Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

I wrote my boyfriend an e-mail asking him about helping pay for birthcontrol pills.I know I should have waited until he got home from his 3 week training to talk to him face to face but I'm really nervous about asking him.This is what the e-mail says word for word. "Do you remember when I was telling you about the birth control pills costing $45.I was wondering if you would go half and half on the cost.It is just that I enjoy it alot more when we are able to make love to each other without the use of condoms.I know if we used condoms you would be paying for them anyways and I would prefer to use the birth control pills both for the pleasure of feeling you inside me while we are making love and also because it is suppose to help me health wise to prevent endometriosis and also helps with the cramping and heavy periods." Does the way I wrote this the correct way to go about asking for him to help pay for them?Is he responsible to help pay for them? If he refuses how should I respond?

2006-12-08 04:58:28 · 4 answers · asked by bettyboopin3_1976_23 1 in Singles & Dating

I like to eat raw red meat. Should I worry more about contracting ecoli or herpes?

2006-12-08 04:58:01 · 16 answers · asked by Tek ~aka~Legs! 7 in Singles & Dating

I love men but also love women. Anyone feel this same way?

2006-12-08 04:57:16 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 04:57:05 · 5 answers · asked by B i n g o 4 in Singles & Dating

my husband is still in contact with his ex although i did told him that i prefer he doesnt.... s that a sign he is cheating?

2006-12-08 04:57:05 · 22 answers · asked by hib hib 2 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 04:56:18 · 26 answers · asked by a guy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

WDF is wrong with people these days. My friend, sixteen, was abused for a long time. I found out that his mom did drugs and his dad abused him. So we went to the police station, they blew us off. I reported annonomusly several times to social services, they NEVER did anything about it.

I'm afraid to let my friend go back at his house at a.ll. I've tried to talk to my parents, but they won't budge. I'm thinking his dad is paying somebody off, but I don't know what to do.

HELP!

2006-12-08 04:56:03 · 7 answers · asked by JASNJ 2 in Family

My friend got married with 5 years elder girl, he couldn't satisfy his wife..?
He is much worried that he couldn't satify his wife in the sexual intercourse. he consulted with Doctor also but still she is not satisfied. He assume that he is not capable of satifying elder lady. can someone help him....

My question is, is there any difference in satisfying younger and elder females????

2006-12-08 04:56:00 · 10 answers · asked by Vijay 1 in Singles & Dating

I tell him time and time again but he still believes I want to go back to my ex. I do everything I can to show him he's the one for me. And I feel like he doesn't understand or believe what I tell him.
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2006-12-08 04:55:32 · 28 answers · asked by April A 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so me and 2 other girls were walking home, so then they started running away from me because apparently im a "perv", so then one girl dropped her wallet, i knew that girl well, she once took me roller blading with her father, so then when i get home i open up the wallet which is a Baby Phat brand, and i see: A library card, Borders Rewards Card "dont know the balance though", and i found $17, the girl is usually nice to me but calls me a pervert and stuff like that, what do you guys think i should do? return the wallet OR spend the money to buy something for me and THEN return the wallet?

2006-12-08 04:55:28 · 56 answers · asked by ? 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 04:55:20 · 18 answers · asked by mulderlx 2 in Weddings

My husband is in school full time and I work full time to support us. Several nights a week he will stay out until 12 or 1am studying. Sometimes I call him and he is out with friends from class; he says they just got done studying and they are just relaxing for a little while. Meanwhile, I am the one who has to take care of the house/pets/bills/etc because he says he doesn't have time since he has to study. Last night he had a final for one of his classes at 6pm. He still wasn't home by 10pm, so I gave him a call. He was out celebrating with classmates. I asked him why he didn't call me to join him, and he just said that by then they were too far away for me to join. I told him that he was "in trouble", and he said he was fine with that - then he didn't come home until 3am. I have told my husband many times that I get hurt and worried when he doesn't call to tell me what he is doing. He doesn't seem to care. I know my hubby deserves time with the guys, but what about me?

2006-12-08 04:55:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 04:55:03 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-12-08 04:54:27 · 7 answers · asked by Barrett G 6 in Singles & Dating

I am 40 yrs old, my fiance and I are getting married in march, but I just found out that I am also pregnant, how do I break the new to my father and relatives they are pretty conservative.

2006-12-08 04:54:10 · 32 answers · asked by jinky l 1 in Weddings

he is really into video games, like action and killing and that sort of stuff, he also loves loves music, hes 17 and i have no idea what to get him?

2006-12-08 04:53:36 · 5 answers · asked by ashley g 1 in Singles & Dating

My man and I have only been together for about 4 months and I have no idea what to get him. He said he wants clothes, but thats sooo plain. I want to get him something that will make him say "WOW"! He doesn't wear jewelry and has a lot of body sprays and stuff like that. He's a complete deth metal fan and is pretty wild....IDEAS PLEASE!!

2006-12-08 04:53:21 · 2 answers · asked by *Droogie* 5 in Singles & Dating

are there any chat rooms that are fre and for teeneger also that dont cause viruses has anyone already signed into or any of your children signed into one that you could recament to me as i am 14

2006-12-08 04:53:11 · 16 answers · asked by xkelx_xx 2 in Singles & Dating

I've been curious for a long time and just don't think I will get over until I try it. But I have a really hard time trying to talk to my girlfriends to see if they would be interested since none of them are bi or gay, at least that I know of. I've used yahoo personals and one other site and have actually talked to some girls on the phone and actually did meet one girl who was just not attractive to me in person so it didn't go anywhere. I get wierded out talkign to girls from the online dating sites. Is this the best way to find a girl to experiment with or should I just wait to find a girlfriend that wants to try it too?

2006-12-08 04:53:01 · 10 answers · asked by kayla j 1 in Singles & Dating

Arranged marriages are one where your parents look into the girl's family and the people they interact with and decided that she is right match. But the final decision whether to marry the girl your parents have picked is upto you. These do happen a lot in Asian Countries.

2006-12-08 04:52:56 · 9 answers · asked by magicjaan 1 in Marriage & Divorce

husband was married in 06 not 05. Now that they are living together under the same address. He wants file for HofH w/ dependents and she wants to file head of households with dependents too. Is this possiable.Can you use the same address to file head of house hold. But they wasn't married in 05 and moved in together in august of 05. Married 2/14/06 she say HELP ASAP

2006-12-08 04:52:41 · 6 answers · asked by mona75243 4 in Marriage & Divorce

If I dont work money is tight. The pay is extremely good. I know my kids are taken care of but I feel like they will resent me later..but I can not work either.. WHat should I do?

2006-12-08 04:52:35 · 9 answers · asked by Nia 1 in Family

I recently broke up with my boyfriend for a lot of different reasons. We were together for a little over a year. At one point he was very controlling, then he relaxed a little; and he's verbally abusive when he gets upset at me. We fought all the time, and I felt that I couldn't trust him because he has lied to me quite often; I find out but don't face him with it, because the one and only time I did, he denied it at first, then apologized, and talked me into staying. Since I broke up with him, he has been still calling me and says he wants to stay friends, and enjoys doing things with me, and he still loves me, and that he's not the one who broke up, and that if he wanted to break up with me, he would have. But, he's telling all his friends that I'm the one that keeps calling him, and he cut me loose because I wanted to get married and he didn't because my kids are so screwed up. What is it that he wants from me if this is what he's telling his friends?

2006-12-08 04:52:08 · 3 answers · asked by southern belle 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 04:52:08 · 9 answers · asked by haus16 1 in Singles & Dating

the feeling of sensuality being kissed in the rain to getting drunk to the excitement of going on holidays...whatever you like ...just go with what you want...;0)

2006-12-08 04:51:48 · 44 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My partner of 7 years moved down south on saturday, we have a 4 yr old daughter, its a long story why he went but he said he loved us both and will wait until we can go to be with him. i have a 16 yr old son they dont like each other. We had a bit of an heated discussion on monday night about my son as he is being really bad. He said he would ring me the next day, his mobile has been on voicemail since!!! its our daughters 4th birthday today and he hasent even rang to wish her happy birthday, what do you think of that? i have tried all week to ring and sent him loads of texts but to no avail, maybe i will give him some space and see if he comes round, he has been in turmoil lately, a lot has gone on in the family.

2006-12-08 04:50:31 · 8 answers · asked by ann_jacques 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriends mother is in failing health. She is diabetic and she is keeps having more and more medical problems. My boyrfriend has been taking care of her for the past 20 years needlessly of course because until recently she has been quite capable of taking care of her self. She basically has been living with him to avoid paying any bills. She is getting social security and has medicare and medicaid. I would like to start a family with my boyfriend but I really feel that she is in the way. Would it be rude to gather information on nursing homes in our area to give to him to review?

I really need help here!

Thanks for all your comments in advance.

2006-12-08 04:50:26 · 25 answers · asked by sapphiresunstar 3 in Family

i nutted in my girls mouth during oral sex by accident she does'nt like for me to. she broke up with me. she does'nt like for me to. was that nessasary? would you break up with someone if that happened to you.

2006-12-08 04:50:19 · 13 answers · asked by ken 1 in Singles & Dating

OK say I'm gonna meet up with someone for no strings fun tonight, so there may be little passion just hot and horny bashing, do you think I'll just end up feelin' dirty?. this person is already in a relationship also. I just want a good ol' **** and don't care how or when but what about the after math?

2006-12-08 04:50:13 · 8 answers · asked by ANTJOHN 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 04:49:03 · 7 answers · asked by thevillageprophet 1 in Singles & Dating