Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

i have a crush on my guy friend, but we're not best friends or anything. we're just hi-bye friends, but i want to change that.
the first thing is, i've noticed that people who sit together during lunch get to be better friends quicker, so i wanted to sit at his table, but he has this group of best friends he's known since like second grade (in 8th grade now) and most of them are girls (i know for a fact he's not going out with any of them tho) so i find them a bit intimidating.
Should I ask to sit at their table?
Should I do something else so i could be better friends with him?
**please dont tell me to talk to him more, becuz i talk to him every chance i get. (those were the answers i got last time)

2006-12-09 11:39:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my friend thinks she`s fat and i need some guys to be really honest with her plz anwer!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-09 11:39:27 · 16 answers · asked by jonesysis14 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, last year (i know its a long time) there was a girl that im pretty sure liked me. I never talked to her because I was to shy and really didnt know what to say to her. Now I have a really big crush on her, and I cant even get her to look at me anymore. I know that she probably felt rejected when I didnt talk to her, and I know that that I have to talk to her to make things better. Assuming she doesnt have a boyfriend, do I have a chance with her if I tell her this?

2006-12-09 11:38:49 · 26 answers · asked by charliebrown132526 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, so I really like this kid named Jerry, and it has been ever since 4th grade when I gave him this Valentine for valentine's day, and it was really cute. ALso, i used to send him little love notes all the time in elementary school. Then in 7th grade i asked him out, he said yes, we went out for like a month, then I broke up with him before summer vacation cuz i wasn't ready for a relationship.Now im in 9th grade and i still like him, but I haven't talked to him since 7th grade which is really weird. anyways, he asked my friend to the dance in 8trh grade and she denied the invitation. Jerry really liked her, Annie, and she's my best friend. She didn't like him that much in 8th grade because she knew that i still liked him. but now, she thinks that im over him and she likes him. they flirt all the time and i really like him but we haven't talked to eachother since 7th grade!! SO, what do i do, whenever i see him, he looks at me and i look at him but quickly look away. please help me!

2006-12-09 11:37:58 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

because im trying to find someone who knows
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if you do then write back

2006-12-09 11:37:53 · 1 answers · asked by babyface042504 1 in Friends

well, i told him.."thankyou, but i am not interested.."....LATER, HE CALLED AND SAID..'i have a pizza for you...blah, blah, blah,"...i just said.."oh, no thank you, i have ALREADY EATEN TONIGHT.."...Later i wrote him a NOTE...A NICE NOTE SAYING..."i JUST LIKE YOU AS A FRIEND...I AM NOT INTERESTED IN ANYTHING ELSE, BLAH, BLAH, BLAH"...then i did NOT hear from him...and i was relieved....BUT YOU ARE NOT GOING TO BELIEVE THIS....3 weeks later he called three times...i did not answer the phone because i have caller id...TELL ME WHAT IS THE MATTER WITH HIM?????

2006-12-09 11:37:18 · 14 answers · asked by sweet 4 in Singles & Dating

maybe you are afraid to let it show or surface for some reason...sure we all keep little pieces of ourselves hidden but is there anything that you hide within because you are afraid to let it out?...maybe how passionate you are...how lonely you feel...how loving you are...what a bad temper you have...whatever...

2006-12-09 11:37:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am a 21 year old male.
I have a 35 year old female friend.
We're just friends.
I want to buy her a gift for Christmas but I can't think of anything to get that says I don't want to be your bofriend, just friends for now.
I'm going to spend £100 - £300 on her.
Any ideas?

2006-12-09 11:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i still thinks he loves me

2006-12-09 11:36:33 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I am unmarried guy and I wanna know if ppl face problems after marriage because of old habit of mastrubation imagining friends or other women? Or this habits never comes up once u r married?

2006-12-09 11:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

I had started to get very interested in a guy who is very sexy and cute. We live long distance until I move home next month.

I found out that while he and I were iming, he was also iming a friend of a friend at the same time and asking her for quickie unprotected sex in the middle of the night (They had never even met or talked before)

I told him I was taking break form dating when I found this out. My friend was mean and let him know that he was exposed as playing a lot of angles at once.
What's really nuts is, I still keep thinking about him and trying to rationalize away him asking for anonymous booty call with one girl, while talking to me like he was all sweet and innocent at the same minute.

Smack some sense into me before I do something idiotic and contact him again !

2006-12-09 11:35:55 · 13 answers · asked by Leea 1 in Singles & Dating

i nag them almost every day to find work and ive had to take on a second job to keep us afloat they are lazy and say to me ive done the washing up for you when its for all of us, they sit at home all day and party at weekends, i am so down and get so upset but they just dont change they go to interviews but nothing happens
i just dont know wht to do for them to realise im so unhappy
thier dad lives in Thailand so is no help at all

2006-12-09 11:34:33 · 28 answers · asked by cazmo 4 in Family

I just find it so rude and hard to respond to people without either sounding pretentious or weird!

2006-12-09 11:34:04 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I'm 18 and I have chose not to get a girl at all. I am not gay, but I have never had any emotional attatchment to a woman before. I looked for a girl, and I never asked one out, but I gave up. All the girls I know are bitches that are no better than the local prostitutes. I will never get married, I will not have any kids, as I hate little kids. I will move to the Caribbean and enjoy myself, smoking cigars and drinking, with no one bitching at me, while all my friends (I know, I know, it's suprising I have some) have to deal with little kids, and a wife they have to put up with. I would not want to share my life with anyone else, as it is MY life, and is about me. I can take care of myself and I don't need some girl to love me. Love is gushy and too weak for me. So why am I wrong in saying I should be alone?

2006-12-09 11:32:47 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 11:31:43 · 36 answers · asked by Cisco_2010 2 in Family

Let's say for example that she is 4 years older than you, would you still date her?

2006-12-09 11:31:09 · 7 answers · asked by sunny 3 in Singles & Dating

that works? Tried Vic's Vaporub, tea tree oil and vinegar. Anyone know of anything else? Yes, I know wrong category, but all the smart people are in this section...

2006-12-09 11:30:51 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-09 11:30:20 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met this girl on the internet she is in Michigan I am in England, can it work out?

2006-12-09 11:30:18 · 12 answers · asked by kaled2010ad 1 in Singles & Dating

I been in a relationship with the man that I loved for about 3 years. I decided that it wasn't a good idea to be together because he wasn't spending time with me as much, he wasn't calling me as much, and we weren't spending time with each other. I hated the idea of not being with him and for 5 months straight, i could get over him. I called him and told him how much I missed him and that i wanted to get back with him. I think that he's not making an effort in trying to get back with me. I recently asked him "what am I to you" and he flipped out saying that I am what I always was to him. He immediiately thought i was talking to someone else, saying you can talk to whoever you want. I want him so bad but I think he not showing any interest in being back with me, what should i DO?

2006-12-09 11:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I have the best mom and dad ever. I dont know what to get them for christmas! They works so hard to make us happy, and we try
to make them happy too. There the best mom and dad ever. I feel like people walk all over them, and dont ever help her when they help them.

She loves cooking, I was thinking of getting her some new dishes.
He works alot, but loves to read. Perhaps a subscription to a magazine, and other assundries?I want this christmas to be about her and my father. I am still young, and care about my parents more then any other kid, (or atleast I think so) I want to spend all of my money on them, because thats what they do for me and my siblings. I want my siblings to help too. Instead of us expecting things, I want them to expect things. I want to pile tons of presents for them underneath the Christmas Tree. This is the Christmas I want them to know how much I appreciate every thing they do, and that I respect them greatly.

This holiday will be for them♥

2006-12-09 11:28:39 · 7 answers · asked by tinax3 2 in Family

She is ten, and she wants one, but I think she'll need it because she will soon be at the age that she will have more and more clothes.

2006-12-09 11:28:04 · 10 answers · asked by spookguy99 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay, so I really like this kid named Jerry, and it has been ever since 4th grade when I gave him this Valentine for valentine's day, and it was really cute. ALso, i used to send him little love notes all the time in elementary school. Then in 7th grade i asked him out, he said yes, we went out for like a month, then I broke up with him before summer vacation cuz i wasn't ready for a relationship.Now im in 9th grade and i still like him, but I haven't talked to him since 7th grade which is really weird. anyways, he asked my friend to the dance in 8trh grade and she denied the invitation. Jerry really liked her, Annie, and she's my best friend. She didn't like him that much in 8th grade because she knew that i still liked him. but now, she thinks that im over him and she likes him. they flirt all the time and i really like him but we haven't talked to eachother since 7th grade!! SO, what do i do, whenever i see him, he looks at me and i look at him but then quickly look away! plz hlp me

2006-12-09 11:27:50 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

The girl with the biggest pair of knockers? A party girl? I really need to know what they're thinking.

I'm neither of those things. I don't do drugs, have never partied, and I've got extremely small bewbs (less than an A cup). Is that all that guys my age initially care about??

I'm 17, and have never been asked out, or even liked by a guy.

Stats: 5'5, 110 lbs, brown hair, I don't find myself all that attractive, and, as I've already said, I'm lacking in the boobie department.

2006-12-09 11:27:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

writes more in your Christmas card than he does in anyone elses and puts 'love from', what does it mean?

2006-12-09 11:27:19 · 14 answers · asked by coz_6 1 in Singles & Dating

If a guy is getting married, and the girl he is going to marry is the only one that he has been with his whole life. Would he regret that he has never done it with any other girls? Would he just try it before he gets married? like at his bachelor's party or something? (usurping his last chance of doing it with other girls before commiting to just one woman for the rest of his life) So that way, he can say that he has been with more than one woman in his life, and he won't be curious anymore. Is this a common practice? Would you do that? Or do you think it's just immature or reasonable? I've heard guys saying stuff like that, and I just thought to me that would be really unacceptable and wrong. I mean, it would still be considered cheating. and he will definitely hurt his wife's feelings once she finds out. I may file for divorce if I find out. What do you think? Do all guys think that way? Would you allow it?

2006-12-09 11:27:14 · 19 answers · asked by Heather K 1 in Marriage & Divorce

His fathers name is John Lopez. He was stationed at Nas Sigonella in 1982. Thats about all I know about him. I have tried EVERY free search available that I know of. I have even tried the military websites. I am stuck in a rut. My husbands Mother wont give us any information. With his name being so common whenever I search his name 32498174391874 names are found. Any suggestions? I will be willing to pay for someone to find him. Just not more then $100. Money is tight right now! I'm not going on tv either!!!

2006-12-09 11:26:52 · 3 answers · asked by asldkfalsdfkj 2 in Family

My boyfriend and I have been together for about 8 months. We are both in our mid twenties. His hectic schedule keeps him away for most of the week and when he comes home on the weekends he is usually tired and doesn't have time for me. Because he lives at home he feels the need to go above and beyond to compensate for him still living at home. The only reason that he is stil there is because he is rarely home so he isn't in a rush to buy his own place but he can afford it if he wanted. He even does too much for his family that doesn't live with him. After he does that and runs all the errands that he has to do for himself the weekend is over and it's back to work. We argue about this every weekend because I miss him so much and I'm also starting to resent his family. Am I really being selfish? Should I leave him or just try to be more understanding? I have to admit that I do get his undivided attention while he's on the road during the week. Help!!

2006-12-09 11:26:24 · 4 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Singles & Dating

ok there is this guy in my bio class.....and he is new and all the girls like him but he always smiling at me but i dont know how to get to know him better....please help...if we hooked up he would be my first boyfriend im 15 ill be 16 next month

2006-12-09 11:25:56 · 16 answers · asked by Tired_of _the_games 1 in Singles & Dating

im in high school and we only talk in school but i dont want to ruin that so how do i findout if she likes me before i ask her out and if she says no will we still be friends?

2006-12-09 11:25:35 · 2 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating