So on my first date with this girl, we went to a movie, we cuddled a little, held hands, and eventually kissed (not makeout, just a little more than a peck). On the second date, we just sat there with arms interlocked, not even holding hands. I tried to initiate something, but she wouldn't have it. Also, on the ride to the theatre, she started talking about an ex-boyfriend who she missed...ikes.
It could be because we were double-dating, and the couple with us was having a major makeout session, and I know one of the rules to a succesfull relationship is 2 steps forward, one step back, but I'm worried.
We hugged for a farely long time before we said goodbye, and she said we should do something again this week or weekend (and sounded excited about it) but I'm still worried. I really like this girl, and want this to last. Is everything okay? and if not, how do I save it?
2006-12-09 17:57:03 · 7 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Violet Purple, her ex doesn't want her back, and I don't think she wants him back. The way she talked about him almost seemed like she was trying to make me jelous.
2006-12-09 18:03:57 · update #1
Give it once more, this time just the two of you. My first thought when I saw the title was that you might be afraid of commitment, but it doesn't sound like it. Sometimes, dates just don't go as hot as they might, even if there is chemistry there.
2006-12-09 18:45:38 · answer #1 · answered by Jes 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
For some reason, people seem to be attracted to people that a very laid back about a relationship. You're in the early stages, don't rush it. Be busy next weekend and don't tell her why. At this point you don't have to explain your every move or whereabouts. Girls love a guy that's a bit hard to catch! :) Never show her you are worried about the progress of things. Confidence counts!
2006-12-10 02:24:49 · answer #2 · answered by Lake Lover 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound that into you, but would probably go out with you if you're paying and she had nothing better to do.....until her ex finds out and wants her back (which is what she's hoping).
2006-12-10 02:01:45 · answer #3 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she was obviously pretty heart broken ova her ex so she might just be backing off a bit cuz she worried that you might break her heart 2. but rly i dont no/
2006-12-10 02:01:01 · answer #4 · answered by Lostfairytale 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take your time. Keep hanging out with her. If she is really into you when she is ready she will let you know.
2006-12-10 02:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by CGS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont double date!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
just the 2 of u go n it does sound ike she likes u so do somethin bout it b4 its 2 late
2006-12-10 02:01:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just play it cool bro..
2006-12-10 01:59:23 · answer #7 · answered by DannyC 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋