parties, college mixers, or anywhere else singles hang out. Or maybe Yahoo! dating.
In these cases you put your best foot forward and send out positive vibes. What if the man of your dreams knocks on your door when you are suffering from a hangover, it's two pm and you are still wearing your bath robe, you have acne care on your face and you have not brushed your teeth yet?

2006-12-10 18:23:21 · answer #3 · answered by regerugged 7 · 0 0

It is quite common for people to come into contact with there future spouse when they are not looking for love or a relationship
it like a bit of destiny and fate mixed with a little wow. Well thats what happened with me and my wife just had our 7th anniversary and happy as a couple of pigs in sh it, the funny thing is we both had work mates drag us out for a drink and wam thats when we met at the same cheesy karaoke bar.

2006-12-11 01:32:18 · answer #4 · answered by Livinrawguy 7 · 0 0

That's what people say. The night I met my husband was out of the ordinary. I was certainly not in the mood to go out meeting people. My friend had called an begged me to go out with her. I really did not feel like going out...I had worked all day and woke up very early to do so. We went to the local hang out for a few drinks...I did not even dress up..I had jeans and a button up on. I did not even touch up my make-up. He happened to go with a few of his friends at the last minute...to be honest....the rest is history. Neither one of us were out on the hunt....until we saw each other.
So yeah, I think it is true...when you least expect it and when you stop trying so hard...it just comes along.

2006-12-10 18:26:24 · answer #5 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0 0

I wouldn't stop looking for him completely. If you want to be hit by a bus, you have to be in the street, not on the sidewalk. But if he comes in through a door, my experience suggests it will be the back one, and when you least expect it.

2006-12-10 18:19:34 · answer #6 · answered by acablue 4 · 0 0

I think men see desperate written all over a womans face. I think if you start living your life thinking if mr right comes my way oh well and if he doesn't that is ok too. With that attitude he will surely come around. Just take it slow and be very picky on who you date and do not rush into anything.

2006-12-10 19:21:23 · answer #7 · answered by luvlisteningtomusic 6 · 0 0

I think in a way it's true. Most girls who are looking for Mr. Right give off that "desperation" vibe. They seem to be evaluating every guy they come in contact with. When you relax and stop looking, you seem more comfortable with yourself and less intimidating to approach. That's my take on it anyway.

2006-12-10 18:20:10 · answer #8 · answered by libra1079 2 · 0 0

As long as your major interest is finding 'Mr. Right' he will elude you.

Develop your own interests, have a positive attitude and zest for life, get involved in constructive activities that interest both males and females, be yourself. Smile a lot, be friendly and kind. Don't be promiscuous! Get to really know and love yourself and you will be irresistible.

2006-12-10 18:21:54 · answer #9 · answered by Heidi 4 6 · 0 0

Build up your self esteem by excelling at what you do best and surrounding yourself with great people-you'll be all set 4 when love comes a knocking.

2006-12-10 18:19:19 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

It's possible that CAN happen (and it's happened an endless number of times to people!... but for now, before you meet Mr. Right, work on yourself, girl... have confidence and have that joy and fun in your life... it's very attractice.

2006-12-10 18:20:03 · answer #11 · answered by purringout 3 · 0 0

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