I been in a relationship with the man that I loved for about 3 years. I decided that it wasn't a good idea to be together because he wasn't spending time with me as much, he wasn't calling me as much, and we weren't spending time with each other. I hated the idea of not being with him and for 5 months straight, i could get over him. I called him and told him how much I missed him and that i wanted to get back with him. I think that he's not making an effort in trying to get back with me. I recently asked him "what am I to you" and he flipped out saying that I am what I always was to him. He immediiately thought i was talking to someone else, saying you can talk to whoever you want. I want him so bad but I think he not showing any interest in being back with me, what should i DO?
2006-12-09 11:30:14 · 8 answers · asked by Nicole 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
He ignored you, then he accepted it when he thought you were seeing someone else, now he won't put any effort into you. You just need to face the truth. You will not be the only one who isn't with the one they really want.It may just be that you want what you can't have. We all do.
2006-12-09 12:33:58 · answer #1 · answered by tim b 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You left because you knew in your heart something wasn;t right or something is missing. He can't seem to care for you the way that you need a man to feel for you. Men will treat you the way you allow them to.
You have to be true to yourself because you have to live with yourself, not them. If he truly wants you...allow him to make himself more available. Be there, because it takes two to make a relationship work, but continue with work, school, family, and friends. They are as important as him and he may respect you more for having a life with & without him.
Strive for better understanding and try talking to him more. He may be going thru something or is really busy and doesn't want to bother you. Let him know your there, but continue with your life as well.
2006-12-09 19:54:08 · answer #2 · answered by stormy_one67 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he isn't showing any interest, sometimes it happens if we confront them about anything. i would not hold my breath, or call him again, makes u sound desperate, u called him with what u were feeling, now the ball is in his court, and if he is truly interested he will contact u, if not u have to accept it, and find someone else. just distance yourself, and wait and if he never calls, than maybe it wasn't meant to be.
2006-12-09 19:47:55 · answer #3 · answered by jude 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave as fast as you can, and delete all records of him. There was a reason you broke up in the first time.
2006-12-09 19:35:15 · answer #4 · answered by nick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart.
2006-12-09 19:35:06 · answer #5 · answered by S K 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on, he's not worth the pain. You will find someone who will appreciate you and want to be with you, just be patient.
2006-12-09 19:44:01 · answer #6 · answered by letsgetagripalready 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow your heart and stay true to yourself. You can never go wrong.
2006-12-09 20:38:45 · answer #7 · answered by rtanys 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do what your heart is telling you. 99% of the times its right...good luck!!!
2006-12-09 23:35:59 · answer #8 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋