My bf of a year a bit, grandpa died after a long battle with cancer. He was extremely close to him, he would drop anything and go help him if he needed it. And I think the death has hit him harder than he even realizes. But ever since his grandpa passed away, he has withdrawn from me. He thinks we are just fighting more, but yet we never fought before really. And nothing else in our lives has changed.
He is drinking more, and is nasty when drunk. He says things like "I dont care about anything, anyone anymore", or "I could die tomorrow, thats life", or "I should just drive the car into the ditch". He says it likes it's a joke, but Im not laughing.
With me he suddenly says he loves me, then he says he is a different person now and doesnt love me. Then he says he forgot that he even said those things. Mean well Im left hurt and confused. He says things like I dont know if I want to be with you, but then says well I havent left have I? He says he doesnt mean to hurt me.
HELP!
2006-12-08
05:02:00
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