Do Black girls find it ok if White guys approach them? I'm a White guy and am extremely attracted to Black girls--and no, not just for some jungle fever BS, but for legit bring-you-home to meet my mother reasons.
2006-12-09 17:36:36 · 17 answers · asked by B R 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Don't let the race thing stop you from pursuing who you are attracted to! The worst she can say is "I'm not interested". If you see race as an issue then it will become an issue. Have confidence in yourself and go for what you want!!
2006-12-09 17:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by ? 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It depends on the girl, some Black women like White guys, some only date Black or Latino men, and some Black women don't care about color - they just want a decent guy who really likes them.
You sound like a cool dude, who really appreciates Black women and sees them as potential girlfriend/wife material (not just an "exotic" roll in the hay)
So you should have no fear about approaching Black women - it's just as hard as approaching any other female - you don't know if they have a man,or if they are attracted to you.
But, sooner or later, you will get lucky and you'll find a Black woman who will want to date you.
Good luck.
2006-12-09 17:45:47 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm a black girl and I like MEN. Sure color is the first thing you notice, but personality is the first thing that matters. I like smart guys, if your cute it's only a bonus. If the girl you're interested in turns you down simply because you're white and she believes all those bogus stereotypes then boo on her. You can do so much better, but if she's not then I'd say go for it. She might be feeling the same cautiousness that you are.
2006-12-10 08:37:38 · answer #3 · answered by LaLa N 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I'm a white guy and I've never had a problem with it. I have a lot of black female friends that I hang out with. We go on dates and the like and we have a really good time. I've even brought them home to meet my parents. Don't worry about what everyone else says or thinks. Do what you feel is right for you. You just might be surprised at the results. Peace.
2006-12-09 17:42:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
It is totally ok with me..the problem is that most white guys assume that I am already taken or that we I be like no, but that is farther from the truth. When u do approach a black girl just make sure it is not one of those ghetto queen, lol
2006-12-10 09:07:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am a black girl and have always have interest in white guys , the same way you want a serious relationship. you are taking this too far and it will soon affect you , girls are girls no matter what color { what matters the most is the love u have 4 each other} boy, follow your heart and go for the girl of your dream. most of all i don't think a girl should turn you down because of race difference un less she is a racist.
2006-12-09 17:54:10 · answer #6 · answered by layo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Bruno, it's getting easier and easier to maintain a mixed-race relationship. Easier in a big city than a rural community, easier in the coastal states than the midlands. So I assume you've considered all this. Still presents problems but when one is in a relationship, all problems appear to be small ones. Other than that, a person is a person is a person. Color, age, gender, sexual orientation, all are merely surface markings. Sure these characteristics are important to some people but then are those people your friends? Be honest with yourself, honor yourself and if you find yourself in a relationship with a partner from a different race...or different anything, honor the relationship.
2006-12-09 17:42:55 · answer #7 · answered by judgebill 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
As a black woman currently in a relationship with a white man, I would say its definitely okay. If you are attracted to them, what are you waiting for? Your black queen is out there waiting for you come into her life.
2006-12-09 17:57:58 · answer #8 · answered by Radio Diva 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I love it when white men talk to me! I am attracted to white men but I have never been in a relationship with one. As soon as I am divorced I will explore that option : ) It's fine. I actually enjoy questions such as this one. I hope you find a beautiful black princess. Good luck!
2006-12-09 17:41:35 · answer #9 · answered by Veronique 3 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Of course its ok! If you are attracted to someon, take the step and approach them. It doesn't matter what race you are as long as the attraction is there. GO AHEAD!!! :)
2006-12-09 17:40:33 · answer #10 · answered by anje_s2001 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋