My boyfriend has been asking me if ill marry him and i have been married 11 years ago and got divorced right after the honey moon and do have 4 kids 1 from my ex husband 2 from my ex boyfriend and 1 from the boyfriend i have now but the only problem is with him he does not hang around that much and i do love him but i think i should wait to see if he will start hanging around more or not so what should i do wait or just marry him?
2006-12-09 18:00:04 · 10 answers · asked by Monqui N 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I AM SCARED TO GET MARRIED AGAIN
2006-12-09 18:00:50 · update #1
If you have four kids and a man wants to marry you....DO IT! If he is good to you and the four kids...what more could you ask for?
2006-12-09 18:02:33 · answer #1 · answered by LenaRose 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you feel 'right' with him.... get married.
Do not let the past issues or mistakes haunt you.
Learn from the past, but don't dwell in it.
You learned something about your first marriage and got out of it.
That probably only applied to that one guy.
Don't make the next guy pay for what the last guy did.
Don't let an opportunity slip away because they come at their own pace and this one might be a good one.
Only you can tell what the 'right choice' is.
2006-12-09 18:05:54 · answer #2 · answered by wolf560 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have four kids one by him and three not by him .Do you no how lucky you are to find a man who will take on other men's kids.When the two of you are in bed he is not only in bed with you he is in bed with the other two guys you had kids by.That is how man think I'm not making this up.If I were you I would hold on two him,just make sure he isn't just coming around for sex and when he leaves you he isn't going home to his real girlfriend.
2006-12-09 18:20:22 · answer #3 · answered by Teenie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im scared your going to have more kids. Focus on taking the best possible care of your kids. Its not about you at all....take bloody care of your kids. Damn. You dont have what it takes to be in a relationship right now. You need to wait until the youngest is 18 yrs old to date. Dont you realize your kids get attached to these guys and your doing serious damage. Attachment disorders ever heard of them.....come on.
2006-12-09 18:05:37 · answer #4 · answered by Kathryn W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are scared wait. I would want someone who was around.
2006-12-09 18:04:03 · answer #5 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Judging by what you wrote I think you already know the answer. Dont do it.
2006-12-09 18:03:03 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if i were you id be careful, almost all of your kids have different fathers, what are they going to think when they are older, i bet they are imbarraced...i would be! close your legs and make up your mind.
2006-12-09 18:03:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I do hope your receiving financial support for your children.
If you're unable to make such a decision, PLEASE DONT marry.
2006-12-09 18:10:34 · answer #8 · answered by iyamacog 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
IF HE CANT STICK AROUND FOR HIS KID HE WONT STICK AROUND FOR YOU. I WOULD GIVE HIM A CHANCE I HES A GOOD GUY.
2006-12-09 18:03:40 · answer #9 · answered by vanessa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are questioning this for a reason, its not meant to be. run!
2006-12-09 19:34:19 · answer #10 · answered by nanabooboo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋