Ok. So she wouldn't talk about it, so I don't know exactly what the problem is. All there is is that we had our first open kiss last night and she made the move, so I hadn't done any forcing. And tonight I tried talking to her and she said she didn't really have a good day and that it would be better if we talked tomorrow. So, yea. Should I leave her alone for a day or two? Should I call her tomorrow and figure out things and try to comfort her?
2006-12-09 17:45:21 · 9 answers · asked by jezach f 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Maybe find a girl that is on your level. Communication is the key to any good relationship. Explain that to her. If that doesn't work, cut your losses and move on.
2006-12-09 17:49:46 · answer #1 · answered by Just trying to help 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look I hate to break this to you but she might be experiencing something called buyers remorse. Now in retrospect she probably enjoyed the kiss while it was going on but she probably regrets being the one who iniated it.
At this point she probably feels like a sl*t. Now I know she probably isn't one but we are dealing with emotions here not logic. My advice here is to make sure your the one to iniate the first kiss in all your future relationships.
I say cut your loses. Leave her alone. Don't call her. If she calls you talk to her like normal. Don't talk about the kiss. Show her that your a normal guy that doesn't have hang ups about stuff like this. Afterwards you'll have an idea of where shes at. Be straight with her without being mad at her.
Now if she does brings up the kiss be casual about. Project an attitude that lets her know that you enjoyed it but your not exactly going around bragging about it. Girls hate guys that aren't comfortable with their own sexuality. It makes sex uncomfortable and it makes them feel like a sl*t.
In all honesty you have to be prepared to walk away. The good news is that your displaying that attitude as we speak. In fact you should incorporate that attitude into all your future relationships. The one that says I like you but I don't need you.
By the way don't tell her the things I told you, it will only make things more awkward for you and for her.
Best of luck.......
2006-12-09 17:48:53 · answer #2 · answered by Hypnotica 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh you are too cute! I want to put you in my pocket and carry you around.
I would let her go for tonight...let her do her thing. Call her at a reasonable time in the morning...let her know you've been thinking about her. That you missed her...and ask her if she wants to talk. Be gentle, understanding and calm. Let her know she can talk to you and you'll try to help if you can.
If she says no, you may need to give her a little space. Just reassure her you are there for her to talk to, no matter what.
good luck!
2006-12-09 17:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by ??? LadyBoyd ??? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she wants space, give it too her. Don't be pushy, but be supportive. Just let her know that you are there if and when she wants to talk about it. Maybe tomorrow will be a better day. Good Luck.
2006-12-09 17:48:55 · answer #4 · answered by confused angel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever I say that, I am testing to see if he will really get off the phone with me/leave it alone or if it matters enough to him to pursue the reason because he cares about me and wants to help me work it out.!!!
But I am weird and most people that say call them tomorrow mean it... not me. lol.
Take it for what its worth!!!! =) =) =)
2006-12-09 17:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by Phatstar 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Deffetntly need 2 call her back 2 morrow dude!!
2006-12-09 17:49:32 · answer #6 · answered by Andrew B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave Her Alone. When she calls you, then do something sweet for her, like take her out....
2006-12-09 17:48:22 · answer #7 · answered by bluestar 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, call her tomorrow and see if she wants to explain. If not, just be sweet to her.
2006-12-09 17:50:25 · answer #8 · answered by Raven 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
give her some time. If she has a computer send her a cute e-card, or make her one to cheer her up. make up a corny poem to make her laugh. Your sweet for being concerned, that in itself says you really care about her.
2006-12-09 17:55:53 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋