well i had a bf and i am 13. i know that is fairly young but it is not uncommon. if you are one of those people who answers something like 'you are way to young to be involved in this' then stop now. i would like to see advice only please. anyway so i had a bf and there was a school field trip to washington dc. i was really nervous because it was far away from home and we were going to have what was my first dance ever. you can probably understand that. anyway so he wanted me to grind with him and i didnt feel ready for that and i told him. he broke up with me and i know now he is a jerk and all that so you dont need to mention that either. i like someone else now, 3 weeks later, and he likes me. the first guy keeps doing things to make me upset like telling the other guy in the first place i liked him. i know this is probably because he's jealous, but he broke up with me in the first place. can someone please try to help me and explain if u can?
2006-12-07 12:18:01 · 10 answers · asked by all4chanel203 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You sound like a mature 13 year old and he sounds immature. That's really all it is. He's just immature. Don't let him bother you, other mature kids won't listen to him either. And good for you for not letting him pressure you into doing something you didn't want to. Don't ever let ANY guy do that no matter how much you like him. If a guy tells you to do something or else he's breaking up with you he does NOT care about and you'll end up feeling awful about yourself. Keep your head up and keep being you.
2006-12-07 12:27:34 · answer #1 · answered by Nessa 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well, just confront him about it. If you really want to push him down, do it while he's alone and you are in a group. Just tell him to stop.
Or you could always try to hook him up with someone else, just to kind of distract him from you. That usually takes awhile though...
If it's REALLY bothering you, like losing sleep bothering you, you could always try your school's guidance counselor or a close teacher. They can at least provide you an environment for constructive speech.
2006-12-07 12:30:05 · answer #2 · answered by Final11 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm 14 so i can totally relate - I've gone through that b4 and you no what - if he wanted to grind with u and u said no and he broke up with u then yeah he lost his chance and he iz really jealous!!!! ;)~ omg i hate that its his fault and ur right he broke up with you 1st - go out with this new guy.......... FORGET ABOUT THE EX -
2006-12-07 12:27:10 · answer #3 · answered by Sk8erlvrprep 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry sweetie, your too young to grind on the dance floor,,,,,,,, he overstepped his boundaries,and he is again over stepping them, he is just immature,,,he'll learn, it doesn't mean either boys are good or bad,,,,,,,it's just that he doesn't know any better,but you need to stick up for yourself, since they don't know any better and you do, do it for the sake of your self-esteem, HE IS ACTING LIKE A JERK, he probally hasn't even told himself that he what he did was wrong!!!!!!!! pass him up till he's learned his lesson. go for the nice guy,and ignore that perv
2006-12-07 12:26:12 · answer #4 · answered by 9888khgd6 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
guys are territorial even though he doesn't want you he doesn't want anyone else to have you either, tell your new boyfriend he dumped you and thats the end of it or have him stand up for your honor and tell the new boyfriend to make the first punch the hardest he's ever swung and make it count
2006-12-07 12:25:19 · answer #5 · answered by sufferingnomad 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
all the things I was going to say, you said NOT to say them so....assume he's jealous and leave it at that. just for the record though, when you play with Barbie Dolls (like you should be doing) you don't get these kinds of results. just thought I'd mention that.
2006-12-07 12:28:54 · answer #6 · answered by baybeegrl5 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Tell you'r new boyfriend that if he likes you,then he won't care what your old boyfriend says.And tell your ex that he can kiss your butt!
2006-12-11 10:23:36 · answer #7 · answered by ally 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he realized that he made a mistake and that its too late so he feels that its only sufficent to try and ruin this other relationsip so maybe he can get you back
2006-12-07 12:21:12 · answer #8 · answered by Beauty in the Breakdown 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Boys suck...they grow into men...MEN SUCK
2006-12-07 12:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
shoot the fuker
2006-12-07 12:21:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋