Family & Relationships - 8 December 2006

he doesn't stop. i thought that he loved me. i want to kill myself because of him. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

2006-12-08 05:41:37 · 34 answers · asked by u don't know me and never wi 1 in Singles & Dating

my best friend's ex- gf hates me. bc she thanks that i stole him from her..

2006-12-08 05:41:37 · 7 answers · asked by d c 2 in Singles & Dating

A little history. Last year, I caught my then fiance in a HUGE lie. I wont go into details, but lets just say it was a whopper of a lie, and it came out in a very public way. It was explainable, and forgivable, and I have been able to re-build my trust in him, as he has given me access to email, and he is always where he says he will be, and has earned back my full trust.

We married in October, and over the last two weeks, I have began to worry. I am noticing small lies, very insignificant.

My question is, are the little insignificant lies a tell-tale sign he is hiding something else, or is he testing me to see what he can get away with? Do I confront him with the small lies, or just keep my mouth shut?

Overall, he is a Fantastic man, and great step father to my kids, but this issue is bugging me.

2006-12-08 05:40:57 · 20 answers · asked by sweetie_baby 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I want to get some video games for my boyfriend. He's seventeen and enjoys the typical "guy games". His favorite game is Grand Theft Auto: San Andreas, so I want to get him something along those lines. These are the only one's I cam up with:

Hitman: Bloody Money
Scarface: The World is Yours
Superman Returns: The Video Game

What do you think? Good? Any other suggestions?

2006-12-08 05:40:38 · 10 answers · asked by shortnspunky 2 in Singles & Dating

Any????????????????

2006-12-08 05:40:02 · 3 answers · asked by Aaliyah Crawford 1 in Singles & Dating

i gave her a necklace last year
and she really liked it.

im 16 and she's turning 16.

im going to europe this coming up summer, thats where i got her the necklace last time.
what should i get her this year ?

2006-12-08 05:39:39 · 8 answers · asked by Nick723 3 in Singles & Dating

I think I love him, but I could be wrong...

2006-12-08 05:38:41 · 6 answers · asked by ηєvєrmorє 6 in Singles & Dating

I met this girl from the Match.com website but i haven't actually met in person because she's in nigeria and she told me that she is stuck there with no money and she's tying to get me to help her out with $900 because she owes this hotel that she's been syaing at for 3 months, and she's is from quincy mass. i guess some guy that she met out there didnt turn out to be who he really was and he tried to rape her and she got away, so she's been talking to me about helping her and i find this hard to be true. she swears that she will pay me back because her parents are wealthy but they were in a car accident in which they died from that.she's all tellling me now that she cares about me and she loves me, now how she gonna say all of this when she has never met me in her life so do you find this to be a big Scam or what because i am having mixed feelings about this so please help me on this.also she has no other relatives and she's all by herself.

2006-12-08 05:38:37 · 54 answers · asked by . 6 in Singles & Dating

Im going on my first date.This guy is my best friend who ive been in love forever whose been abroad we are family friends.We are seeing eachother after 6years!All guys please tell me what do you think of this a 25 year old girl,78 lbs,5 feet 2 inches,stats are
32-23-35?Would you think its very good or need to loose it?

2006-12-08 05:38:18 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

and is such a ***** to me all the time we used to be so close how should i solve this?

2006-12-08 05:38:09 · 6 answers · asked by sillywilly 1 in Friends

Our daughter, whom we love dearly, clearly has a drinking problem. She has already received 2 underage drinking tickets and on her 20th birthday ran into a bridge and got a DUI. In her apartment above her kitchen cupboards she collects empty alcohol bottles (there are tons of them). When she comes home occasionally she seems like she has a chip on her shoulder and is just in and out. She used to bring her dogs over but doesn't do that anymore. She has a cat that she used to just love but said she wants to get rid of him. She mentioned to our other daughter that her nose hurt because she did some cocaine. There is a guy who is known to do cocaine. When we questioned her, she denied it. We are soooooooo worried. She's going down a road that's bad. She has been state ordered to attend alcohol classes and is going to them. She really is a wonderful caring person normally, but we don't know who this "new" person is. Please give us some advice. Our hearts are so heavy with despair.

2006-12-08 05:37:46 · 12 answers · asked by doozer 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 05:37:44 · 14 answers · asked by flavorlicious 2 in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have been in a long-term relationship for nearly three years, and we live together. For the first year or so, the amount of non-sexual physical attention/affection I got from him was great. He would cuddle with me, hug me, kiss me. Trust me - I'm not the type who needs constant attention, but I do appreciate a little physical affection now and then. It's nice to feel loved and wanted.

I don't know what's happened, but the affection and attention has dwindled down to the point of being basically non-existent. I don't get hugs and kisses anymore, we don't cuddle anymore...there's really nothing. These days, the only time we really have any physical contact at all is when he wants sex. Aside from that...nothing. What's going on? Is this normal for men to act this way?

I've asked my boyfriend if I've done something wrong and he says no. He says there's no problem at all, and that he's just "tired" when he gets home from work. This sounds like an excuse to me.

2006-12-08 05:37:14 · 21 answers · asked by Heather C 2 in Marriage & Divorce

i was with this guy for two years now and he cheated on me once with a girl for a whole year last year. i forgave him and tried to move on. he dumps her and tells me that he wants to start a life together and i am the only woman he wants to be with (since he has a history of being a playboy). I trust him but not completely (meaning with other women) he proposed and ask me to marry him twice and I never gave him an answer. but the other day he was telling me what house we should buy and what to name our kids. I go along with it cause i still care about him but honestly I dont want anything to do with him. I mean i forgave him and everything but my heart is not crazy about him anymore and I just want to move on in my life without him. I tried breaking up with him a few times and I was even nasty to him on the phone. one time i broke up with him, he said "fine i wont call anymore" but then send me a text hour later saying "i will not lose you we are not broken up". What do I do?

2006-12-08 05:36:46 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I don't have time because if family issues to attend and I don't trust guys for a serious relationship because of bad experiences, but I like the attention and friendship, should I bother?thanks

2006-12-08 05:35:44 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

For example in our wedding announcement she said that my husband got a degree from college. He actually only took about four classes and dropped out. She is now saying that he was READING paragraphs by the age of 3 1/2. I highly doubt that because he was in special programs for reading problems. My daughter who is almost 5 can read and I feel she is trying to compete with me. Do I just ignore it or call her out? This isn't the only time. She ALWAYs has to be right or better.

2006-12-08 05:34:16 · 23 answers · asked by jenlovely01 3 in Marriage & Divorce

What should I do the guy that that im inlove with doesnt even know Im alive... We were together B4 but what should I do..

2006-12-08 05:32:54 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am working 2 jobs 1 f/t and 1 p/t so we can have a little extra money.I pay mortgage,car pmt,groceries,lunch $ for kids. That takes all of my check. My husband only has to pay utilities but never has any money. I have to buy all of our kid's christmas w/ the $400 a month from my 2nd job. What would you do? I am LIVID. WHERE IS HIS MONEY GOING? He is always home so I don't think it is going to another woman. I am so frustrated and so tired of BEING BROKE AND WORKING MY BUTT OFF!

2006-12-08 05:32:32 · 32 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

man/women, how much older, is it working

2006-12-08 05:31:59 · 10 answers · asked by I love dooneys 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-12-08 05:31:40 · 21 answers · asked by shannetjones 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

Guys what are some of thet turn on' s & turn off's you have about women. What are some of the things you do to show her that you really care about her?

2006-12-08 05:30:49 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

if one of your family members is a deceiving piece of crap! i am referring to my uncle.

2006-12-08 05:30:30 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i was talking to this one boy, and one day i ended up going to his cousins house during school to go chill with him.. and whike i was there.. things advanced to sex, and i agreed to do it with him. well when we finished our... "thing", 3 of his friends walked in the room ready to hit me too.. but i said no. well.. ones of the boys mom worked with my mom and my mom is not aware of me having sexual relations. well, the one boy threatened to tell my mother if i did not perform sexual acts on aLL of them and i said no. i ended up saying no 3 times but i finally gave in because it was just so much bull**** at one point in time and i didnt know what to do, and ended up doing all of them. a resourse that i have talked to about everything said i wasnt gang raped because i ended up saying yes.. but i know that it really was.i did say no, and i didnt ask for things to happen. i dont know what to think or do, and i just need some comforting advice.

2006-12-08 05:30:14 · 37 answers · asked by babiigurlluvnalex 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 05:29:33 · 21 answers · asked by sillywilly 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I love my wife to pieces!!!!! I just want a more adventurous sex life. It is pretty much just mission style at this point. I fantasize about trying anal and other things. She seems to be satisfied with just the sama ole. Any suggestions?

2006-12-08 05:29:14 · 20 answers · asked by curious george 2 in Marriage & Divorce

I had one of those weird childhoods. My parents never showed me any kind of affections. I have never once heard the word i love you from any of my parents. They got divorced when i was about 9 years old and when i tried to talk to my mom, she told me something that shut me out of this world for some reason. since then i never feel any affections for anyone. I mean i have met people that show me true kindness. But for some reason i just feel cold empty and when i try to feel something for some one i just get this aching pain in my heart. Since middle school i had girlfriends on and off. I always date them till i start feeling something and then i breakup. I found me a nice girl beautiful innocent and always there when i need her. I am trying to stay with her but this pain keeps getting worse. I mean sometimes i feel like my heart is being poked by pins literally. I went to the doc and she said she found nothing wrong. I don't know what to do. How can i stop this pain?

2006-12-08 05:28:46 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-12-08 05:28:22 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-12-08 05:28:19 · 15 answers · asked by missbubblegum 1 in Singles & Dating

I've been in a new relationship for about 9 months now. I am also 6 months pregnant. I really care about him. We have had an amazing sexual history so far, but over the last 3 days I have caught him masturbating while laying next to me (while I pretended to stay alseep) and I havent said anything about it. I don't want it to bother me or lead me to start listening to him take showers in the morning (to hear if hes masturbating) like i did in my past relationship. I think maybe because i'm not as interetsed because of the pregnancy as I used to be that he has resorted to this. But he hides it from me. I'll wake up in the middle of him doing it, he doesnt know this, but i wont inturrupt or say anything. Even last night (after I told him the only times I am usually aroused is late late at night or 1st thing in the morning) He resorted to this instead of me. Am I doing something wrong? How do i confront him, or should I let it go? It used to not be like this.

2006-12-08 05:26:53 · 24 answers · asked by JAMESES 1 in Marriage & Divorce

where are all the real men? what happened? is it because their fathers didnt know how to be husbands and fathers themselves??

2006-12-08 05:25:44 · 23 answers · asked by Frank 3 in Marriage & Divorce