I am a 21 year old male.
I have a 35 year old female friend.
We're just friends.
I want to buy her a gift for Christmas but I can't think of anything to get that says I don't want to be your bofriend, just friends for now.
I'm going to spend £100 - £300 on her.
Any ideas?
2006-12-09 11:36:59 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That amount of money is too much to spend on someone who you say you want just as a friend. Settle for spending £30.00p maximum ok.
2006-12-09 11:40:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really depends on what she likes and what she's used to, but I think that with a day-spa treatment you would make her VERY happy. It's not something that she might not like, like jewellery, a dress, lingerie or a perfume, and she will definitely appreciate the thought.
With a day of facials, massages, mud wrappings and pampering for herself only you are saying "I care for your well-being, and don't want to tie you down with having to wear something just because I gave it to you". It's also less trite than flowers.
£200 should cover it, and she'll love it. Be sure to book at a swell place, older gals know whats what: Bliss, Aveda, that level and up only. Give her the voucher so she can go when she's free.
You'll thank me on this one!
2006-12-09 13:40:02 · answer #2 · answered by sandwich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a similar 'friend' at your age; take my advice: She doesn't want you to be her boy friend either. Just enjoy the relationship for what it offers because the reality is that sooner or later one or both of you will find somebody else. So keep it simple, like sexy underwear; make her feel 'younger' than you.
2006-12-09 13:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by Ta 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marcus there all sorts of friendship jewellery you can buy without giving signals .Ask the girl in the shop for her help good luck
2006-12-09 11:41:26 · answer #4 · answered by not a mused 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i suggest going to swarovski.. its not ridiculously expensive but you can get some beautiful pieces of jewellery or oranaments.
another idea, get her a spa gift certificate? something that entitles her to a day of pampering at a nice spa. good luck either way!
2006-12-09 12:19:04 · answer #5 · answered by miss_santeria 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you two are totally comfortable, then don't worry, just get her what she may want or need. Once its not night gowns or lingerie you should be cool. much luv, stay safe, and good luck.
Angel
2006-12-09 11:52:22 · answer #6 · answered by angelof2worlds 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't spend too much till you find out your true feelings for her.
2006-12-10 07:11:21 · answer #7 · answered by steve h 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out wat her favourate clothes shops r n get some vouchers so she can treat herself in the january sales or try booking her a relaxing body massage in a spar im sure she will b gr8full.
2006-12-09 11:42:39 · answer #8 · answered by blossom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just don't poot on her floor, that is enough for anyone's Christmas!
2006-12-09 11:39:16 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋