look my dad had a sexual harrasment against him from me and my lil sister.. it was about 6yrs ago.. i was very close to try and forgive him but come to find out, he has u fkin 23 yr old girlfriend (im 21) and he's about 47-52yrs.. and on top of that, he brought her to my family.. ugh!!! i wish i can have a dad.. but not him.. am i wrong for that?? or is it understandable? it made my wound fresh.. im fkin mad as hell!!!!!
2006-12-07 12:12:35 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You have every right to be upset. Now i think if you still can follow through with it dont give him the feeling that what he did was right or that you even enjoyed it you were a kid and he had no right to do what he did. I myself have been abused as a kid and i didnt do anything against it today i fear that the same person did these things to other people to because i was too emberrassed too ashamed and to and partly felt guilty for it. Im not telling you what to do i didnt have the courage to take HIM on and now i do regret it.
I wish you the best of luck and hope that although you may or may not get through with this you might find peace eventually
2006-12-07 12:27:15 · answer #1 · answered by purple butterfly 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Think about yourself first. If you can truly forgive your dad, then the fact that he has a girlfriend of any age( other than a minor of course), should not make any difference to you in that respect. If it make your wound fresh again then maybe you need to stop trying so hard to forgive him for a wrong he committed to you and your sister in the past. Forgiveness will come and go, and when it does you will know it, just don't try to force it or you will be seriously wasting your time, energy, and emotions. Apparently he likes them rather young, and your best bet would be to stay away from him. i understand the need for a dad, but some things are just not meant to be. Do you have an uncle or someone in your life that sets a good Dad example for you and your sister? Be careful that you do not do the same thing he is doing...Don't look for a father figure in the men you date in other words.
2006-12-07 12:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by missouriaunt 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
i dont have a dad who did that. but my sister is 24 and is dating a 62 year old and i am extermly mad at her for that. i even refuse to talk to her. her bf even has a daughter that is older than her. you are right to be mad at him. how could sombodey do that!
2006-12-07 12:24:40 · answer #3 · answered by death_of_faries 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He is a sexually preditor i would be mad at him too. Wat is that 23 yr old thinking about u should tell her about the sexual harassment
2006-12-07 14:46:29 · answer #4 · answered by wildpalomino 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋