Ok, last year (i know its a long time) there was a girl that im pretty sure liked me. I never talked to her because I was to shy and really didnt know what to say to her. Now I have a really big crush on her, and I cant even get her to look at me anymore. I know that she probably felt rejected when I didnt talk to her, and I know that that I have to talk to her to make things better. Assuming she doesnt have a boyfriend, do I have a chance with her if I tell her this?
2006-12-09 11:38:49 · 26 answers · asked by charliebrown132526 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes I think you do have a chance, just explain to her that you are shy and just can't express yourself very well. You seem like a nice guy, and if she doesn't have a boyfriend than I am sure she would like you! Good Luck! Ask your self this...what would be worse telling her you like her, or just sitting back and never knowing?
2006-12-09 11:42:19 · answer #1 · answered by lustfulcalgal 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would say that im sure she did feel rejected when you ignored her. now that you have a crush on her, go up and just start talking to this girl. girls like nice, confident boys (but not cocky confidence- so be careful!) if she liked you last year, then she might still have a little bit of feeling still left for you. dont freak her out by professing how much u love her and stuff cuz that's a little bit of stalker-ish words to hear. just start off by being her friend. maybe it'll grow into something more. good luck!
2006-12-09 19:43:59 · answer #2 · answered by Shanequa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you still have a chance with her. That was then, this is now. Live in the present, live in the moment, now is now, the past is the past. You want to approach her again . . . then do so. If she accepts your offer towards her then that's nice. If she rebuffs your advance towards you then that is based on her interest or non-interest in you as a person. The time frame factor means nothing here.
2006-12-09 19:43:36 · answer #3 · answered by onelight 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You might have a chance...if you still have a hard time talking to girls, maybe you should write her a letter. You'll never know if you don't take the chance! Good luck
2006-12-09 19:41:49 · answer #4 · answered by Renee B 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe
Try asking her out, or if you are really shy have a friend say it and get embarrassed.
Get double embarrassed if she says no.
Good luck you seem to be nice hope u get a chance.
2006-12-09 19:44:53 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm thats a tough one...
u should jsut start by saying hi next time she walks past u & see how she recacts if she seems happy that u said hi next time make the converstaion longer...
ask for her number or something... send her a few texts & u guys will become good friends once she knwos you a bit better maybe she will start to like u back
GOOD LUCK!
2006-12-09 19:53:52 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you do. Honestly is the best policy. Tell her you are sorry if you hurt her feelings, by ignoring her, and that you like her. If she doesn't feel that way about you anymore, then accept it.
Good luck!
2006-12-09 19:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by Unknown 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Possibly, just be really nice and friendly, not necessarily boy-friendly. Don't assume she still wants to go out with you.
Be careful, she may get defensive.
Good Luck!!!!!
2006-12-09 19:42:26 · answer #8 · answered by Wishful Writer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i was in spot like this i would tottaly ask the person u never know what could happen as long as u have the confedence then go and try and see what happens
2006-12-09 19:42:40 · answer #9 · answered by companykid101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first find out somehow if she has a boyfriend. if she dosnt then talk to her. dont tell her your sorry for not talking to her before. it was a long time ago. just start fresh.
2006-12-09 19:42:35 · answer #10 · answered by littlebell1993 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋