Family & Relationships - 7 December 2006

My father is going to visti Vietnam next month. He went to a lawyer to get a passport and a visa. He told me that they needed my siblings and my socials. I believe that he is planning to bring back some 26 year old from there who he thinks wants to marry him.That is an issue all by it's self however I know that there is paper work involved for that,but still that doesn't even seem like it would require my info or my siblings. I am 28 and have worked hard to keep good credit and I need to know if this could be a scam.

2006-12-07 12:20:24 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Weddings

Okay, this guy and i have been hanging out for about 8 months. About six months into it, we started talking about a relationship and it got physical (not all the way though). The problem is, we are in this "relationship" but neither of us have said "yes, we are going out." We hold hands, he stays over, etc. etc. plus I really like him a lot...it is a fairly serious relationship for not being officially a "relationship" Should I buy him a Christmas present or not. If I don't, what if he buys me something? I really want to but what if I show up with one and he doesn't...I just don't want an awkward situation to occur because everything is perfect right now.

2006-12-07 12:19:48 · 12 answers · asked by A.I.Disguise 2 in Singles & Dating

fly swatter. "And just what have u been doing while I was doing all this running around." "Catching flies." he said. "I've caught 5, 3 boys, and 2 girls." Looking abit annoyed, she says, "Really, 3 boys, and 2 girls, how do u figure that?"........"I got 3 on the beer bottle, and 2 on the phone!" :) have an awesome day..keep smiling...

2006-12-07 12:19:37 · 13 answers · asked by MAGGIEMAGGOO 2 in Marriage & Divorce

boys

2006-12-07 12:19:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Okay, here we go. i like this guy. i'm 14(soon to be 15) and hes 17. he says that he really likes me alot, but hes not sure if we should get together, cuz of the whole "age" thing. I don't ask guys out, cuz lets face it..its a guys job, but i do belive that since i dont ask guys out, i tell them when i like them, so i told him. then he tells me that he likes me back. good right? well that was like...5 months ago? yeah, 5 months. and we've talked between then and now, and he still "claims" to like me..a girlfriend like..so we talk&& email. on tuesday, he called me and i had to go, i told him i'd call him back..only its thrusday, and i still haven't..i dont know what to do..!! i dont want my heart broke, im after the real thing, he says he is to..so like, what should i do?? Please help!

2006-12-07 12:19:19 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

please share ;-)

2006-12-07 12:19:07 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

. . . or do you cut people off as soon as they hurt you?

The hurt can be intentional or unintentional. The point of asking is to poll people on how they view relationships and how they handle being hurt.

2006-12-07 12:18:20 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i guess i like hamburgers....

2006-12-07 12:18:14 · 9 answers · asked by nellie 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

well i had a bf and i am 13. i know that is fairly young but it is not uncommon. if you are one of those people who answers something like 'you are way to young to be involved in this' then stop now. i would like to see advice only please. anyway so i had a bf and there was a school field trip to washington dc. i was really nervous because it was far away from home and we were going to have what was my first dance ever. you can probably understand that. anyway so he wanted me to grind with him and i didnt feel ready for that and i told him. he broke up with me and i know now he is a jerk and all that so you dont need to mention that either. i like someone else now, 3 weeks later, and he likes me. the first guy keeps doing things to make me upset like telling the other guy in the first place i liked him. i know this is probably because he's jealous, but he broke up with me in the first place. can someone please try to help me and explain if u can?

2006-12-07 12:18:01 · 10 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2 in Singles & Dating

i have a friend named haley m. and we are both friends w/ jillian and i have an old friend named elizabeth and she is friends w/ my other old friend haley s. and elizabeth and haley s. are friends and they t old haley m. that i was just using haley m. to be better friends w/ jillian they also told her that all my other friends that i just used them and jillian kinda belives haley s. and elizabeth and so does haley m. they also said that i donr like haley m. but i do!wat should i do 2 get those haters or backstabers off my back?plz help!and i cant cuse to them im only 12!plz help! If it is confusin im sorry!

2006-12-07 12:17:55 · 21 answers · asked by Kasin W 2 in Friends

now i know there was nothing on my face or anything like that but this girl just keeps on stareing at me i smile and she keeps on stareing at me and she wont even smile its weird what dose that mean

should i just be like please stop stearing at me

she didint look away when i look at her and smiled she has done this more than once

2006-12-07 12:17:38 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

In continuation to the former question- this guy has been my friend for two years now, and we decided to take the plunge and go out. He was loving and caring throughout the relationship until one month hit, and he all of a sudden blew me off, not giving me a reason for a break up (or even a break up for that matter)- to this day I don't know why he broke things off. We work together in the same lab, and he doeasn't even say Hi to me, not even the most basic courtesy! His total disregard makes me feel angry and saddened. I know I did nothing wrong, and yet I suffer because of his attitude, and it affects my work. How can I get rid of those feelings and deal with this A hole?! How do I make him feel as bad as I do?

2006-12-07 12:16:42 · 1 answers · asked by LaLaLand 2 in Singles & Dating

Here's my friends story.. she's been with her bf for 4 years, they live together. About a year ago her bf came clean with the fact that he had previously lied to her about how many people he had slept with (when they first met he told her he had 1 previous gf and had slept with a total of 3 people..when in fact he's never had a gf and he had only slept with 1 girl.. an older girl who he hardly knew but happened to be at the same party one night and were both drinking). He was 17 when it happened and states his lies were to cover up something he was deeply ashamed of. Its been quite a while now and my advice to my friend is to forget it but it seems as if it's too difficult for her to do so. My question is would you be able to trust someone who did this to you?

2006-12-07 12:16:22 · 14 answers · asked by hwlatmon 2 in Singles & Dating

He had some slightly different views of life than you did?

2006-12-07 12:16:11 · 7 answers · asked by L♥G 5 in Singles & Dating

there is a guy in my school and he is so hot! i don't know if i should ask him out even though my parents said i can't have a boyfried.

2006-12-07 12:15:52 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm a senior in high school and have known these people for a while and am friendly with them but not very close and I want to integrate myself into their group. I started buying presents for their birthdays and Christmas coming up, do you think sitting at lunch with them would help? The thing is I'm really shy and i know they like me but I don't talk much and I don't know if that will keep them from ever getting invited to do things with them.

2006-12-07 12:15:49 · 5 answers · asked by leena 4 in Friends

2006-12-07 12:15:46 · 10 answers · asked by auroa26 3 in Friends

Am I trippin? I was talking on my husband's phone to his mother when she told me I forgot to give her my new phone number. I told her that when I hung up I would text it to her. Went I went to his inbox he had like 21 incoming mgs when I brung it to his attention he snached the phone and deleted all the msgs. Should I be worried or don't sweat it?

2006-12-07 12:13:58 · 6 answers · asked by Princess 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

My boyfriend and i have been dating for about 3 months now and we have also been arguing with each other for the last 3 months constantly non stop for even the most trivial things. I broke up with him once already and we got back together. I really do love him. now he keeps bringing up the fact that he wants to take a break from this relationship but doesn't want to break with me. I just dont understand, i'm so confused. somebody please help me.

2006-12-07 12:13:32 · 15 answers · asked by lilprincess259 1 in Singles & Dating

My fiance and I have lived together on our own for two years in South Texas. We recently moved to North Texas for my school. He had to quit his job and doesn't start working for another month doing real estate. Even when he starts, at first the money will be very tight. So, we have moved in with my mom and siblings. It is so stressful to move back home, especially since I am the only one working right now and I am going to school full time. When I get home my fiance, who has ALWAYS been great and supportive and had worked 2 jobs in S. Texas, is always stressed. I can't deal with it! He hates living there, but we can't afford anything else right now. I know it's temporary, but it's so stressful to maintain my family, him, and my personal life. It has really put a toll on our relationship. He is always negative and I hate being around him. I know it's temporary, but it's too much for one person. He feels I don't pay him enough attention & I feel I need more support. I feel stuck HELP!

2006-12-07 12:13:27 · 6 answers · asked by txaggie2514 4 in Family

ok my boyfriend use to tell me how much he loves me and stuff, everything was so great and it was so easy for us to be happy, he used to be al i always wanted but then i started to be hella jealouse of his ex, and got worse ad worse, i talked about her more than i did about us, but it was also because he flirted with her and i know he's not over her,
now i told him i'm sorry for all that and i told him that's all over i'm done bugging him about her, he still says he loves me, and he's willing to cut contacts with her,
now i'm wondering have i made him to lobe me less? to beome more attracted to her?
and what can i do to repair the damage i've caused?

2006-12-07 12:13:25 · 10 answers · asked by L.K. 1 in Singles & Dating

i love this guy soo much and we have been dating for 6 months. well we use to be able to see each other alot but he has sooo much church going on in his life and soo much school and soo much home life i have barley talked to him in 3 weeks. Im thinking of breaking up with him thing is i dont want to do it by txt, phone, cell, messanger, or email, but i dont see him during the day cuz he goes to a different school. o this may help u im only 14. help

2006-12-07 12:12:55 · 5 answers · asked by Mae-Day 3 in Singles & Dating

look my dad had a sexual harrasment against him from me and my lil sister.. it was about 6yrs ago.. i was very close to try and forgive him but come to find out, he has u fkin 23 yr old girlfriend (im 21) and he's about 47-52yrs.. and on top of that, he brought her to my family.. ugh!!! i wish i can have a dad.. but not him.. am i wrong for that?? or is it understandable? it made my wound fresh.. im fkin mad as hell!!!!!

2006-12-07 12:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

I have big boobs, perfect legs, flat but rounded butt and I'm pretty.

You have different sized klits, small, medium, large, extra-large, and double XL. I would be a large or XL. It doesn't look deformed or anything, but it certainly is big. If you were a guy would you eat out my big klit?

2006-12-07 12:12:32 · 11 answers · asked by agnosticaatheistica 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-12-07 12:12:10 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Why is it that 90% of the guys in the world are after sex? Yes. I know it isn't just guys, like 85% of girls want what them 90% have. But, I just can not find one guy that wants a relationship because they actually...i don't know....CARE for the girl. I mean most of the guys that I know that relationship=sex. I just want to know if there are some guys out there that want something more out of a future relationship or a current relationship, whatever...Just give me some feedback please

And please no crude or vulgar comments!

2006-12-07 12:11:56 · 6 answers · asked by krazie_beautiful_2006 1 in Singles & Dating

A couple months ago my boyfriend of a year suddenly started calling his exwhen I wasn't around. I found out, got VERY upset and he said it was nothing and I didn't need to know. As a result, he called and texted her more and more causing many problems for us. Knowing that it was causing problems he kept turning to her when I got upset, even tho THAT is what was making me upset to begin with! It went on for a month until I almost left him, then he stopped.
Last week MY ex released a cd and included a song about me. He emailed me so I could listen to it and we've emailed a few times just talking about his cd. Today I talked to him on AIM for a long time, just about the past, and catching up.
Should I be upfront and tell my boyfriend this? He will never know if I don't tell him, but I feel like it's the same thing I got upset with him for hiding from me. There was nothing to it, just like he told me about HIS ex and I never believed him. We are very serious and live together.

2006-12-07 12:11:28 · 28 answers · asked by bellagirl1414 2 in Singles & Dating

I am a woman who loves a woman i enjoy my time with her and it is not all about the sex we talk laugh share good times together and for the first time since we met we can actually smile so tell me why society condems this type of relationship. I am happy with her and i have achieved more in my life due to her love.

2006-12-07 12:10:33 · 11 answers · asked by eca1094 3 in Singles & Dating

soo i cheated on her when i was drunk..not excusable but i really do love her..more than i ever have any other girl..we still talk and act like were going out but shes scared because it happened to her before..i need some help on how to get her trust back

2006-12-07 12:10:22 · 13 answers · asked by jwm6383 1 in Singles & Dating

-i dont think im ready but i dont want to break his heart

2006-12-07 12:10:13 · 8 answers · asked by uphemie girl lovin it 1 in Singles & Dating