I have the feeling that my fiance of 2 years is cheating on me...but i cant prove it. I heard that once u get the feeling it most likely means its true. I dont kno what to do. Every time i get the suspicion and say something about it, he always have a reason for it. I dont kno what to do.
2006-12-09 17:35:56 · 11 answers · asked by Sweetheart88 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Have a friend he doesn't know follow him, or you discreetly do it. Does he have a my space acct.? Use a friend's computer to send him a flirty message and see how he reacts. Have her write in case you make some spelling error he recognizes that you make and is alerted it's really you.
2006-12-09 17:40:35 · answer #1 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a wedding date set? Try moving out and not seeing him. if he really loves you he will stop cheating and do everything he can to win you back. You don't have to have proof to know something is wrong. And something is wrong when you have these doubts and can't trust him. You deserve better. You don't need him until he wants to be faithful to you. It doesn't matter if he is doing it or not, its how he makes you feel thats most important. He shouldn't make you feel this way.
2006-12-09 17:38:50 · answer #2 · answered by Cynthia W 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, now it's time to make YOUR decision. Is the relationship worth saving for you? If yes, then you have to find some way to cope with this "feeling" you have. Either find some way to GET the proof (like hiring a private investigator), or decide to let it go and stop accusing him.
2006-12-09 17:39:00 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think your fiancee is cheating on you, then, either way you don't have much of a relationship. Where is it going to go? How are things going to go well? Cut your mutual losses and move on to higher ground. Simple.
2006-12-09 17:39:04 · answer #4 · answered by twicewise 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlikely.
2016-05-23 01:28:01 · answer #5 · answered by Lisa 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you cant say he's cheating based on a feeling, eventhough sometimes what we feel is true, but you need evidence without that he is innocent.
if he is given no reason for you to suspect he is cheating, then let it go, but keep your eye"s open.
2006-12-09 17:41:38 · answer #6 · answered by DUSTY 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Follow him. Seriously. or buy one of those little cameras and put it on him. Or stick a tape recorder in his car and turn it on so u can hear if he brings girls in there or what he talks about on his cell in there.
However, that is spying...
Oh well. If he's cheating, then its justified...
;-) Good luck-
2006-12-09 17:37:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Say if you dont tell me your cheating ima leave your but &if you lie to me ima really leave ya and its gonna hurt (inside not the the outside)
2006-12-09 17:39:30 · answer #8 · answered by BabyMoon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well call that show Cheaters and get proof, it is wasteful to just think it and stay with the guy and not know, and it is dangerous to you, all kinds of things could get spread around!
2006-12-09 17:39:34 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
HIRE some one. OR GO TO CHEATERS on tv they will trace them 4 nothing.
2006-12-09 17:37:26 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋