Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

I am a good father and I am not with my children’s mother, but I pay child support and my children visit me during the weekends. I have two daughters ages 6 and 2. My ex-wife complains and bitches about everything and makes petty situations out of something big. My ex brought my 6 year old a cell phone and when she comes and visits me she is constantly on the cell phone with her mother. I feel like this is an invasion of privacy in my household so I designate a time that my daughter can contact her mother. My 6 year old hates spending the night over my house on the weekends because she hates my rules. I have been dealing with my ex-wife and her drama and looking at my daughters bald up face every time I pick her up for almost 2 years now. My daughter seem so much happier with their mother and I guess daughters just want to be with their mothers more. Maybe its best that I visit them during the day some days and take them back to their mother instead of them spend the night with me.

2006-12-09 17:47:01 · 10 answers · asked by Frustrated Boi 757 1 in Marriage & Divorce

there was this old man in the sports club gym who used to show me pics of people having sex from magazines and while i was looking at them he used to touch my private parts and stick his tongue but with my clothes on.....so does that mean i was sexually abused?

2006-12-09 17:45:56 · 15 answers · asked by ramy sbry 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Ok. So she wouldn't talk about it, so I don't know exactly what the problem is. All there is is that we had our first open kiss last night and she made the move, so I hadn't done any forcing. And tonight I tried talking to her and she said she didn't really have a good day and that it would be better if we talked tomorrow. So, yea. Should I leave her alone for a day or two? Should I call her tomorrow and figure out things and try to comfort her?

2006-12-09 17:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by jezach f 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a college senior and my girlfriend and I have been going out for almost two year, and I love her, but I can't stand talking on the phone for more than five minutes. I can talk to somebody (especially my girlfriend) for longer periods of time if it is up front, but I always found talking on the phone boring and impersonal, but my girlfriend loves it. I asked her before but I don't know if she forgets or just ignors what I say, but I don't think things that aren't important discussions need to be talked about for 15 minutes. What do you think I should do?

2006-12-09 17:44:36 · 13 answers · asked by Thomas C 4 in Singles & Dating

im finding it hard to feel good about myself...it's not that people dont tell me i'm beautiful, nice and all that it's that i just can't believe them when they say it....one of my guy friends recently told me i was the most beautiful person he'd ever met...and i just got really angry at him like he was lying...im not sure if i really do believe he's lying but i don't feel right believing it, if that makes sence....i just dunno how to get over it...

2006-12-09 17:44:08 · 5 answers · asked by lovelee 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I'm 31 now, but when I was a TEENAGER, I was out of control, always going out late, bad grades in highschool & often disrespected & disobeyed my parents. Now that I'm a mature adult, I have changed alot & ended up going to college & getting a license in Nursing. When I turned 21, i started being independent, learned how to make a living & pay my own bills.

I don't get along w/my mom's side of the family (since my mom passed away 10 yrs ago). All they do is talk S H I T about me & tell my little cousins to not hang around me becuz I use to be a "bad teenager". They say I have that bad reputation. I wish that they would look at my good characteristics, the person that I am today & the successful person that I grew up to be. I wish that they did'nt judge me becuz of my past & use me as a bad example to my younger cousins, becuz they do....tell my cousins to not talk to me. I wish they would just stop & get to know me, becuz I am not a teenager anymore =(

2006-12-09 17:43:46 · 7 answers · asked by sugarBear 6 in Family

ive been going out with my friends little brother and his 13 and im 15!
and ppl make fun of me that i nee d 2 get someone my own age!
but i really like him..i dont love him but i just feel rigth with him
what should i do??

2006-12-09 17:43:41 · 7 answers · asked by ♫♪StEpHaNiE♪♫ 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 17:43:38 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

a very young teacher

2006-12-09 17:43:25 · 10 answers · asked by smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 17:42:54 · 10 answers · asked by favteacher 2 in Singles & Dating

im in highschool and everyone in my circle overthinks of how to talk to girls

i think the best method is to just walk up and say hey whatsup.. and if shes interested she'll keep theh conversation rolling.. because girls are the master of conversation and chemistry.. and just talking to your crush like any other regular person creates a good feeling


--- girls are very sociable creatures.. i really don't see what all my friends are fussing about

2006-12-09 17:42:27 · 4 answers · asked by joey 3 in Singles & Dating

im 21 and highly unattractive. i dislike almost every aspect of myself, and can hardly bare to look at myself in the mirror. i feel like i have nothing to offer, and just cant reverse this frame of mind. my levels of motivation are dropping more and more everyday, and i was wondering whether anyone could recommend something i can do to try and get back to thinking normally.
Also, i can't afford to get professional help, and am extremely hesitant to take anti depressants.

2006-12-09 17:42:21 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner and I have been together for over 6 years and have had many ups and downs in this time, mostly due to alcohol, which is when he becomes aggressive and accusive. He is a caring, faithful and wonderful person otherwise, but he has major issues with my pre-teen son who liked him once but now they won't even talk. He was going to move in with us again, but does not even seem to want to commit to this, let alone marriage and a future. I feel I am on a rollercoaster ride as one day he says and does one thing and on another day is totally different. He has recently been drinking and has dumped me and walked out (again), without any provocation from me. I still love him and am torn between what my head says and what my heart says, as in my 40's I feel I am too old for any more games. Should I move on with my life or keep trying to sort it out ?

2006-12-09 17:42:06 · 23 answers · asked by square_dotzz 4 in Marriage & Divorce

Guyz tell me all the time how I'm so cool and so pretty but none of them want to be more than friends with me because thet're all obsessed with my friend. She's pretty and all but she likes guys. As in, before this year she dated so many guyz in one day that I couldn't keep track. When she would dump them they woul come to me to talk. They would tell me she is a slut and then ask her baack out. I'm not like that tho. I like one guy at a time and I prefer long lasting relationships. So if i'm just as pretty as her in their eyes then why would they rather date her for ten seconds and then call her a slut. She doesn't sleep around so what do they get out of that. They say they want something that'll last longer then go for her. WHY?
I'm sorry my questions so long but I want to understand.

2006-12-09 17:41:26 · 5 answers · asked by Nicky 3 in Singles & Dating

I've liked this one guy 4 almost 2 years but i have never go the courage to ask him out and now its even harder becuase we go to different schools. We are pretty good friends and we talk over msn. What should i do??? should i forget about him or what???

2006-12-09 17:41:14 · 2 answers · asked by Lostfairytale 2 in Singles & Dating

So I was at *****'s house and we were making out for a while and then I grabbed her breasts and she said it kinda hurt, I didn't grab very hard, so i asked her why and she said, "I don't know, they have been really sensitive lately." I would just like to know what is happening with her?

2006-12-09 17:39:45 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Honestly... is it the motion in the ocean rather than size that matters? Just curious.

2006-12-09 17:39:40 · 12 answers · asked by T 3 in Singles & Dating

(not ur husband or B.F.)

2006-12-09 17:37:35 · 17 answers · asked by *girl* w/ *no name* 2 in Singles & Dating

my best friends name is curtis,he has been my best friend for about two years and we are always hanging out.my neighbor, paige across the street that i have known for 3 years is also a very good freind of mine.she has been crushing on my best friend curtis for about a year.i knew that curtis didnt like her back but they are close friends and paige wanted to be more than that.she desided to ask him to be her boyfriend.rumors started flying around and some of them got to curtis that she were going to ask her out.curtis still just wanted to be friends but felt pressured to say yes so he did.two days later curtis broke up with her and she was crying her eyes out.she started cutting her wrist and has many problems now.curtis however dosent feel that bad about it beacause he thought they were never meant to be together.i am still bery good friends with curtis and my nieghbor.when i wanted to go to the movies with curtis i invited paige, but she sayd no because curtis was going. what do i do?

2006-12-09 17:37:23 · 4 answers · asked by tom 2 in Friends

Do Black girls find it ok if White guys approach them? I'm a White guy and am extremely attracted to Black girls--and no, not just for some jungle fever BS, but for legit bring-you-home to meet my mother reasons.

2006-12-09 17:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by B R 1 in Singles & Dating

please i will like know wyh truth always bitter for ear ,and hard to understand ,but liare and false always sweet,?

2006-12-09 17:36:33 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Even if you knew they were going to be thrown in the slammer for 10-25 or even life? Would you still take the money?

2006-12-09 17:36:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have the feeling that my fiance of 2 years is cheating on me...but i cant prove it. I heard that once u get the feeling it most likely means its true. I dont kno what to do. Every time i get the suspicion and say something about it, he always have a reason for it. I dont kno what to do.

2006-12-09 17:35:56 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetheart88 5 in Singles & Dating

Ok, there's a girl in our band thats really hot, and I like her alot. I know she likes me too, because I can go up to her and just say hi, and she comes over and hugs me and stuff like that. I went to a party last night, and she happened to be there as well, so we slow danced with each other. Also, im great friends with her older brother. The one problem is, she's a Morman, which means she can't date until she's 16. I definately have time to wait 2 years until I can ask her, it will be early-middle of my senior year, she will be a junior. Is there anything I can do to make her see me more, despite that I will be waiting 2 years until I can ask her out? I can ask her out on a date or to go out and do something, but I probably can't ask her to be serious with me until she's 16.

Thanks in Advance!

2006-12-09 17:35:28 · 8 answers · asked by BloodyCarrion 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 17:34:30 · 9 answers · asked by princessmeltdown 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

I am eighteen and sick of being single. It seems like no matter what...I don't get past the 'how are you?' phase. I want to meet more people but I am not sure how. It seems like I am just the boring, nice girl. how can I turn heads...without being a slut, because I won't go to a level of just throwing myself at people and trashing my rep.

2006-12-09 17:33:05 · 10 answers · asked by nd2chnge 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 17:32:38 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I met a girl online a couple of months ago. We live in different citie but within one country. We established our friendship firmly. But we didn't have romances...I am a freshman in college,and she is a senior who is eager to apply for graduate school.During her preparation for GRE and application, I helped her a lot.
We often joke around about marrying each other ,but never seriously. She is a little older than me while she tells me that she prefer older one.
I don't what should I do to her now

2006-12-09 17:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jason N 2 in Singles & Dating

WHEN I BRING UP MARRIAGE HE SAYS HES NOT READY AND THAT HE CANT SUPPORT ME AND HAS NOTHING TO OFFER ME.I'M 23 AND HAVE BEEN WITH HIM FOR 3 YEARS WE HAVE A GREAT RELATIONSHIP AND HIS FAMILY LOVES ME. I WORK FULL TIME AND RIGHT NOW HE DOES TO. WE PLAN TO MOVE TO 12O MILES AWAY SO HE CAN FINISH SCHOOL BUT I WILL HAVE TO LEAVE MY JOB AND FAMILY I'M NOT WORRIED ABOUT THAT BECAUSE I'M IN THE MEDICAL FIELD AND I CAN ALWAYS GET ANOTHER JOB BUT I DON'T WANT TO LEAVE FOR NOTHING. HE HAS TALKED TO OTHER GIRLS OVER THE PHONE FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME AND I FOUND OUT 2 MTHS AGO HE WAS ALSO TALKING TO HIS EX THAT LIVES 330 MILS AWAY FOR 3MTHS FOR LONG PERIODS OF TIME ON THE PHONE WHILE I WOULD BE ASLEEP. WE LIVE TOGETHER. I WOUD HATE TO MAKE HIM MARRY ME BUT I WANT A COMMITMENT I WILL BE HAPPY JUST BEING ENGAGED FOR BEFORE I MOVE I HAVE ALREADY PUT ALOT INTO OUR LIFES.

2006-12-09 17:31:56 · 22 answers · asked by vanessa 4 in Marriage & Divorce

I am dating a great guy I just him While I was dating him I was dating someone else and we just broke up now he feel very disappionted and he said he don't know if he can trust me he been cheated in the past he don't want it to happened to him agian How do I make thing right with him I really love him dearly I waited for him for 10 year finally we dating and I feel i am about to lose him and I don't know what to do help

2006-12-09 17:31:28 · 4 answers · asked by nuygen v 1 in Singles & Dating