The girl with the biggest pair of knockers? A party girl? I really need to know what they're thinking.
I'm neither of those things. I don't do drugs, have never partied, and I've got extremely small bewbs (less than an A cup). Is that all that guys my age initially care about??
I'm 17, and have never been asked out, or even liked by a guy.
Stats: 5'5, 110 lbs, brown hair, I don't find myself all that attractive, and, as I've already said, I'm lacking in the boobie department.
2006-12-09 11:27:42 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. Well, I'm 21, and I have never done any drugs, or smoked, or drunken any alcoholic beverages (well, less than four ounces I suppose). I have never had a girlfriend, and I don't think I look bad or anything. I haven't been looking very hard lately, but I would be open to the possibility.
Now, I suppose you want a critque based on what you've said. Your height and weight are excellent. Your breasts do sound small. However, at your weight, you do not sound boyish. That's the main concern when girls have small breasts. But I really doubt you are that boyish with a body the size of yours.
There are much more important things than breast size when it comes to picking a girlfriend. Your attitude is one of the most important things. I prefer girls (and people in general, but that's beside the point) to be kind and optimistic. If you're kind and optimistic, and you aren't a beast and you don't have any annoying habits that I can't stand, then I think you could get along with me.
My suggestion to you is to start talking to more guys and maybe ask a few of them out. They might not be noticing you or something. But if you have the right attitude, and aren't a beast, you are bound to find one that likes you eventually. Good luck!
2006-12-09 11:45:12 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Truth be told, they don't know. At this age most guys probably want to date a bunch of different girls. There is no rush for a guy to "settle down" so it's really about getting experience and learning who and what you like.
Hint: if you don't find yourself attractive no one else can give that to you. I know you're 17 and in the highly self concious phase of high school, but work on building your life. The other stuff falls into place over time.
Hint 2: If you're interested in someone let him know. It's allowed.
Hint 3: The world is a big place and high school is very small. There are many opportunities awaiting you. If you're not a party girl then chances are you're going onto further school. You'll meet more like minded people and generally have a good time.
2006-12-09 11:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by NordicGuru 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. to start yes guys love big boobs. but no guy would ever not ask a girl out just cause her boobs. and form your wieght and hight it sounds like u have a very good body. and i;m sure your very attractive. my last 3 GF all thought they weren't that attractive but i thought they were and so did all my friends and co-workers. most people thenk their better looking or worse looking then what they are. and looks arenb't everyhting. also most guys are looking for smothign different' i'm 21 and i'm looking for a sweet, honost, caring, responsibel girl. one who doens't smoke or drink and doens't party much. but thats just me. the problem with u not getting asked out is maybe your hard to approach, or maybe cause your never in a socail setting where a guy would feel comfortbale asking you out. 2 girs ago mine was a 34DD, my last GF was a 34A and i didn't care at all. don't worry you'll find your pricne charming. i know its hard when everyone around u seems to be dating and your not and feel left out. poeple aren't dating as much as u think which i why people are on these sites so much lol
2006-12-09 11:33:22 · answer #3 · answered by DA-LL /Male/ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nobody should ever ask this question. 16-21 year old boys don't think. They have only a constant flow of testosterone in their veins, and it demands that they be as ignorant as possible.
Ever seen a bull mount a cow across a barbed wire fence? I have. That's how boys think. Unless you are willing to back up to the fence, you are better off going out in the field and grazing by yourself, taking care of yourself and your health and your future until you and they are both old enough to control yourselves.
Just wait. Boobs are for babies. They'll show up when they are needed. Nature is pretty smart that way.
2006-12-09 11:35:09 · answer #4 · answered by auntiegrav 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't do drugs!!! be yourself and you´ll find someone;) i´m almost 17(2 months)and i just got my first boyfriend a few months ago...and so many guys liked me...they would hit on me and stuff but just never asked me out...not all guys are the same...you can´t just categorize...the best solution in my opinion is to be yourself, and join an after school club or somethin about somethin you´re good at and like to do etc and just try talkin to some guys...your self description is pretty lame however...like, how bout your eyes? what color? skin? long brown hair? i mean, guys and girls have fetishes for particular things...but, seriously, don´t focus on your boobs girl...be nice, fun, do your face or somethin...u seem freaked bout ur size...because u r uncomfortble and you don´t like ur size. if u want a guy who loves you for you then he´ll care less bout ur size. and party animals...they aren´t for a true relationship unless they just like to party...like...i like to party but i would never drink, smoke, do drugs, or even kiss a guy i wasn´t with...
try getting guy friends instead of just looking and spectating from afar...serious...get some guys to be your friends first...who´s gonna ask out a complete stranger?¿ once you get to know guys as people and not a species, you´ll find that what they are looking for is quite equal to what we are looking for in many aspects.
xao xao
good luck;)
2006-12-09 11:43:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you're worrying way too much about your breasts.. if you are a sweet girl with a smile and a possitive attitude, the right guys will eventually come along.. teenage guys tend to be immature.. but once you hit your early 20s, things will change and guys will appreciate you for everything you have and have to offer.. try to be patient.
2006-12-09 11:33:04 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
16-21 years old. ..
They like the booty. =]
Righhh? You have to agree with me on this.
If you don't have the biggest boobs, it's 'koo.
You make it up for your trunk.
Also, personality wise, it usually depends on the person and what they like.
2006-12-09 11:35:29 · answer #7 · answered by Leilani 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well my son is 16 and he just wants to hang out and go to movies or walk ,skate,whatever he just enjoys there company dont worry u will find the right guy
2006-12-09 11:31:17 · answer #8 · answered by msmaxima2 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
every guy likes something different physically. don't let yourself believe that every guy wants a model. they want someone real and human.
confidence is important and will make you sexy. no guy wants to constantly reassure a girl. they want to be able to compliment you and for you to believe it.
2006-12-09 11:33:31 · answer #9 · answered by Sam 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It really isn't about breasts... no more than you are after the guy with the biggest piece...
2006-12-09 11:33:15 · answer #10 · answered by Lynne W 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋