he doesn't stop. i thought that he loved me. i want to kill myself because of him. HELP!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-12-08 05:41:37 · 34 answers · asked by u don't know me and never wi 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well just get even i think i can swing 90 times with you
2006-12-08 05:45:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
You don't love him... you just don't think there is anybody else for you, so you are afraid, because anything is better than being alone. You don't want to kill yourself, those are words. Ya should have left him after the first time he cheated on you. I will never understand why people stay in situations like that. You can't love someone who hurts you all the time. That is not what love is about. You may wanna kill him though.. but no point in that either. Just leave, trust me.... in time you will not miss him. You will meet someone else who will make you happy.. maybe not right away.. but you will. Just be thankful that he is your boyfriend and not your husband.. you were smart there... it will be much easier to be rid of him...
2006-12-08 05:51:36 · answer #2 · answered by tootsie38 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People who stay in relationships where the other one keeps hurting them (it could be verbal abuse, drinking, spending too much $, and so on), stay because of the love, yes, but probably, they've put SO much of themselves into the relationship, they're terrified of what they'll be like without it! How will they live? Who will they come home to at night? It's a very tough spot to be in.
But if you're at the point of considering suicide you need to a) get help for that first! then b) develop some outside support, friends, a job if you don't have one and C) LEAVE HIM! He's doing nothing but dragging you down AND, if you still sleep w/him, you're risking getting HIV or another disease.
Don't worry; you CAN move on. It will be painful, but if you have strength in yourself and support from others, you CAN do it! Just think of it as reclaiming your life! You've done enough for this guy.
Good luck to you!
2006-12-08 05:49:07 · answer #3 · answered by SieglindeDieNibelunge 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I've gone thru,{and still am} the same thing. 5 yrs with this man. I tried sooo many times to leave him. Finally, I did. 9 months ago, and I still love him, but I now have the strenght to stay away. Think about your man, no respect for you, OR himself, selfish, immature, all in all, NOT a good or worthy person. Is someone with such a weak character worth your life? HELL NO!! The sooner you kick him to the curb, the sooner you'll find the man worthy of you. Btw, DON'T give it to just anybody, you have a gift. Make sure the next one deserves it.
2006-12-08 06:00:49 · answer #4 · answered by isis8x3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break it off with him right away.
And seek some counseling. Because you obviously have a very low selfasteem. You deserve waaay better. Don't let him treat you this way. Leave that loser.
I understand that you love him, so it might hurt. But you have nothing to lose and everything to gain by dumping his @ss. For one; you'll gain happiness. Because in time your wounds will heal. And you'll find some one who's true to you. And you really are worth fighting for. Believe that. You deserve to be happy.
But he'll never quit cheating, because he's enjoying it to much, he doesn't care about you enough (otherwise he would've been faithfull) and because there are no repercussions for him.
Leave him. It's time you choose for YOU.
Do some healing and get happy again.
Really you are worth it. I can't say it enough. He doesn't deserve you. There is someone out there for you, that will love and respect you as much as you deserve...
I hope you'll fight for that.
2006-12-08 05:53:24 · answer #5 · answered by StormyWeather 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let this man manipulate more than he already has. A real man who truly loved you would never do this to you. He's not worth being suicidal over. It feels like **** at first but then if you leave him and move on, you'll gradually feel better about yourself. But you might need some professional help to talk about your own problems and work them out. He's incapable of loving you.
2006-12-08 18:27:54 · answer #6 · answered by purringout 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first Hun no girl deserves to be cheated on
second no man is wort you killing your self
third there are plenty of men out there that can definitely treat you better
forth why would you stay with some that keep cheating i know you love him but some to cheat on you that many times
you'll see if you leave him or treating to leave him he will change maybe for like a week but hunny he will keep doing that bc he know he can bc he know you won't do noting just move on you can definitely find better you ll never going to be happy with him i know its hard now but latter your going to be like what the f was i thinking.
2006-12-08 05:50:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm going to tell you like this you need to kick him to the crub A.S.A.P, because he doesn't love you if he did he would do what he is doing to you. He know that he's got you around his finger but don't let him think that show him you can find someone else better, No girl needs to go threw something like this. I'm not saying it's going to be easy but once you do it and get over it u will feel better and thank god you done it. Don't put your self down like that it's not worth it not guy is. Wake up honey and smell the coffee he dosen't love you. Get Out NOW!
2006-12-08 05:48:55 · answer #8 · answered by lafred116 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
GIRLFRIEND... where is your self worth and self respect.
Take two steps back and ask yourself... is this what GOD wants for me, is this what my Father would expect from me... No No No... you deserve better. You need to LOVE you unconditionally before you search for love from the opposite sex.
Please... take care of you and get out of this relationship. There are too many non-curable diseases out there today.
Every morning, tell yourself at least 5 positive affirmations when you look in the mirror. Build up your self confidence and discover your self worth. There is a man deserving of you out there. And you don't need the emotional drama... Go get you an MJB cd or Leela James... Listen to these women encourage other women. PLEASE!!!!
2006-12-08 05:48:33 · answer #9 · answered by TracyBee 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He obviously doesn't feel the same kind of love for you, Morgan. He wouldn't hurt you like that if he did. Please move on. It's hard, but you'll be better for it. Time does help heal wounds or at least make them bearable. Surround yourself with things that you like and other people. Pamper yourself.
Your world can go on without him. Look out at the starry sky tonight, Morgan. It's a big world, isn't it? You aren't stuck in one spot or with one guy. He's not worth suicide.
2006-12-08 05:47:11 · answer #10 · answered by honiebyrd 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
why would you stay with him? dump him IF you seriously feel like killing yourself for what he's doign you need help. It would be the biggest mistake ever. My little cousin of 16 tried to kill herself last year because she was really depressed and they put her in jail for about 1 month and after she got out they sent her to a mental institution for a couple of months and now she has attemted suicide on her record. Trust me- it's not worth if and now that she;s talking about that day that she tried killing herself she regrets it
2006-12-08 05:42:57 · answer #11 · answered by Ms.Budonkadonk 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋