i have a crush on my guy friend, but we're not best friends or anything. we're just hi-bye friends, but i want to change that.
the first thing is, i've noticed that people who sit together during lunch get to be better friends quicker, so i wanted to sit at his table, but he has this group of best friends he's known since like second grade (in 8th grade now) and most of them are girls (i know for a fact he's not going out with any of them tho) so i find them a bit intimidating.
Should I ask to sit at their table?
Should I do something else so i could be better friends with him?
**please dont tell me to talk to him more, becuz i talk to him every chance i get. (those were the answers i got last time)
2006-12-09 11:39:31 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First make sure to keep talking to him.
Then try becoming friends with more people at the table.
When you know like 2 or 3 people at the table it will be more comfortable for you and him to talk and just be around each other.Then try talking to him more about personal stuff and try flirting with him.
2006-12-09 11:44:35 · answer #1 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, the time for talking is over. It is time to sh it or get off the pot. Figure out a simple event, something close, short, easy and ask him out. It's what adults do when they ask someone out for a cup of coffee. You just have to pick somewhere where the other 'girls' won't be there, so no school dances or sports events.
And make it soon so he doesn't have time to think!
Only you know what fits in to your life but try:
Want to go to McD's after school?
Want to go ice skating tonight, I got free passes?
Want to go to see XXXX I got free tickets?
Could you help me with math?
I am taking a photography class at the junior college, could you pose for a few pictures for me after school?
DO IT, DO IT, DO IT!!!! You'll never know til you try!
2006-12-09 11:48:10 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just plop urself down on their table. Talk to him about hmwrk. Get his phone #. If u don't talk much then I'm sorry there's no way this is gonna happen. Ask if he has AIM or any kind of instant messenger. I have 2 best guy friends and they understand me better than my girl bffs. Both of them like me but I don't feel that way, and they're ok with that. so just learn to NOT BE SHY!!!
2006-12-09 11:42:54 · answer #3 · answered by yourbiggestfan:) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming from a high school girl just go take the initiative to go sit with him. Just one day go up to him and be like hey im gonna sit with you guys today okay sit down and a little heads up don't try and be shy speak up tell jokes and make them want you to sit with them everyday. If your kind of shy find an outgoing freind to go with you or make fresdinds with one of his freinds and use it as an excuse
2006-12-09 11:49:33 · answer #4 · answered by Amira M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would just take the "bull by the horns" and just sit at the table and don't worry about what the girls think. If he says something just tell him the truth,that you like him. It will let him know that you are interested in more than just casual friendship.
2006-12-09 11:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by david b 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Go to the movies or do an activity (bowling) with a couple of guys/girl friends next weekend and invite him. You will get to know him in a different setting. This scenario would be nonthreatening to him.
2006-12-09 11:44:44 · answer #6 · answered by ALBPACE 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
properly i'm a 12 365 days previous boy 1st case i say you had a accurate to be suspicious i say you bypass ask him on a date after he solutions then carry it up second case confront him about being wishy washy yet at the same time do not forget that he's attempting to look cool. a lot of adult males will try this because they have a attractiveness. wish this enables!!!!
2016-11-30 09:13:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should so try to hang with him more and get to kno him more and maybe he likes u too thats y ur hi bye friends. If ur friends just sit with him only if ur confortable sitting there never make urself feel unconfortable sitting with poeple if u dont have to
2006-12-09 11:46:14 · answer #8 · answered by companykid101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can plan a sit together at lunch during class or you can leave a note in his desk. If he says no to that, then..uhhhh.... i dont know ill get back to uyou later
2006-12-09 11:43:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just walk over to the lunch table and say, "my friends are bugging me right now. do you mind if i sit with you?" they are not going to say no so then talk to them
2006-12-09 11:42:38 · answer #10 · answered by t dawg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋