I am unmarried guy and I wanna know if ppl face problems after marriage because of old habit of mastrubation imagining friends or other women? Or this habits never comes up once u r married?
2006-12-09 11:36:32 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I still masturbate even married for 25years.
2006-12-09 17:27:03 · answer #1 · answered by bisexualmale s 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ahhh, more guilt trips. Who is this guilt trip from - some church? Because you know every time you turn around some priest or pastor is banging a whore, blowing or cornholing a choirboy, hiring a gay transvestite hooker, screwing the church secretary, cheating on his wife, or creating a cult where polygamy is okay for men but not for women. They want you to do as they *say*, not as they *do*.
Listen. Masturbation and thinking about *whoever* when you do it is completely normal, it won't go away after you get married, and it'll be the *only* thing that you'll have to help you out many times after you do get married and she's tired, not in the mood, whatever.
So enough of the pollyanna "oooh it's so naughty" bullsh*t. Just do it when she won't see you or walk in on you - women can't know what the ugly underbelly of men's sexual practices look like or they'd never talk to us. It's your porn, your tissues, your KY, and your pecker. Rub one out whenever the coast is clear, and tell the pastor to shove that egg right back up the chicken, since he's probably effing the choir director or her 9 year old son.
2006-12-09 11:54:24 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In a healthy relationship, masturbation can even be something the two of you can enjoy together - your husband would enjoy watching you and by "helping" he could actually learn some tricks on how to please you as well! However, also in a healthy marriage, neither couple should ever feel violated or uncomfortable, so if your wife/husband feels awkward, you should always respect and honor their feelings first. As far as doing it on your own - is it in secret when your partner is away/asleep and you feel guilty and would never tell them? Well, then it's wrong. Is it something you do in the afternoon when you are reliving last night's lovemaking, and afterwards call your husband and tell him breathlessly to "hurry home, I'm *thinking* of you", and he loves it? Well, enjoy! I strongly believe it is all relative, and also that with any fantasy, it should involve each other and not random thoughts of Jessica Simpson or Sawyer from Lost.
2016-05-22 23:54:54 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
its only a habit because you're not married and can't get it anytime you want. besides, its not a habit anyway...just a natural part of life that everyone does.
2006-12-09 12:20:49 · answer #4 · answered by marincaligirl 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It depends on your relationship. I think couples should share the experience. It's physically and emotionally mind-blowing.
2006-12-09 11:40:01 · answer #5 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It becomes a MAJOR problem when he can only get off from masturbating to porn, but can't get off when he has the real deal with his wife.
2006-12-09 18:45:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it depends on the people.Some would not have a problem with it,while others would.It may or may not interfere with a relationship.
2006-12-09 12:17:43 · answer #7 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No one knows who youre imagining unless you say. Keep your fantasy to yourself.no problem
2006-12-09 11:41:04 · answer #8 · answered by Basket-santa 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Like everything else, it's an experience best shared.
2006-12-09 12:11:43 · answer #9 · answered by rtanys 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It causes divorce.
2006-12-09 12:07:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋