I met a girl online a couple of months ago. We live in different citie but within one country. We established our friendship firmly. But we didn't have romances...I am a freshman in college,and she is a senior who is eager to apply for graduate school.During her preparation for GRE and application, I helped her a lot.
We often joke around about marrying each other ,but never seriously. She is a little older than me while she tells me that she prefer older one.
I don't what should I do to her now
2006-12-09 17:32:00 · 6 answers · asked by Jason N 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is my personal opinion..... but I suggest you leave it at friends for now. I think you should definitely meet her first and see where your friendship goes when you hang out together in real life before you make any decisions. Sometimes people get along differently online vs real life; as I have heard this is definitely true.
Right now you are not sure of marrying her, otherwise you wouldn't be asking this question. Your unsureness is an insecurity you have about her because you still need to know her better, so I consider you don't rush the whole marriage thing just yet. Only time will tell..... You will know when the time is right if you indeed do decide to marry her because that is when you know that you truly love her and can't live without her.
This is my personal opinion on this subject, but I'm sure you'll both make the right decisions for yourselves. Good luck!
2006-12-09 17:54:34 · answer #1 · answered by DaUniQue1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say leave it as a friendship. there are no guarantees that if you two met, you would have the same connection you did online. you might discover that she isn't the person you envisioned or thought you knew. (I've been through it). try getting out and meeting someone in your city in person. you may find a connection a lot more real that sweeps you off your feet...with a whole lot less complications.
2006-12-09 17:37:16 · answer #2 · answered by nd2chnge 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just remain friends. Close friends. Go visit her sometimes and ask her out. Maby she could change her mind about finding older guys.
2006-12-09 17:37:09 · answer #3 · answered by ♥♥Pro♥♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
prolly she is not the same person in real life.
have you ever seen her on webcam before?
have you ever talked to her on the phone before?
remember ppl lie all the time on the net.
they show you things which they want you to see.
just because she seems one way doesn't mean she is that way in real life.
prolly she is not as nice as she was on the net.
good luck though.;
2006-12-09 17:52:57 · answer #4 · answered by ♥ caramel_bonbon ♥ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Grow some gonads and meet a woman in the real world. Sorry, but thats probably the best way.
2006-12-09 17:35:18 · answer #5 · answered by T 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk on the phone or meet in person, and see where it goes.
2006-12-09 17:34:23 · answer #6 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋