Family & Relationships - 9 December 2006

Ok, so it has been... well about on monday it will be a month since me and my girl broke up. She still says that she loves me... but is not in love with me, get jealous when she thinks I have other girls... but has a new friend in her life.... says they arent together. I think it is time for me to let her go... I mean I dont think she is coming back... I miss her, and love her... but I think it is time to forget about reconcilation... how do I just let go the woman that I love?

2006-12-09 18:03:52 · 15 answers · asked by lost_93710 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I really like this girl. we have talked about our relationship but its goin to go nowhere b/c she likes this guy that she works w/ more than me. she did date this guy earlier this year but something happened and it ended. she was pissed about it for a long time and now she wants to get back w/ him. she doesnt wanna go out w/ me cause she thinks that she doesnt deserve me and that she also doesnt wanna hurt me. we ARE still friends and we hang out some times (go to the movies usually). i wanna take this relationship further but she doesnt. should i continue to persue this or not? Im still in high school if that matters. a senior w/ 1/2 a year left.

2006-12-09 18:03:16 · 11 answers · asked by jmon 3 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl at university. We went out for lunch everyday for a few weeks and I bought her a few gifts and she accepted and even I invited her to a (formal) party and she came with me. Finally once we went out for dinner and I told her how much I like her, she told me that she is afraid that I fell in love with her because she has a boyfriend back at her country and he is planing to come to states next year. but we still go out and study together and my friends dont believe me when I tell them that we are just friends and not dating as we are going everywhere together.
I am really confused about this situation and her behaviour. I really like her and I know she also does. Please help me what should I do and what does she really mean?

2006-12-09 18:02:33 · 4 answers · asked by i_am_stilll_alive 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 18:02:27 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 18:02:17 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend has been asking me if ill marry him and i have been married 11 years ago and got divorced right after the honey moon and do have 4 kids 1 from my ex husband 2 from my ex boyfriend and 1 from the boyfriend i have now but the only problem is with him he does not hang around that much and i do love him but i think i should wait to see if he will start hanging around more or not so what should i do wait or just marry him?

2006-12-09 18:02:07 · 9 answers · asked by Monqui N 1 in Weddings

My boyfriend has been asking me if ill marry him and i have been married 11 years ago and got divorced right after the honey moon and do have 4 kids 1 from my ex husband 2 from my ex boyfriend and 1 from the boyfriend i have now but the only problem is with him he does not hang around that much and i do love him but i think i should wait to see if he will start hanging around more or not so what should i do wait or just marry him?

2006-12-09 18:00:04 · 10 answers · asked by Monqui N 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i like this kid at school.he told me he likes me too but he doesnt talk to me a lot..except in our 1st period class.he plays with my hair lol and whenever he does something funny to make ppl laugh he looks at me (i think he wants to see if i'm laughing idk lol) he has a myspace i'm an extremely shy person..should i add him?

2006-12-09 17:59:20 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 17:58:00 · 14 answers · asked by tuyet cu meo 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-09 17:57:53 · 3 answers · asked by hihi 3 in Family

Seems like every time I exert confidence (and not *********), someone always wants to bring me down somehow?

How can you ward of negative people like this?

2006-12-09 17:57:30 · 19 answers · asked by Greg S 3 in Singles & Dating

So on my first date with this girl, we went to a movie, we cuddled a little, held hands, and eventually kissed (not makeout, just a little more than a peck). On the second date, we just sat there with arms interlocked, not even holding hands. I tried to initiate something, but she wouldn't have it. Also, on the ride to the theatre, she started talking about an ex-boyfriend who she missed...ikes.
It could be because we were double-dating, and the couple with us was having a major makeout session, and I know one of the rules to a succesfull relationship is 2 steps forward, one step back, but I'm worried.
We hugged for a farely long time before we said goodbye, and she said we should do something again this week or weekend (and sounded excited about it) but I'm still worried. I really like this girl, and want this to last. Is everything okay? and if not, how do I save it?

2006-12-09 17:57:03 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Singles & Dating

how to start for successfull relationship

2006-12-09 17:55:34 · 9 answers · asked by Mohsen J 1 in Singles & Dating

He is honestly beginning to get on my nerves. Say, I said that I saw a movie and I thought that this certain actor was very mysterious in the movie. Well, my friend goes: "I'm mysterious." And then I try to ignore what he just said, so I also say that the actor was also a bit weird in the movie. But what does he say?!
"I'm weird."
...
Not only that, if he is not talking about himself, he talks about his "miserable" life, and sometimes he talks about his sister. I was telling him early that I only dance to reggaeton, but he starts blabbing on and on about how his sister is so good at dancing in that, blah blah. And he has also told me that he thinks that she is sooo beautiful. You know, it is cool that he likes his sister way more than the average person... (it is actually kind of creepy). But what kind of person blabs on and on about their sibling like that?

2006-12-09 17:54:17 · 13 answers · asked by Teehee 1 in Friends

2006-12-09 17:53:31 · 11 answers · asked by help you 2 in Singles & Dating

As a woman, I have noticed that I can completely fall for somebody before the first date.....What I want to know is HOW men fall in love. Do they sometimes fall for somebody before dating? (Seriously, does/can that happen?) What is a guy's thought process in that situation? What does he deal with?
What makes him fall in love in the first place?
Really, women want to know this stuff!

2006-12-09 17:53:25 · 8 answers · asked by neenerneener 2 in Singles & Dating

I am in a crazy relationship where we get into arguements all the time.

2006-12-09 17:52:15 · 17 answers · asked by luvinstead 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I was married at parramatta

2006-12-09 17:51:48 · 4 answers · asked by bill@wwwcom.au h 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Are you one of those girls, or are you dating a girl, who always tells you to call them???


My friend always tells her boyfriend to call her at specific times... like "Call me after you do this" or "Call me after you do that." IT'S ANNOYING!! LOL. I think that's one of the contributing factors that ended the last relationship.

I don't do any of that to my boyfriend. I just LET him call me whenever. Besides, it feels better knowing that he called me WILLINGLY... not because I told him to. And him just saying "I'll call you later" is good enough for me.

2006-12-09 17:51:42 · 7 answers · asked by ( Kelly ) 7 in Other - Family & Relationships

If anyone can give me some ideas I would really appreciate it ;)

2006-12-09 17:51:22 · 5 answers · asked by Zero 1 in Friends

well i was just wondering because one of my friends wants to know :)

2006-12-09 17:51:18 · 18 answers · asked by smile for me =) 1 in Friends

Married stepson's father in 2000 . Sponsored SS's green card (at BOTH parent’s request/blessings so that SS could have "a better life" in USA). Met SS 6 mo. ago--1st time. Almost immediately he was smart-mouthed towards me, ignored my requests and was contemptuous and ungrateful to myself and America culture in general. Saying Americans were mostly “stupid and greedy”, he liked making fun of me to my face both in English and his language. My husband either accused me of lying or did nothing! 1 night he starts mocking me, laughing w/his sister about it. I told him to stop or go to his room. He glares. Says, “You want to make me!?” I said”…OK” and grabbed him. He pushes me. I wrestle him to the front door and shut it. He tries to kick it down! I call his Father. 20 min later F. arrives. SS going ape$h!t on the door. F yells at him but, later tells me that his son may push me "over the edge 1 day" so we should seperate. Would U feel used and hurt or relieved and happy? Either way, why?

2006-12-09 17:50:55 · 18 answers · asked by Gracie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

my son is 13 and I'm suer he's probably at the point where things start happening. I've talked in general about sex, oral sex, birth control, and std's but I'm afraid I might cause too mcuh embarassment to talk about masturbation to him. I've asked both his biological father and step father to talk to him about this but they haven't. Is this territory i should leave to the men or could I talk to him about it without it being too weird for him?

2006-12-09 17:50:30 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

2006-12-09 17:50:25 · 10 answers · asked by zxcv 3 in Singles & Dating

Is there any guys that are not jerks and will treat me like im not a kid and do guy stuff like paintball,football and so on.

Im looking for a BF and if u are no an *** ill e-mail u and see how if your the love of my life.

Be truthful plz

2006-12-09 17:49:34 · 14 answers · asked by Loora L 1 in Singles & Dating

I lost my virginity to some fag way back fresh yr in high school.
now i have this new boyfriend ive been dating for a while and were getting really serious but he was sooo happy when he asked me if i was a virgin and i said yes, but this was like the 2nd day we hung out. now its been sooo far that im afraid to tell him.. he recently asked me again.. but i couldnt talk,.... so what is that thing called when u loose ur virginity but then give a second chance to the person ur going to marry like second hand virginity something???

2006-12-09 17:49:08 · 15 answers · asked by Sam 1 in Singles & Dating

are you usually right?

2006-12-09 17:48:52 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My younger sister is going through a bad time..just moved somewhere new, lives with someone who is incompatible, and wants to talk about it all the time. im running out of ways to console her. she is overseas, and i feel so helpless when she is upset about something that happened to her. she is used to having her boyfriend and friends around, and this whole thing is making her doubt her capacity as a an independent person. on top of it, she just went there for school, and she wont be done for 3 more years.

2006-12-09 17:48:42 · 3 answers · asked by pastanus 2 in Family

If you're an attractive woman, and guys are too shy to talk to you, what are the subtle, less obvious ways that a pretty woman can let a shy male know she likes him like that, without freakin him out?

2006-12-09 17:48:31 · 5 answers · asked by neenerneener 2 in Singles & Dating

What would you do if you were married, your other half was drunk in a club and was groaping someone of the opposite sex on the dance floor without wearing thier ring or letting the other person know that they were married? Would it be different if the other person made the first move?

2006-12-09 17:47:36 · 21 answers · asked by Melissa F 2 in Marriage & Divorce